Uthando ngukuthi awuboni iziphanzi, abantu abangenamakhaya, abantu abalambile, izidakwa, izidakamizwa, ukukhwabanisa, ukweba kanye nezinye izinto eziningi. Futhi esikhundleni salokho konke, uzwa ukuthi izinyoni zicula kanjani, ucabange ukuthi isimo sezulu sihle kangakanani (ngisho noma kunezimvula emgwaqweni ngeqhwa elimanzi), nokuthi ungakujabulisa kanjani namuhla ngento yothando lwakho.
Uthando ngumqondo wokuthi "Ngifuna ukumenza ajabule kakhulu emhlabeni."
Konke lokhu kuhle kakhulu, kodwa akukhona isikhathi eside. Futhi kuhle kakhulu, lokho kuphila isikhathi esifushane. Manje sizokutshela ukuthi uthando luhlala isikhathi eside nokuthi kungani luphela.
Uthando - ingabe umehluko wobulili?
Ngesiphetho, uthando lomuntu nowesifazane luhlala isikhathi eside kangakanani, ngemva kokufunda isikhathi eside ngalolu daba kwafika ososayensi nabangokwengqondo. Kuvela ukuthi isikhathi salo cishe seminyaka emibili. Lokhu, uma ngabe lo mbhangqwana uhlala ndawonye. Uma ubuhlobo buyimfihlo (isibonelo, nabathandi), ukuwa othandweni kungase kuhlale isikhathi eside.
Abantu banqwenela uthando, ngoba leli zwe lingabonakala ngokuzijabulisa. Ukuzwakalisa noma ukukhohlisa kuhlale kungumfihlo we-adrenaline, i-hormone yokucindezeleka enhle kakhulu, enhle kakhulu. Ngaphansi kwethonya le-adrenaline, inzwa yethu ngayinye iyancipha - iphunga, umsindo, umbono. Akumangalisi ukuthi inani elikhulu lemisebenzi yobuciko liphefumulelwe lo mzwa.
Uthando luphela nini?
Uma uzibuza, uthando luhlala isikhathi eside kangakanani, khona-ke isikhathi sothando lwakho seluvele siphelile.
Iqiniso liwukuthi, ngokuba othandweni, umuntu akakwazi ukucabanga nganoma yini enye, ngaphandle kwendaba yothando lwakhe. Lapha siza ukuthi kungani ukungapheli koluthando akusizi abantu.
Uma singathanda ukuthatha amahora angu-24 ngosuku, konke ukuphila, akekho ozosebenza, afunde, adale, avulekele, impucuko ngeke ivele khona, ngoba abantu bekayeka ukuthuthukisa.
Lapho umfundi edlula ukuhlolwa kokusebenza kwezempi engxenyeni yesibili yekhulu le-15 eFrance, ngenkathi esesithandweni, ngikholelwa, ngeke akwazi ukulungiselela noma ukudlulisa ukuhlolwa. Ngoba, okokuqala, "yena", futhi wonke umhlaba uzolinda.
Ngakho, isibonakaliso sokuqala sokuphela ngumbuzo wesikhathi eside sothando sithatha. Okunye okubonakalayo ekuphileni kwansuku zonke.
Ekuqaleni kobudlelwane, uthethelela umuntu hhayi isihlalo sezindlu zangasese esilahlekile, namasokisi ahlakazekile, futhi kungenwa iminyango yamakhandinethi. Manje, umtshele: "Kwanele!". Ucabanga ukuthi badla ngokugcwele ngendlala yakhe, futhi eminyakeni emithathu wayengafunda ukuhleleka okuthile.
Uma sikhuluma ngomsindo, uthando luhlala isikhathi esingakanani kwabesifazane nokuthi luhlala isikhathi esingakanani kumadoda, ngeke sithole umehluko.
Iqiniso ukuthi ukuwela othandweni -
Uma lokhu kwenzeka, kunezinketho ezimbili:
- ukuhlukanisa nokufuna uthando olusha;
- isayensi yokuhlala ndawonye ndawonye ngokuthula nangothando.
Uma ukhetha ukhetho lwesibili, uzoba nethuba lokukwazi ukuthi uthando lwangempela luyini, futhi aluthandi .