Kuyini amandla wesilisa - wonke umuntu uyazi, kodwa yimuphi amandla omfazi ongaqondakali? Abanye bathi amandla abesifazane - ubuhle nobuhle, abanye - ngobumnene nokuqonda, okwesithathu - ekukwazi ukwenza imilingo nokuqonda ... njengamanje akukho mqondo owodwa wokuthi yini ehlanganisa ngempela amandla obulili besifazane, kodwa uma ucabangela konke ukucabanga okuthandwayo, ungafaka isithombe esiphezulu.
Imfihlakalo Yamandla Amakhosikazi
Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, ukuphila kuye kwacaca ukuthi indlela yabesifazane namandla wesifazane ahlukile kumadoda. Lapho umuntu ephumelela ukunqoba kwangempela, owesifazane angathatha ngobuqili; lapho indoda iphumelela khona, owesifazane uzosebenzisa ukukhohlisa nokuphikisana. Futhi asinakusho ukuthi ezweni lanamuhla, owesifazane kufanele angene kumuntu: engafuni ukucasula u-ego wakhe, uziphatha ngokucophelela nangokuqapha, evame ukwenza "njengomkhadikhazi ompunga" ebuhlotsheni.
Amandla omphefumulo wesifazane ukuguquguquka kwawo, ukuthobeka nokukwazi ukunikeza okuthile, kodwa kunento ethize yedwa. Ngempela, kunjalo, ngobumnene nangenakuqonda, iyakwazi ukufeza noma yini, noma yikuphi emhlabeni wesilisa onzima.
Ngokuvamile, ukuhlakanipha kwamandla namandla omama yizici ezihlobene eduze. Owesifazane ohlakaniphile ngeke azame ukufeza izindlela zakhe zesilisa ngokujwayelekile - ukumemeza, ukuphoqa, ukucindezela. Uzokhetha indlela elula, eguquguqukayo.
Ukuthuthukiswa kwamandla wesifazane
Embuzweni wokuthuthukisa amandla abesifazane, kubalulekile ukuba uhlale unomqondo ozolile. Imfihlo yamandla wesifazane inzulu kakhulu ukuyiqonda ngokushesha. Udinga ukuqala ngezinguquko ezincane kuwe:
- Umthombo wamandla wesifazane ukubekezela nokubekezela okulula! Khumbula lokhu. Ekuthuthukiseni lezi zimfanelo ze-yoga zingakusiza.
- Yenza ukujwayela ukuba ungalokothi ukhala noma uphule.
- Ungasebenzisi amagama angcolile neziqalekiso.
- Lalela ngokucophelela i-interlocutor bese ujwayele ukusebenza ngezimpikiswano.
- Kunoma yisiphi isimo, zama ukufakazela ubufakazi bakho, kodwa gwema ukuphikisana. Lokhu kuzokuvumela ukusungula oxhumana nabo abanjalo nabantu, lapho kuzoba lula ukuthola abalandeli.
Amandla namandla wamakhosi ngokuvamile ahlotshaniswa nobuhle. Ngempela, abantu bazimisele ukudela umuntu omuhle futhi ekuqaleni bazwelana naye. Yingakho embuzweni wokuthi ungathola kanjani amandla abesifazane, umuntu akakwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kokuthuthukisa ukubonakala komuntu. Uma ubheka ngokwengeziwe, unamandla ngokwengeziwe, ikakhulukazi ngokuqondene namadoda.