Kuyinto engavamile ukuhlangana nabantu abazethemba ngokuphelele ngokwabo kanye namakhono abo. Abaningi babo bayesaba, ezinye izinkimbinkimbi nezinqabela ezibavimbela ekuzidaluleni ngokuphelele, baqaphele amandla abo okugcwele. Abaningi bangathanda ukwazi ukuthi bangakholelwa kanjani bese bethola ukuzethemba , ngoba kuzovula amathuba amasha kubo.
Ungakholelwa kanjani amandla akho?
- Okokuqala, ungenzi ukuqhathanisa nokufana nabanye abantu futhi uqonde ukuthi umuntu ngamunye uhlukile futhi ngamunye unezinzuzo zombili nezimo eziyingozi. Udinga ukuzidumisa yonke impumelelo encane, yonke ukunqoba okuncane futhi uzame ngesikhathi esilandelayo sokwenza kangcono nakakhulu.
- Kodwa-ke, abaningi kunzima ukuqala. Besaba ukuthi ngeke bakwazi ukubhekana nalokhu, besaba ukuthi kuzoba khona kabi. Labo abanesithakazelo sokukholelwa kubo ngokwabo futhi, musa ukuthatha lolu daba ukuba lunzulu kakhulu. Ngempela, izwe ngeke liwile, uma kungenzeki lutho, isintu ngeke siphele, njll. Uma uqaphela ukuthi ibhizinisi elizayo alinasabe kakhulu, kulula ukuzola, uphumule futhi uqale, ekugcineni, kuze kube sekugcineni.
- Ukwenza okuthile, ikakhulukazi ngalokho okumelwe kwenziwe okokuqala, kungaba kuhle ukulungiselela. Kuhle ukutadisha zonke izici zebhizinisi, injongo yalo nemiphumela. Isibonelo, uhlose ukukhuluma phambi kwezilaleli, kuhle ukufunda umbiko, ukulungiselela imibuzo engenzeka bese isikhulumi sizozizwa siqiniseka kakhulu.
- Angazi ukuthi ungakholelwa kanjani futhi uqale ukuphila, kufanelekile ukuzikhethela indaba yokuthanda. Ngempela, ngaphandle kokuba nomthetho wezomthetho, kunzima ukuba ngummeli omuhle. Eqinisweni ngizihlola futhi ngishaja umthwalo emandleni, ungathembela empumelelweni nokuqashelwa, ukuze ube yilokho okwakungenelwe ekupheleni. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - ukwenza okuthile, ngoba ukungenzi lutho kudala ukudangala nokungakholwa kwakho, futhi kudingeka badedwe.