Wit iyindlela enhle yokususa ngokushesha izinkinga ezingadingekile. Umuntu wanamuhla usebenzisa ingqondo ukuxazulula izinkinga. Noma kunjalo, kunezinkinga ezimbalwa esikhathini sethu. Wonke umuntu ohlangana ngendlela yakho uzama ukukudala enye inkinga okumele uyixazulule. Emsebenzini, ikhanda libeka imisebenzi ethile, umbuso - abanye, umndeni - okulandelayo. Kuloluhlu futhi ungakhathazeki ukujoyina, abasebenzi, isikole, izihlobo, abangane, omakhelwane, abajwayele. Wonke umuntu uphupha ekuthwaleni wena neminye imisebenzi. Ukusebenzisa ingqondo ukuxazulula zonke lezi zinkinga akusizi ngalutho, ngoba ekugcineni uvele ungene kuwo. U-Wit uyinkhono yokucima noma yikuphi ukubonakaliswa okubi, ngosizo lwamazwi abukhali. Yilokho okwenza lokhu kufanele wazi izimfihlo ezilula ze-wit.
Ungafunda kanjani?
Kukhona abantu abanikezwe naye kusukela ekuzalweni. Kodwa-ke ubuza, ukuthi ungathuthukisa kanjani, uma kungenjalo? Kunezindlela eziningana ezizokusiza ekuthuthukiseni:
- ukuze ufeze umsebenzi okudingayo ukwandisa ukukhanya, ukutadisha inqwaba yezincwadi, ukufunda kusuka kumakhomishana owaziwayo, ama-classical, abalobi.
- into ebaluleke kakhulu kulobu buci kuyamangaza futhi kusabela okusheshayo. Ngenxa yalokho uzosabela masinya emibuthakatheni nemibono ye-interlocutors. Ungesabi ukubheka budedengu, tk. ngesikhathi uthola amakhono akho, futhi lokhu akuyona nje into yokuqeqesha. Isici esibalulekile yiqiniso lokuthi kufanele uhlabelele futhi uzivelele, ngoba abantu badonsela kakhulu kumuntu ongesabi ukuhleka yena futhi ulalele ibhande lakhe phezu kwabanye ngenjabulo.
- akukho lutho oluzosiza umuntu ukuba akhulise ukuzethemba kwakhe, indlela yokufunda wit. Kusinika ithemba emakhono ethu namakhono ethu. Qhathanisa noma yini eyabonakala ekuboneni kokuqala ayifani nhlobo, ngoba kuyobe yinto ehlekisa kakhulu. Njalo sebenzisa amagama amasha angajwayelekile namalungu.
- khombisa ubuciko kanye nenkulumo enkulumweni. Ungalindeli ukuhlaziywa okuzenzekelayo, ngoba abaculi abanokuhlangenwe nakho bakholelwa ukuthi amahlaya amahle kakhulu ahlelwe kahle. Qhubeka ucebisa i-arsenal yakho yamahlaya, ukuze ungabacasuli ama-interlocutors.
Futhi, funda inkolelo yokuhlelwa kwezinto zokwamukela, ngemuva kokungayikulimaza kakhulu, kodwa ngokuphambene kuyosiza ukuqinisa leli khono. Emva kwakho konke, yebo, akukho lutho ngaphezu kwekhono, nekhono lokuthuthukisa. Uma kungenjalo, ngokuhamba kweminyaka kuzoba yisikhathi esingasebenzi, noma kuphele ngokuphelele. Okulandelayo, sibukeza kafushane izigaba eziyinhloko.
- Inqubo evamile ukuphikiswa kwamanga. Ukuphela okuphikisana nokuqala kwehlaya.
- Inzuzo yamanga yilapho ukugcina ngakolunye uhlangothi kuqinisekisa ihlaya, kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, futhi liyayiphikisa.
- Ubufakazi bokungacabangi - okubalulekile ukuletha isimo kuze kube seqophelweni lokungacabangi, lapho umlaleli, njengokungathi, eqonda kusengaphambili ukuthi lokho okushiwo kungenangqondo.
- Futhi ekugcineni, ukwamukela kuyinhlanganisela yezitayela. It is ikakhulukazi esetshenziswa abalobi abanolwazi futhi professional.
Lezi zigaba ezingenhla, aziphelelanga, ezithi "wit" wangempela, kodwa kunenjongo ephelele yokwethula izipho ezingokomoya zomuntu. Ngokusebenzisa izimfihlo ezinjalo zokuzikhandla, ukusabela okuhle okuhambisana nokuhleka kuqinisekisiwe. Uma ukusabela okunjalo kungabangelwa ohlangothini lwe-interlocutor, kodwa azikho izimo zokucindezela imizwa emihle, khona-ke ukuhleka kwabo kulokhu kuyoba ukubonakaliswa kokunqoba kwengqondo.
Yiba nobuqili, ngoba uyithuba lokuzwa njalo.