Umndeni uyilungu elihlukile lomphakathi lapho wonke amalungu omndeni ahola impilo ejwayelekile, ukwakha ubudlelwane, ukuveza ulwazi, ukuthuthukisa ukuziphatha nangokomoya. Kuphi isimo sezulu esingokomqondo esivela emndenini sincike, okokuqala, ukuzinza ngokomoya nangokomzwelo komuntu , kanye nomzwelo omuntu emphakathini.
Izazi zengqondo ziphawula ukuthi isimo sezulu sokuziphatha nesengqondo emndenini senziwa yilezi zindondo ezithinta umndeni. Isimo sezengqondo sithinta isimo samalungu omndeni, ukwamukelwa nokuqaliswa kwemibono ejwayelekile, ukufezwa komphumela.
Isimo sezenhlalo nezengqondo emndenini
Cabanga, isibonelo, indlela isimo sezenhlalakahle zomphakathi esithinta ngayo impilo yomndeni. Kuyinto engenakuphikwa ukuthi umndeni udlala indima ebalulekile ekuphileni komuntu. Ukungena emshadweni, ukudala isixhumanisi esisha emphakathini, abalingani basathuthuka ngaphakathi, beya esigabeni sokuphila esisha. Manje lo mbhangqwana ndawonye udala "isimo sezulu endlini," okuzobonisa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ukuthi kuyiqiniso, ukulalela nokuqondana komunye nomunye, baye balahla ingubo yemindeni yomndeni.
Ngokuzalwa komntwana, konke ukuthanda, ukunakekelwa nokuzwela kuqondiswa ilungu elisha lomndeni, kusukela emaminithini okuqala izimfanelo ezivela kulo mndeni womndeni ziqala ukubekwa futhi zakhiwe entsheni. Abacwaningi bobudlelwane bomndeni bagcizelela ukuthi eminyakeni edlule, imizwa yomthwalo wemfanelo, ukusekelwa, ukuhawukelwa nokuhlonishwa kuqiniswa phakathi kwendoda nomfazi, ngakho-ke ukuzinza kobuhlobo, ukuzinikela komunye nomunye.
Isimo sezengqondo emndenini sithandeka kuphela lapho emndenini wonke umuntu ethandana ngokuthanda, inhlonipho nokuthembela. Izingane zihlonipha labadala, asebekhulile babelane ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo nabancane,
Ukufingqa, ukuze isimo sengqondo sokuziphatha nesimo sengqondo emndenini sibe nomusa, umndeni uzizwa uthandekayo futhi ujabule, ubudlelwane phakathi kwalabo abashadile namalungu omndeni baqhutshwa ngendlela ehle, okokuqala, ngaphambi komuntu nomndeni, ukwethembeka, ukwethembeka, ukubathanda nokubahlonipha .