Ukuze kuxoxwe "nabantu abangajwayelekile", ababonakala njengabameleli besigamu esiphezulu sabantu, bebazi kabanzi, kufanelekile ukufunda amaqiniso athakazelisayo ngamadoda.
Amaqiniso anesithakazelo ngamadoda
- Ake siqale ngeqiniso lokuthi amadoda ekucabangeni kwabo ahluke kakhulu kwabesifazane: ukuziphatha kwabo kusekelwe ekubaleni nasekwenzeni ukucabanga, njengoba behlakulela kangcono indawo engakwesobunxele bobuchopho, ngokuphambene nabesifazane besifazane abafanele, abaholwa imizwelo .
- Bathi emhlanganweni wokuqala, amadoda azama "ukuguqula imiphefumulo yawo ngaphakathi," etshela ulwazi olusha lwawo, kodwa bakhetha ukulalela. Ngakho-ke, besifazane, unethuba lokufika ngosuku lokuqala lomlaleli wesiguli.
- Amaphuzu ngamadoda abonisa ukuthi azi ukuthi angamanga kanjani njengabesifazane, kodwa kaningi kunalokho - kungamanga ukusindisa, ukuze ungacasuli futhi ungalimazi umlingani. Ngakho: uqamba amanga, khona-ke uyamthanda.
- Uma ngemuva kokuthandana kokuqala indoda engabizi ngaphakathi kwezinsuku ezintathu, kusho ukuthi akasethiwe ukuba aqhubeke nobuhlobo .
- Amadoda aphikisana ngokumangalisayo: afuna ukulawula ubudlelwane futhi azizwe "okuyinhloko", kodwa nabesifazane abavumelana nabo kukho konke, banesizathu esithile sokuzibamba futhi abangathandeki.
- Amaphuzu ngamadoda aphikisana nesitatimende esithandwayo ukuthi indlela eya enhliziyweni yawo ihlala ngesisu. Hhayi kuphela. Abangaphezu kuka-45% bangathanda ukudla isidlo kanye namadokodo esitolo kanye nomkakhe, owenza i-hairstyle entsha futhi wathenga ingubo egqoke imfashini, hhayi ngomama omuhle wendoda egqoke izingubo zakhe zokugqoke izingubo kanye nezingubo zokugqoka ezazikhonza isidlo sakusihlwa.
- Abaningi bacabanga ukuthi okuphambene nalokho, ngesikhathi socansi, amadoda akhathazeke kakhulu ngokuthi umlingani uthola injabulo ebuhlotsheni obuseduze.
- Amadoda adinga izingane eziningi ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze zicindezele, kodwa ezinye zazo zifuna ngokusobala, futhi omunye umuntu uhlushwa ngaphandle kokuthinta ngobumnene nokuthandana.
Konke lokhu kubonisa ukuthi indoda emphefumulweni ihlala ingumntwana iminyaka eminingi, naphezu kokuzimela nokuzimela. Ngakho baqonde!