Abesifazane nabesilisa bayakubiza ngokuhlukile, ngokombono wokuqala, ukukhuliswa, kuyilapho lesi sibonelo sibheka ukuthi siphumelele ebuchosheni, ekuboneni, njll. Ngokusho kwabameleli bobulili obuthakathaka, konke abakwenzayo kungenxa yobuhle bobudlelwane, futhi hhayi ngandlela-thile bahlazise noma bahlambalaze othandekayo. Ukuze uqonde ngokugcwele le nkinga, kubalulekile ukulalela umbono wezinhlangothi zombili.
Umbono womuntu
Cishe wonke amalungu ilungu elinamandla, wonke amanoveli akhula ngokuvumelana nesimo esifanayo. Ekuqaleni, konke kubukeka njengenganekwane. Uthando, uthando, uzizwe njengeqhawe, kodwa ubuhlobo buya ezingeni elisha futhi usuvele uhlanganyela nengxenye yesibili yendawo yokuphila evamile. Yilapho ukuqala kumnandi. Ngesizathu esithile, indoda ethandekayo iphenduka isidalwa esingenalutho, okuyilokho kuphila okungenakukwazi lutho. Ngokuvamile, ukuze umuntu engenzi lokho, uzobe enecala lokuthile, futhi kunzima ukuhlala kanje, futhi akunakulinganiswa. Lapha, isibonelo, yisimo esivamile kakhulu: "Owesifazane ulungisa isidlo sakusihlwa futhi ucela ukuthi othandekayo athenge ama-herbs, futhi njalo nje ukhohlwa. Ngenxa yesikhalazo, uphinde abuyele esitolo futhi alethe izingalo ezinkulu zeparsley ethembeni lokuzwa amagama okudumisa. Kodwa kunalokho, othandekayo ovela emnyango uyabuza, futhi akakwazanga ukuthenga isinkwa, ngoba wayazi ukuthi wayephelile. " Ezikhathini ezinjalo, wonke umuntu ufuna ukuqhuma ukuphonsa le mifino ebusweni bakhe abathandekayo baphenduka bese behamba. Lokhu kungenxa yabo futhi kukhona ukubona nokususwa kobuchopho.
Yisiphi isizathu?
Konke ukusola ukungaqondi kahle komunye nomunye. Ngesizatfu esithile, abesifazane abaningi bacabanga ukuthi amadoda enza konke ngokuphambana, isibonelo, ukhohlwa ukuthenga okuthile, ukuhalalisela umzala wakho ngosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa, ubize ipelsela, njll. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi yini engqondweni yomuntu wonke, futhi lo muntu akayena ohlukile, ulwazi oluningi nolwazi ngezinye izikhathi lukhungathekile kangangokuthi awukwazi ukukhumbula igama lakho. Ngakho-ke, ukuze ugweme zonke izinhlobo zokuhlambalaza nokuhlambalaza, vele ukhumbuze othandekayo wakho futhi lokho okudingeka akwenze, khona-ke ngeke kube khona ukusika.
Mhlawumbe, abesifazane abaningi lokhu kuyinkinga yangempela, ngoba bangasho ukuthi: "Awukwazi ukwenza noma yini, bonke abantu banjengabantu, futhi awunamandla. Nsuku zonke ngawe ngenza konke okusemandleni futhi enginakwenzeka ... ", esikhundleni sokungena esikhundleni sonke ngokuthi inkulumo evamile:" Thatha udoti ". Ngikholelwa, akekho ozoyiqonda isicelo, uma usho konke njengokwokuqala, ngakho-ke funda ukuveza imicabango yakho ngokucacile nangokucacile.
Ukungabikho okuphelele
Umuntu onothando uhlale egcwalisa izicelo zowesifazane wakhe, yebo, uma zikhona isizathu. Kodwa uma izifiso zakho zishintsha yonke isigamu sehora, isibonelo, yenzeni, cha, ungenzi, njll. Indoda izothathwa njengokubona futhi ngokuqinisekile iyokusho ukuthi awukwazi ukuthi yini oyifunayo. Ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokuba ucele okuthile, chaza ngokucacile lokho okufunayo bese usho umqondo wakho.
Ukufunda ukuhluka
Uma ucabangela zonke lezi zifiso futhi uqale ukuziphathisa njengowesifazane ohlakaniphile , khona-ke akukho lutho lokuluqeda. Ubulili obuqinile, Yebo, lungakwazi kakhulu, kodwa nje awufundi imibono, ngakho uma ufuna okuthile, ungalindeli ukuthi uzoqagela, kodwa usho njalo. Ngakho-ke, ngeke udumale kuye, futhi ngeke kudingeke ahlaziye ubuchopho bakhe futhi aqagele ukuthi yisiphi isizathu 'sezindebe zakho ezifakiwe.' Owesifazane onetalenta elinjalo uyigugu, indoda izokulungela ukuthwala ngezandla zayo futhi igcwalise zonke izidingo nezifiso.