Uma ubheka izinto eziningi ze-TV ezihlekisayo, ezivame kakhulu esikhathini sethu, ngokuqinisekile uhleka ngamahlaya azwile kusuka kusikrini se-TV. Kuwe, ungabona ukuthi abaholi bezinhlelo ezinjalo banomqondo omuhle wokukhala futhi ufike ezingeni labo ngokuhleka, ekhula futhi ekhula.
Ukuthuthukiswa kwemizwa yinto elula engadingi umzamo omkhulu, kodwa iveza ukuthi kukhona ulwazi oluthile lokufunda. Ngokuvamile kuvunywa ukuthi amahlaya yikhono lokuthola ezinye izinto ezibuciko ezinkingeni zansuku zonke. Akekho abantu abangenakho ukuhleka usulu nhlobo, kungenxa yokuthi abanye abantu ngenxa yethonya lezici ezihlukahlukene zomphakathi indlela yokucabanga ihluke kulowo owemukelekile ngokuvamile futhi izinto ezibonakala sengathi zihlabelela abantu abaningi aziqondakali kalula.
Ungayithuthukisa kanjani umuzwa wakho wehlaya?
Ungathuthukisa umuzwa wakho wokuhleka usulu ngosizo lwezivivinyo ezithile:
- Khetha noma yiliphi lezinhlamvu zamagama bese uzama ngamagama aqala ngalo, ukwakha umusho wamazwi angu-10-12.
- Yenza lo msebenzi izikhathi eziningana.
- Phinda ufunde imisebenzi yakho nokumomotheka.
Lo msebenzi ngeke uthathe imizuzu engama-5 ngosuku. Ikhuthaza ukuthuthukiswa kwamakhono okusiza ukuba avele amahlaya abo, futhi angasebenzisi ama-humor aselevele ekhulumweni.
Umuntu ongenakho ukuhleka kwemizwa, njengombuso, ucabanga ngendlela enhle kakhulu. Abantu abanjalo abafuni ukuphuza isikhathi futhi bahlele isimiso sabo samasonto noma ngisho nezinyanga ezizayo, ngakho-ke noma yiziphi izimo zamandla amakhulu eziholela ekutheni zicindezeleke futhi azikho nhlobo isikhathi sokuzimela. Umqondo oqhamukayo wokuhleka usulu kuyisici esiyigugu kakhulu esinobuciko esisiza abantu ngokushesha futhi bahlukane nezimo ezibucayi kakhulu ekuphileni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokuqinisekile, wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi ukuhleka, noma kunalokho injabulo ehambisana nayo, kuthuthukisa isimo sengqondo, futhi ngenxa yalokho, kukhulisa ukuphila.
Ukuzivocavoca ukuthuthukisa umuzwa wokuhlekisa
Akubona bonke abantu ngokwemvelo abanelungelo lokuhleka ngokuhleka nokuhleka usulu, abaningi banesithakazelo embuzweni othi "Ungakwazi yini ukuthuthukisa amahlaya?"
Ukuze amahlaya akho aqondakale kuwo wonke umuntu, udinga ukucubungula izingxenye ezimbili ezibalulekile:
- Uthande wena kanye nezwe elikuzungezile. Yilesi sigaba esibamba indima ebaluleke kakhulu endleleni obona ngayo abanye. Uma ungeke ufunde ngokuzimela lo msebenzi olula, sicela ucele usizo oluvela kumuntu owazi iphuzu. Ngokushesha kufanelekile ukucacisa ukuthi lapha akusho ukuthi umuntu onokuphila okucebile, kodwa umuntu othanda ukuphila kunoma yikuphi ukubonakaliswa kwawo. Umfundisi ongcono kakhulu kulokhu angasebenza njengabantwana bokufunda esikoleni esiphakeme. Izazi zengqondo zithi kwakuyizinyanga lapho ingane ithanda futhi iyakwamukela abanye njengoba ikhona.
- Ikhono lokuzihleka. Yeka ukuzicabangela ngokwakho futhi uzibophezele ngokweqile okungekho emthethweni ebhizinisini noma ukubhuka, ngoba kuvela emandleni akho okuhleka nawe ukuthi kunomphumela wokuhleka usulu ukuthi ungabonisa bonke abakuzungezile.
Yini enquma umqondo wamahlaya
Ikhono lokukhanyisa amahlaya ngokuqondile lixhomeke ku-erudition yakho, silulumagama, ukucabanga okuhlangene, amakhono okwenza. Iningi elikhulu lamasu ahlekisayo asekelwe ekutheni adlale ngamagama, futhi uma isilulumagama sakho sincane, khona-ke kuyoba nzima kakhulu. Abantu abanokuzihlambalaza bathambekele ekucabangeni ngokuzibandakanya, ngenxa yokuthi yiziphi iziqu eziguqukayo ezikhulayo ngokuzikhandla ekhanda labo. Ikhono lika-Actor lingakusiza ukuba ulethe ngisho nehlaya elivamile kakhulu ngendlela abalaleli abayoyihleka ngayo yonke into oyishoyo. Smile futhi wenze abanye bajabule ngamahlaya abo.