Cishe konke ukuthanda ubudlelwano kuqala ngokukhanga. Ngokuyinhloko, abesifazane bakhetha umlingani ngezinga elibucayi, futhi konke kwenzeka ngokuvumelana nesimo esisheshayo sezwe lanamuhla. Namuhla kulula kakhulu ukutshela othandekayo "Ukuziqhenya" kunokulwela ukuthuthukisa nokulondoloza ubuhlobo. Ngokusho kwengqondo kwengqondo, imizwa enjalo ingapheli iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-3, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi isenzo se-pheromone siphela futhi inhlekelele ibeka ubuhlobo.
Izikhathi zothando ubudlelwano
- Ukwaneliseka . Kule nkathi konke okwenziwe kwenziwa ngegama luthando, amavesi nezingoma zenziwa. Lo mhlaba ubizwa nangokuthi "uthando lwamakhemikhali" futhi uqhathanise ngomqondo wokujabula. Ngalesi sikhathi, abathandekayo bachitha isikhathi esiningi ndawonye futhi bavakashela imizwa yomunye nomunye.
- Ukugcwalisa okuphezulu . Isigaba esilandelayo ekuthuthukiseni ubudlelwane bothando kuthatha lapho kutholakala ukuzwa kwemizwa. Kungangena ngonyaka noma ngisho nesonto, konke kuxhomeke kumuntu. Noma kunjalo le nkathi yemibhangqwana eminingi yilelo sinyathelo "kusuka othandweni kuya enzondo".
- Ukwenqaba . Lesi simo singaqhathaniswa nokuvuswa, emva kobusuku obudakayo obudakayo. Inkinga yothando ubudlelwane ibhekene nokukhathazeka okujulile kumlingani, ngisho nokucindezeleka . Kule nkathi lapho imibhangqwana eminingi ihlukana khona. Ngokuyinhloko, kwenzeka kaningi ngenxa yesimiso sobugovu: namuhla ngizizwa ngijabule, ngakho-ke sihlangene, futhi kusasa, ngizizwa kabi futhi singavumelani.
- Ukubekezela . Kulesi sigaba sobudlelwane benothando sifinyelela emadodeni nakwabesifazane abasajabulelana futhi sebekulungele ukuzikhandla. Isimo esiyinhloko esizosiza ukubhekana nezinkinga nokufezezela isineke yikukhona kwamanani okuphila. Abalingani kufanele baqonde ngokucacile ukuthi kungani bebonke futhi befuna ukugcina ubuhlobo.
- Isikweletu . Kuyinto inhlanganisela yesineke nomqondo wokusebenza okuzosiza ukubhekana nenkinga ebuhlotsheni bese uqhubekela esiteji esilandelayo.
Abaningi bangasho ukuthi uthando nomsebenzi kukhona imiqondo ehluke ngokuphelele, kodwa kuphela lezo zinkinga ababhekana nazo zikhona isikhathi eside. Njengoba kungase kubonakale kunesimanga, isimiso esithi "Ukugxiliwe - siwa othandweni" kuvame ukusebenza. Akumangalisi ukuthi ugogo wakhe wayephila ngaleyo ndlela, kanti iphesenti lehlukaniso ngaleso sikhathi yayingasondeli. - Hlonipha . Ubudlelwano obuye babhekana nazo zonke izigaba zangaphambili, baba namandla futhi baqala ukubonisa ukubonga nothando. Umuntu ocebile ngokomoya kuphela ongakwazi ukubekezelela nokwenza okuthile ngaphandle komsebenzi .
Ukuqonda ubudlelwano bokuthandana kwengqondo kuzosiza ukugcina ubudlelwane obufudumele futhi uhambe nabo enhliziyweni yakho iminyaka eminingi.