Noma yimuphi umndeni omusha ubhekene nezinkinga ezihlukahlukene. Lokhu kungaba ukungezwani ezindabeni zansuku zonke, ekukhulisweni kwezingane futhi, eqinisweni, izingxabano nabazali. Amantombazane, ekutholeni isimo somfazi oshadile, athi umamazala wakhe unakho, kepha indlela yokuyibeka endaweni yayo ayiqondi, futhi ngokuvamile ukhononda ngezinkinga ebuhlotsheni nomamazala.
Omama abafana kunzima kakhulu ukubekezelela abanye besifazane empilweni yengane yabo. Abanye banomhawu, abanye bangakwazi ukuhlola ngokwanele izinga lokunakekelwa kwabo phezu kwendodana ekhulile kakade. Yiqiniso, kukhona amakhophi akhethekile aphethwe yimpilo yawo, ngakho adluliselwa emndenini wendodana yabo.
Ungasindisa kanjani umndeni wakho kusuka ethonyeni lomunye umuntu?
Okokuqala, ukuze ngandlela-thile ibekwe esikhundleni sikamamazala, izazi ze-psychologists zithi abesifazane kufanele baqonde ukuthi hlobo luni lobuhlobo obunalo nomamazana wakho - lokhu, okokuqala, umama womthandekayo wakho. Ngakho-ke, akudingekile ukuqhuba impi evulekile, kubalulekile ukuthi usebenzise ubuqili. Ungacabanga nokuthi ungabeka kanjani umkhwekazi endaweni yendodana yakhe, ukuze angabi yisitha sakhe. Lokhu kuyindlela ephumelelayo.
Okokuqala, zama ukubiza umamazana wakho engxoxweni engacacile ngobusuku "ingilazi yetiyi." Zama ukumchazela ngokukhululekile ukuthi ukukhathazeka kwakhe ngendodana yakhe akulungile, uyamthanda okungenani kunalokho, futhi uzimisele ukumnakekela ubusuku nemini. Wenza ngegama lomgomo owodwa , ngakho zama ukubiza umamazana wakho ukuba ube yizivumelwano, khona-ke ngeke kube khona imibuzo enjengokuthi ungafaka kanjani umamazala wakho endaweni yakho. Yiqiniso, kufanelekile ukuqala ingxoxo uma indlu yakho ihlanzekile futhi ihlelekile, futhi umyeni wakho uhlale ehle kakhulu.Uma izingxoxo ezihloniphekile zingenamandla, zisho izinyathelo, kodwa ngendlela yempi ebandayo. Ungamangaleli uninazala phambi kwendoda yakhe bese uziphatha naye ngokumangalisayo. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo zama ukukwenza ukuze afune ukuza kuwe noma ukuxhumana kancane ngangokunokwenzeka.
Isibonelo, ube nesithakazelo empilweni yakhe, gcizelela ukuthi kubonakala sengathi akunandaba. Uma uninazala efuna ukuza nawe, ungaqala ukulungiswa okuncane endlini yokugezela noma ekhishini, okungeke kube nesikhathi sokuphela ngaphambi kokufika kwakhe. Buza izihlobo ngemibuzo engathandeki kumkhwezala: "Akuyena yini uMikhail Kuzmich, onguMama, oshiwo kamuva. Yebo, lowo oyisiphukuphuku? ". Vumela izingane ukuthi zidlale imidlalo emnandi kakhulu, ukuhlala isikhathi eside noma ukubiza wonke amakilasi ukukuvakashela.