Ukudala umndeni yiphupho labantu abaningi: kokubili amadoda nabesifazane. Yiqiniso, ngentombazane lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu, ngoba kufanele futhi acabange ngokuzalwa kwezingane, futhi ubudala kule ndaba bangaba yisigungu. Ngakho-ke, abesifazane abaningi abasha banesithakazelo sokuthola indoda ngobuhlobo obunzima .
Indlela nokuthi ungayitholaphi indoda ebuhlotsheni obungathí sina?
Lo mbuzo awusoze ulahlekile: ngokuvamile umuntu obonakala enhle futhi onothando, elinde okuthile, akenzi isipho, futhi intombazane ayikwazi ukuthi ibe kanjani esimweni esinjalo. Futhi kwenzeka ukuthi empilweni yakhe yokuphila kukhona ngokuyinhloko amadoda anjalo abonakala bengenasithakazelo ebuhlotsheni obungathí sina, ngakho akucaci ukuthi ungayitholaphi indoda emndenini omuhle. Emva kwakho konke, kuvame ukuthi kwenzeke ukuthi indoda inomlingana kuphela nokuya ocansini okusheshayo. Kukhona ngisho nezobuchwepheshe lapho, lapho behlangana nomunye umuntu, zama ukuhlola intombazane ngandlela-thile, ukuthola ukuthi uzokwazi yini ukuyihudula embhedeni namuhla. Futhi, ukuziphatha ngokungapheli futhi ngokuzethemba, ubungozi bokuba inkosikazi yomuntu ongaziwa. Ngakho izazi zengqondo zeluleka amantombazane ngosuku lokuqala:
- ungalokothi uphuze utshwala (lokhu kuyilingo lomuntu lokufinyelela);
- yenza konke, ngisho necala elingenacala ngokuphelele, izicelo zomuntu omusha owaziwayo (futhi lokhu kuyisivivinyo sabathandi bezokuzijabulisa ebusuku ukuze kulawulwe).
Lokhu kuzovumela intombazane ukuthi ikhulume ngokulingana okulinganayo, hhayi ukuba isisulu noma "inkomo embukisweni".
Okokuqala, njengokuxazulula inkinga yokuphila, kufanele unqume ukuthi yini le ntombazane efuna ngokuqondile. Kusobala ukuthi ukuthola umuntu ngokuphila, kodwa yini? Izazi zengqondo zeluleka ukuthi uthathe iphepha bese ubhala phansi lokho intombazane efuna kumlingani wokuphila. Yiqiniso, ungakwazi ukubhala noma yikuphi, kodwa kungcono ukuthi ungabandakanyi futhi ushiye kuphela okubaluleke kakhulu. Kulesi simo kuyadingeka ukuba ube yiqiniso. Ake sithi uma intombazane ingakwazi ukuma, lapho umuntu ekhuluma naye efonini yakhe, kufanele ususe abantu bhizinisi ngokushesha. Kubalulekile ukuba babe nokuxhumana, futhi ngeke abe ngowokuqala ukuwuthanda, uma emphonsa umsebenzi - futhi uhlala entanyeni yentombazane.
Uma intombazane inqume lokho akufunayo ekupheleleni, idinga ukubuka uhlu futhi ucabange ukuthi ingayitholaphi indoda yamaphupho akhe. Isibonelo, uma sikhangisa amadoda aqinile, asemzimbeni enomfanekiso omuhle kanye nohlobo oluthile lokuchuma, kunengqondo ukuthenga ukubhalisa esikhungweni sokufaneleka sempilo futhi, lapho ethola isitifiketi esihle sezemidlalo nesithombe semidlalo, ukubuza indoda enhle ukuthi ithande ukunikeza izeluleko zobuchwepheshe kuma-simulators.
Uma intombazane ibuza ukuthi uzotholaphi umuntu ocebile, khona-ke kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yezintambo zakhe ze-fashion, zokudlela ezibizayo, ama-premieres ahloniphekile ematokisini. Ugqoke, kufanele kube njalo okubizayo futhi okungenakuqondakala, ukuze umfokazi omuhle ombonile angacabangi ukuthi okokuqala uzofuna ukumbheka ngezicathulo ezihloniphekile. Okufanele ukukhulume ngakho, kungcono futhi ukunquma kusengaphambili - futhi kungcono hhayi ngezinhlobo zezokuvuna, kodwa mayelana nobuciko be-Middle Ages noma mayelana nomdlalo wegalofu. Futhi kuyinto efiselekayo ukuthi intombazane ngempela
Akunakwenzeka ukuphendula ngokungapheli umbuzo wokuthi ungathola kanjani indoda enhle emndenini. Kodwa kuyacaca ukuthi ukuyibheka akufanele yini. Ngaphandle kwentombazane izohlangana ne-teetotaler ebhasini, nomuntu womndeni ku-nightclub. Indawo yokuhlangana kumele ikhethwe ngokuhlakanipha. Khona-ke umbuzo wokuthi ungathola kanjani indoda ehloniphekile uzosondelana nomphendvulo omuhle.
Kodwa ngokujwayelekile, konke kunqunywe yikusasa - kudingekile kuphela ukukusiza, bese konke kuzokwenzeka ngokwakho futhi ngeke kube khona imibuzo enjalo.