Abesifazane abaningi babhekene nokuphila nesimo lapho othandekayo enesinye isithandwa. Kulesi simo, kunezinketho ezimbili: ukuhlukanisa noma ukubuyisela oshade naye. Kunezindlela eziningana zokushayela umyeni kude nenkosikazi oye wabonisa isenzo sakhe kaningi. Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukucabanga ngokucophelela ukuthi ngabe uyayidinga ngempela yini lokhu, nokuthi ngabe ungakwazi yini ukuthethelela ukuhlubuka.
Indlela yokuphikisana nomphikisi kumyeni wakhe ngosizo lomlingo?
Kunezinqubo eziningi ezizophazamisa ubuhlobo phakathi komuntu othandekayo nomunye wesifazane, futhi umlethe ekhaya. Enye yazo iyindlela ephumelelayo, okudingeka uyichithe inyanga edlulayo. Kumele uzodinga kuye: iphepha, ipensela namajikijolo ka hawthorn. Esikhatsini ubhale igama lomphikisi, uliqheke zibe yizicucu ezincane bese ulihlakaza phansi. Bese ufafaza i-hawthorn, ngaphambi kokuphuza. Hamba ephepheni ngezinyawo zakho bese ucabanga ukuthi ucindezela inkosikazi yakho. Ngemuva kwalokho, suka konke bese uphonsa endlini yangasese.
Ungathatha isenzo esithandwayo sokuguqula inkosikazi kumyeni wakhe, ngoba amagama anamandla amakhulu. Isikhathi esihle sokuthola umkhosi nguLwesine ngenyanga. Vala izilenge ekamelweni bese uvule iwindi. Beka itafula ngendwangu ehlanzekile bese ubeka udoti. Kulo, faka ingilazi, ucezu loboya, umhlaba othile, usawoti kanye noviniga. Ekhasini, bhala isakhiwo esiqinile, indlela yokuguqula umyeni kusuka kunkosikazi yakhe:
"Njengoba ikati nezinja zilwa, kunjalo nami (igama lomlingani) nge (igama lekosikazi) Ukulwa, ukulwa bese uyingxenye! Kwabanye babethukuthele, Futhi imizwa yabo e-shards yaphenduka! "
Funda isakhiwo kathathu, bese ushisa leli phepha phezu kwekhandlela. Thumela umlotha emanzini. Konke ukuxuba kahle, ukumboza ngendwangu enombala futhi ubeke efayeleni lewindi. Okulandelayo, beka amakhandlela amathathu bese uwayeka ngokuphelele. Ekuseni, faka konke esikhwameni bese uyisa endlini yompikiswano. Uma ungamazi ikheli lakhe, ingxenye yengxube ifakwe ezembatho zendoda yakhe. Uma lesi simo singakwazi ukugcwaliseka, siphonsa konke ku-intersection.
Indlela yokulondoloza umyeni kusuka kunkosikazi - kwengqondo yezingane
Njengokuxazulula noma iyiphi inkinga, udinga ukuqala ngokwakho. Shintsha izinwele zakho, ikhabethe, ubhalisele ukuvivinya umzimba , ngokuvamile, ube ngumphikisi ongcono. Kudingeka sisebenze kulo mlingiswa futhi kwaziwa kwabesifazane abayeni abayeni abayeni. Zama ukugwema ama-scandals, yiba mnene. Kudingeka ukuthatha zonke izinyathelo ezikhona ukuqinisekisa ukuthi umkhathi emndenini uhle kakhulu ngangokunokwenzeka, futhi oshade naye akafuni ukuhamba. Yenza indoda ibe nomhawu, noma ngabe yini ongayisho, nabo bonke abanikazi besilisa bese behlanganyela ngokwabo, ngeke babe nanoma ubani. Uma kunqunywe ukuthethelela othandekayo, khona-ke ungakhuluma ngokukhululekile ngalokho okwenzekile. Mye akhulume izimbangela zangempela zokuhlubuka, ukuze ukwazi ukushintsha isimo. Qinisekisa ukuveza umbono wakho ngale ndaba, kodwa kudingeka ukwenze ngokuthula nangokuzethemba, ngaphandle kwamahlaya.