Inkulumo enhle iyingxenye yesithombe sakho. Kukholelwa ukuthi inkulumo ingama-25 amaphesenti womqondo jikelele womuntu. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, izaziso ze-interlocutor kuqala kokuhle nokubhala nokukhuluma, kodwa futhi izwi nokudama kubalulekile.
Ngisho nalapho ukukhulumisana kwakho kunomkhawulo kumndeni wakho kanye nomakhelwane, ukwazi ukuthi ukuxhumana kahle nabantu kuzogcinwa kanjani ezimweni ezahlukene zokuphila. Abantu bazokuzwa bese babheka ngemibono yakho, ekugcineni, uzoba nje okhulumisana kakhulu, othanda ukumkhuluma naye. Uma usebenza eqenjini, ingxoxo efanelekayo izosiza umsebenzi wakho, ukwandise ukubaluleka kwakho emehlweni abanye, ufanelwe inhlonipho kubalingani bakho. Lokhu kuyoba usizo oluhle kakhulu kuzo zonke izinkulumo ezinkomfeni nasemhlanganweni. Inhloko noma umuntu ofaka isicelo salesi sikhundla uphoqelekile ukwazi ukuthi kufanele akhulume kahle kanjani kahle ngoba ubhekene nenkampani, futhi inkulumo iyamsiza ukuba ahole abantu kuye, athole abalingani bebhizinisi, baphethe amadili. Ngokuphambene nesichazamazwi esimpofu nokuhluleka ukuqinisa i-interlocutor kungabangela inkathazo emzuzwana onzima kakhulu.
Ukufunda ukukhuluma kahle
- Uma ufuna ukufunda indlela yokukhuluma kahle, bese uthatha umkhuba wokufunda, okungenani imizuzu eyishumi nesishiyagalolunye ngosuku futhi umhlabeleli kubo bonke abavamile - kuyisampula yenkulumo yobuciko. Ukufunda kuthuthukisa inkulumo, kukhulisa isilulumagama, kusiza umuntu ukuba akhe imisho ngendlela efanele futhi acacise imicabango. Ngokuzithandela uzokhumbula amanye amagama nezinkulumo ongazisebenzisa uma uxoxa.
- Ngesikhathi sokuzilibazisa, ukutadisha okufanayo. Bayosiza ekuboniseni ngokunembile imicabango yakho futhi kuzogwema engxoxweni amagama-amaphilisi, imigqa kanye nokungahambisani, okwenza inkulumo yesikhulumi ingabizi kahle, ingaqondakali futhi icasule i-interlocutor.
- Ungasebenzisi amagama ongawazi incazelo. Izincazelo ezichazayo nezichazayo zolimi lwesiRashiya zizosiza ukwandisa ulwazi lwakho lwamagama. Khumbula ukucindezeleka okulungile kwamagama.
- Yandisa isikhathi sokukhuluma. Uma kungekho muntu ongakhuluma naye, vula i-TV uphinde uzame ukulungisa inkulumo yommemezeli. Ukufeza umphumela oyifunayo, udinga ukukhuluma ngokuzwakalayo. Njengomphumela walezi zivivinyo, uzokwengeza isitoreji se-lexical, futhi uzokwakha inkulumo ebushelelezi ngezinyathelo ezifanele zendawo.
- Khipha enkulumweni yakho amagama angenangqondo engangeze incazelo futhi ungathinti noma yiluphi ulwazi kulokho okwakushiwo.
- Ngokuzilibazisa, buyisa umuntu othanda ama-movie nezincwadi. Qaphela, ngokuphendula kwezilaleli enkulumweni yakho bese uzama ukuvusa isithakazelo sabo.
- Gwema ukuyeka okude futhi ugcine ukuhambisana kwenkulumo.
- Ikhono lokunikeza ulwazi ngokunembile futhi lungahle lingafundwa ngokwenza umsebenzi olandelayo - "ukukhuluma lutho." Zama imizuzu engama-5, bhala ulimi oluhle lokubhala ngento, isibonelo, mayelana nekhamera, bese ukhetha enye indaba yokuxoxa. Khulisa kancane kancane isikhathi sokuzivocavoca. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ungakwazi ukuxhumana kalula kunoma yisiphi isihloko.
- Ungasebenzisi amagama nezinhlamba. Ungasebenzisi imigomo yesayensi engaziwa kwabanye. Futhi gwema imishwana yephethini.
- Izwi lomculo kuphela ngeke lenze ingxoxo yakho ifunde, udinga amakhono amaningi ukuze ulungise imisho ngendlela efanele, ukuveza imibono ngokucacile nangembile. Ukuze uthuthukise lamakhono, zama ukuthola incazelo yegama, isibonelo "enhle ..." Noma ephepheni bhala amagama bese uveza imisho. Lapho uphuma ngokwengeziwe, kungcono.
- Ukuqeqeshwa kwansuku zonke kuthuthukisa indlela yokukhuluma. Hlala ngesibuko bese uzitshela ngosuku lwakho lwamanje, ukulawula ukuthinta nokubonisa ubuso.
Umuntu owaziyo futhi owaziyo ukukhuluma ngokuhlakanipha nabantu abakuzungezile uthathwa njengokuhlakanipha nokufundiswa. Funda ukukhuluma kahle, ufuna ukufezekisa impumelelo empilweni?