Ukuze uqonde ngokucacile, umphakathi womphakathi wanamuhla ukhula, ukungabikho okungenakuqhathaniswa okufana nokuhlukumezeka okukhulu nokucabangela ukuhlukumezeka kwemimoya.
Ulalele abesifazane kuyo yonke indawo futhi yonke indawo. Ezimweni eziningi, ngokushesha awukwazi ukuqonda lokho ngaphambi kokuba u-misogynist - lo mmele wesahlulelo esibi mayelana nabesifazane. Edivayisini yomsebenzi omusha, ekhonsathini noma ezokuthutha zomphakathi, esiteshini sesevisi noma esitolo sokudlela, ngezifundo zokuqeqesha eziphambili noma e-resort. La madoda anjalo. Futhi ukubonakala kwalokhu kusenyakatho kuyiqiniso ngempela UKUKHENZISA owesifazane.
Ivelaphi i-misogynists?
O, banezizathu eziningi zokuthi lokhu kusebenze engxenyeni ebuthakathaka yesintu. Futhi, kubalulekile ukuphawula, akuzona zonke izinto ezingenasisekelo futhi ezingenasisekelo. Ngingathanda ukukusho ukuthi lapho kuvela lo mkhuba, bobabili abesifazane nabesilisa banecala elifanayo. Kunezizathu ezimbalwa eziyinhloko zokuthi kungani umuntu engazi kahle. Ngokusekelwe kubo, ama-misogynists afanayo angahlukaniswa abe izinhlobo eziningana.
Thayipha eyodwa: i-smart
Isimo sengqondo esivame kakhulu kubantu besifazane kuyinto "inkukhu ephuphuthekisa". Lo mqondo othobekayo okhohlisayo ukholelwa ukuthi ungumuntu ohlakaniphile kakhulu kunanoma yimuphi owesifazane. "Uzothatha ukuthini naye?" Uyithambo! "- uthi, ngokubhekisela emqondweni weBhayibheli wokudala owesifazane.
Qaphela lokhu kulula. Bathukuthele kakhulu ngokuthi abesifazane abahlanganyeli ebhizinisini labo, lapho behlanganyela ezombusazwe, ebhizinisini noma ngisho noma yini ngaphandle kokuphila. Bakholelwa ukuthi indawo yowesifazane usekhishini. Uma ungene ngemvume ezinkampanini ukuthi umngane wakho ungumuntu ohlukumezekile kangaka, bukeka kahle. Ngokuqinisekile uyozama ukukucindezela ekwenzeni izinqumo ezinyathelweni zokuqala, futhi ngokuphindaphindiwe uzokuzama ukubusa, ekholelwa ukuthi uyazi konke kangcono. Esikhathini esizayo, kungase kuvinjelwe ngisho nokusebenza noma ukubandakanya noma yini ngaphandle kwezingane nasekhaya.
Isizathu salesi simo sengqondo silula. Indoda ingase isabe ngokucophelela ukuthi owesifazane uzoba into engcono kunaye, ehlakaniphile, ephumelele kakhulu. Ekujuleni, njengoba uqonda, ukuxuba kokungahambisani nakho kufihlekile.
Thayipha ezimbili: ushiywe
Ukuqiniseka kwakhe okungcwele ukuthi "bonke abesifazane bayizifebe." "O, owesifazane, igama lakho liyikhohlisi!" I-misogynist izokucaphuna, futhi ibheka ngenhlanhla kusuka phezulu, ithi ikuvulile, uyazi ukuthi ikuphi nokuthi ikuphi.
Kubonakala kahle kusuka kude, kudingekile ukuyixosha ukuze uxoxe ngalesi sihloko. Njengaye, nginomngane oyedwa, ulapha kabi kakhulu kumfana - ushintshiwe-ukhonjwe-kwesokunxele-eshiyiwe. Futhi-ke-lalela futhi ubukele. Lesi sihloko sibuhlungu futhi cishe uyosabela ekuziphatheni kwentombi ekhohlisayo.
Mayelana nezizathu ozicabangayo, mhlawumbe ngokwakho. Ngesinye isikhathi, owesifazane wamshintsha. Wakholwa, futhi yena-njengawo. Lolu hlobo ngeke luze lukhumbule ukuthi kungani kungani owesifazane enza lokho. Le ndoda i-misogynist izoyithatha i-axiom yokuthi iyingxenye yesifazane futhi izokuphatha ngendlela efanele.
