Inxantathu yesithando njalo isifundo esiyiqiniso, nokho endala njengezwe lethu. Sekuphelile kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, kusukela esikhathini esidlule. Ezikhathini zasendulo, ngisho noma kwakukhona ukubhula kontantathu yothando, nakho kwafika kithi. Izinxantathu zinezinhlanganisela ezihlukene: amadoda amabili nowesifazane phezu kongxantathu; abesifazane ababili nendoda. Mhlawumbe esikhathini sethu kukhona ezinye izinketho, kodwa sizoziyeka. Nakuba, abantu abaningi abesilisa nabesifazane babambisana ngokuhlangene (okungenani kanye).
Uthande unxantathu osendaweni yokubuka kwengqondo - umugqa omuhle kakhulu phakathi kwakho akufanele ube khona. Abantu abaningi ngisho bathandana no-triangles uthando, ukudlala ngomlilo ngabaningi kuyisici. Ukuphonsa i-adrenaline, bakhuthazelela kalula izimo ezifanayo. Abanye abafuni noma abakwazi ukukhetha. Kodwa isimo esinjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi sihambisana nokungabaza, imizwa, ukucindezeleka. Ukuhlupheka yizwi elifanelana kakhulu.
Uthande triangle uqala kuphi? Umlingo wezinxantathu zothando. Mhlawumbe lapho bebona kuqala, kusukela emhlanganweni ababehamba kuwo futhi abangazange bamkhaphele. Uzwela, wonke owesifazane ngokwemvelo udlala ngothando. Ungawa othandweni, ungakhohlwa ...
Uma uhlaziya izindaba eziningana zezintathu, khona-ke ungasho ngokuphepha ukuthi owesithathu ungenangqondo - ungumuntu oseduze, kahle, cishe njalo. Abathandi abayingozi kunazo zonke: umngane noma intombi.
Love Triangle - yini okufanele uyenze?
Uma ngokungazelelwe, ngengozi, ube yisihloko sontathu, uhlole ngokwanele isimo. Ngaphandle kwemizwelo engadingekile. Zama ukuqonda ukuthi ufuna ukuthatha indawo kule mpi. Thatha izibuko ezinemibala ebomvu bese ubheka isihloko sothando lwakho. Mhlawumbe uhlola ngokucophelela okwenzekayo, uzoqonda ukuthi umuntu onemizwa yalokhu akufanele. Futhi kuyoba ngcono ukuphenduka bese ushiya. Ungadli isikhathi sakho futhi ungazisoli okwenzekayo.
Kungase kube khona isimo lapho umyeni wakho nomngani wakho omkhulu behlanganisiwe. Amantombazane akhangwa kakhulu kumadoda, ayathandeka kubo. Kodwa amadoda, njengombuso, awunaki kakhulu izibopho ezinjalo. Kubo, mhlawumbe akuyona into engathà sina.
Ungaphuma kanjani kunxantathu yothando?
Isixazululo esinembile kunazo zonke ezimweni ezinjalo kuyoba ngokwakho ukuxazulula konke ngesikhathi esisodwa. Ukuvuma noma ukulala ngokocansi, okumele uhlale naye, obani okufanele ukhethe. Mhlawumbe lokhu ngeke kwenzeke, abantu bavame ukubambezeleka. Abenqikazi ukwenza izinqumo. Ukuze wazi ngokujulile noma cha ngokujulile kufanele udlule isikhathi, udinga ukuhlola imizwa. Kodwa ezimweni ezinjalo, isikhathi sisebenza ngokumelene nathi.
Njengoba ufunde ngokukhashelwa komyeni wakhe, ungamcindezeli masinyane, mhlawumbe kungumcimbi futhi konke akuyona into embi. Mnike ithuba. Futhi noma kunjalo, ungamkhumbuli ngezenzo zakhe ezihlazozayo. Masiqonde ukuthi uyithande kakhulu kuwe. Abesifazane bahlale benesineke ngaphezu kwamadoda. Mthethelele. Kungcono ukugcizelela isitha. Ungacabangi ukuthi umphikisana noma umphikisana noxantathu wakho uzozifihla futhi ulinde ukuthi kuphele. Bazokwenza. Empi, zonke izindlela zilungile. Ungasheshi ukwenza iphutha.
Empandeni, lolu hlobo lwenhlekelele aluqondi ngokuphelele, ngisho nemibono edidekile ngocansi nothando. Ngezinye izikhathi asikwazi ukuhlukanisa ukukhathazeka okuvela emizwa yangempela. Ukukhathazeka ngalokho kanye nesithando. Ukuthi konke kwenzeka ngokushesha, ngokuzenzekelayo, ngokuphazima kweso futhi ngokushesha. Futhi siqala ukuvuna izithelo zethu.
Inxantathu yesithando ngabantu abantu abathathu abangathokozi kakhulu. Futhi wonke umuntu akajabuli ngendlela yakhe. Ungavumeli noma uqale ubuhlobo obunjalo. Zizinakekele. Okuqhubekayo, okwesabisa kakhulu nokudideka. Ngolunye usuku, sonke isimo singavela ekulawuleni kwakho.
Unxantathu ubuhle uma ubungane. Kwezinye izimo, ungakwazi njalo ukubhujiswa nguwe noma omunye umuntu.