Ephusheni umuntu uvame ukubona abantu abahlukene, kuhlanganise nabangane. Ukuze uqonde ukuthi leli phupho lingasho ukuthini, kubalulekile ukukhumbula izenzo zomfana, ukuthi ubheke kanjani, njll. Kubalulekile ukucabangela imizwelo oyizwayo ngesikhathi ubuthongo.
Yini indoda ejwayelekile ephuphayo?
Ngokuvamile iphupho elinjalo liyisibonelo sokuthi kunezinkinga empeleni ezingakwazi ukuphathwa. Uma umfana edlulayo, kufanele udinga usizo kubantu abaseduze. Ngokuvamile uphupha umfana ojwayelekile ombumbulule - lokhu kuyisibonakaliso esihle, uma uhlangabezana nale njabulo. Isakhiwo esinjalo sisho ukuthi maduzane uzothola izindaba ezinhle. Uma ukugcoba kungakujabulisi kuwe, kufanele ubheke izinkinga emsebenzini. Umbono ebusuku, lapho udansa nomfana, uprofetha inkaba entsha ezoletha imizwelo eminingi epholile. Intombazane iphupho lomfana ojwayele ukumangazela - lesi isibonakaliso esibi, kufanekisela ukukhwabanisa ngisho nokuhlukanisa empeleni.
Ubulili nesoka kubonisa izinguquko eziseduze. Uma ubheka ngaphandle, njengendoda owaziyo, ulala ocansini nomunye wesifazane, khona-ke ungakwazi ukufeza kalula imigomo yakho. Sizokwazi ukuthi kungani indoda ejwayelekile idakiwe. Isakhiwo esinjalo singumlando wezindaba ezimbi. Uma lo muntu ehamba ze, ulindele lesi sifo. Umbono ebusuku, lapho uhlangana nomngane ongazibonanga khona isikhathi eside, uyisimangaliso sokumangala.
Kungani uphupha ukukhuluma nabangani?
Uma ukhuluma ngokuthula nomfana, izinkinga ezikhona zizoxazululwa ngokungalindelekile kuwe. Iphupho lapho kukhona khona ukukhwabanisa kubonisa ukuthi amandla amaningi azosetshenziselwa ukuxazulula izinkinga. Enye iphupho elinjalo lingathathwa njengezincomo, ukuthi kufanelekile ukuhlaziya izinhlelo zakho zesikhathi esizayo, ngoba, mhlawumbe, kukhona izinto ezingathandeki lapho.