Kodwa-ke, kukhona okunye okukhethwa kukho: umndeni oshiye umndeni, unikelwa umngane wowesifazane, njll Noma yisiphi isimo lapho indoda "ihaqwe ngomunwe" futhi ihlazekile.
Thayipha kathathu: awunelisekile
Lezi zihluthulelo, okushoyo, ezingabonakali ngobuhle. Ukuntula ukunakwa kwengxenye yowesifazane, ukuhluleka, uthando olungenakuqhathaniswa, olwandiswa ukuqonda okungaqondakali kokuhluleka komuntu nokuphulukisa kwakhe - i-misogynist ilungile.
Lezi zivame ukuqinisekiswa ngokwezindleko zabesifazane. Ziyizihambeli ezivame ngezifundo zokupaka. Lapho bafunda abahluleli futhi baqala ukubeka isitoreji sabo bonke abesifazane abakuzungezile ngokushesha embhedeni, bese bethola injabulo ekhethekile ekusebenziseni "ukuwaphonsa".
Endaweni ethile ekujuleni bayaqonda ukuthi lona wesifazane wayeyimbangela yezinkinga zakhe nokuziphendulela, futhi lokhu, njengendlela yokusabela ngokwemvelo, kubangela ukuhlukumezeka ngenxa yeso sizathu.
Thayipha I-Four: Iphindiselele
Yebo, wonke owesifazane uhlangabezane nalokhu kanye nokuphila kwakhe!
Yena umakhelwane eduze "oshiywe", kodwa uma ezonda abesifazane ngenxa yecala lakhe siqu, ke umphindiseli - ukuzimisela ukuthola wonke amadoda. Kuye kuyindaba yokuhlonipha. Umphindiseli we-misogynist ukholelwa ngokwethembeka ukuthi bonke abesifazane bayama-bitches, futhi maduzane noma kamuva bazobonisa isimo sabo esibi nesinengiso.
Ngokuvamile ukukhangisa ngokobulili, okwenza kube lula ukudukisa owesifazane, scowl bese-ukubuyisa-ukubuyisa-ukubuyisa. Ngokusemthethweni, kwanele ukuhlangabezana nalolu hlobo lwamazwi-mbumbulu kanye, ukuze ungawa ngezinkambiso ezinjalo.
Thayipha amahlanu: umona
Kusuka egameni liyacaca lapho indawo yakhe embi khona. Le misogynist ithanda ukuphinda lokho, bathi, kulula kubantu besifazane ukuba baphile, ngoba konke kunikezwa "nje ngamehlo amahle." Bonke abesifazane abasolwa ngokudayisa ubufebe, bahlambalaza ukufeza imigomo ngokusebenzisa umbhede.
Ngakho-ke, ihlanganisa ukwehluleka kwayo. Ucabanga ukuthi lona wesifazane uyindalo, kepha yena awunalutho, futhi uyaphazamisa kuphela impumelelo yakhe yesilisa nempumelelo yakhe. Yiqiniso, akakwazi ukwenza lokho. Yena, ompofu, kufanele enze konke yena ngokwakhe. Ukusuka lapho, nomona. Futhi - inzondo.
Ngokuvamile, ama-misogynists esikhathini sethu ayinhlekelele. Ngokulinganiselwa kumhlaba wezinkulungwane eziyizigidi eziyizinkulungwane ezintathu, zonke izinkulungwane ezingamashumi ayisithupha zingu-misogynist. Kulo mbono, amadoda ahlangane hhayi okubi kakhulu kunothando lwabo lwebhola. Cishe wonke amadolobha ane-club yakhe ye-misogynists, futhi, njengomthetho, akekho owodwa.
Ngokwehlukana kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi ABANINGI abaningi besifazane kufanele bazibeke icala. Ayikho intuthu ngaphandle komlilo, niyazi. Zama ukuba uhlakaniphe ngokuhlakanipha futhi ungaphathi amadoda ngokunganhlonipho, ngokuthenga. Futhi, mhlawumbe, amadodakazi ethu nabazukulu bayo ngeke banqatshelwa ukubhekana nalesi simo esiphikisanayo sokubuka umhlaba.