Incwadi ene isihloko esiyinkimbinkimbi esithi "Umculi kuWonke" ayifani neze neyodwa yezincwadi ezijwayelekile zokukhulisa izingane. Mhlawumbe ngoba umbhali wakhe uJulia Cameron akayona isazi sezengqondo, noma ozobhapathizwa ngesayensi yengqondo, kodwa umlobi, umbhali wezinkondlo, udlala kanye nemidwebo yesikrini. Kungenzeka ukuthi lokhu kuyimfihlo yale ncwadi - akuyona incwadi yokufunda, akuyona isiqondiso esenzweni, kungumhlobo wengxoxo enobungane nomfundi.
Eqinisweni, le ncwadi ingumthombo wemibono, engasetshenziswa ezindaweni ezihlukene ekuthuthukiseni izingane. Usikhumbuza ukuthi ngamunye wethu, ngokwemvelo, kukhona okuthile okudala! Ukufunda le ncwadi nokusebenzisa amasu okuchazwe ngokusebenza, abazali bangaphinda bazalise izimpahla zabo zemibono eyahlukahlukene ukuze baqhubeke nokusiza izingane zabo ukuba ziqaphele le mibono ngokusebenza.
Ukuzivocavoca okuvela encwadini, okusesahlukweni ngasinye, wena, kanye nomntanakho, uzokwazi ukuthola amathalenta namakhono. Ngempela, ubuciko yinqubo ethakazelisayo eyenza kungenzeki nje ukuba nesikhathi esihle, kodwa futhi ukwakha izithakazelo namakhono ezinganeni, ikakhulu uma zikhula.
Ngosizo lwencwadi ethi "The Artist ku-Wonke umuntu" ungakwazi ukumathinta kalula ingane ekudaleni kokubonakaliswa okungavamile kakhulu, ngoba ngisho ukusebenza ekhaya, ukuhlanza, noma yini - ingaba yinto ejabulisayo! Lokhu kwenza kube nokwenza isimo sengqondo esihluke ngokuphelele ukusebenza emntwaneni, kanye nesimo sengqondo esihle kunezici eziningi zokuphila kakade "okudala".
Enye ayiyona into engabalulekile nakakhulu yale ncwadi - kufanele ihlanganise ukuklama, okuyinto, ngokungangabazeki, inikeza isisekelo esibalulekile sokwakha ukuxhumana okuqinile nengane. Ngempela, ukuba ngumzali akukona nje ukunakekelwa kanye nomthwalo wemfanelo, futhi kuyinto enhle kakhulu, amaqhawe ongaziba ndawonye!
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuhlanganyela ekudaleni nengane yakho kuzokusiza ukuba uthuthukise amakhono amasha, noma uzithole ngokwakho. Phela, akuwona wonke umzali ebuntwaneni bakhe owayenethuba lokubandakanya ubuciko, futhi ngokuqinisekile abaningana bethu babephatha umsebenzi wesikole ngomdlandla, okwedlulele kancane. Ngakho-ke, le ncwadi imane nje ithola umzali onakekelayo, okuzokusiza kunoma yisiphi isimo ukuba nesikhathi esihle nengane yakho.
Inkulu enkulu yale ncwadi yikuthunyelwa kolwazi olulula futhi oluphezulu - umlobi wakwazi ukuveza konke ayekufunayo ngendlela ethakazelisayo futhi ethakazelisayo, ngokuphoqa ngenhloso enkulu ukuqhubeka nokufunda isahluko esilandelayo.