Wonke umbhangqwana oshadile ozayo uzofuna ukuba usuku lwabo lomshado lukhunjulwe kuze kube phakade. Uma usuku oluhle seluqokwe kakade, umakoti nomkhwenyana baqala ukuzibuza: "Indlela yokuthola umshado ojabulisayo?". Abashadile abasanda kushada baphupha ukushintsha usuku lomshado libe yeholide langempela. Futhi kusihlwa salesi senzakalo esijabulisayo, zonke izinkohlakalo zomshado wendabuko ziyakhumbula. Ukuqaphela amasiko nemikhosi yomshado kuyingxenye ebalulekile yeholide elijabulisayo. Futhi eziningi zalezi zinsuku zomshado zinezimpande zasendulo kanye nomlando. Kwabalulekile ukuthi okhokho bethu bathole isibusiso sabazali ngalolu suku olukhanyayo, futhi ukugcinwa kwemikhuba kwakubhekwa njengesiqinisekiso esibalulekile senjabulo nenhlalakahle.
Imikhuba Yomshado waseRussia
Ngaso sonke isikhathi eRussia, imishado yayibhekwa njengenye yezenzakalo ezibaluleke kakhulu ekuphileni komuntu wonke. Imishado yayijabulisayo futhi inomsindo. Kwacatshangwa ukuthi kufanele kuzwakale sengathi umshado uthatha. Amasiko amaningi asendulo asinda emasikweni anamuhla:
- ukulinganisa. Lo mkhosi wandulela yonke imishado. Okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi umyeni wayethumela abangane bakhe abathandekayo kubazali bakhe. Uma umakoti ethanda umakoti nabazali bakhe, base bevumelana emshadweni, uma kungenjalo, abazali banikezela i-ithinki njengokwenqaba. Lesi siko sasinda kuze kube namuhla emasikweni omshado wase-Ukraine emadolobheni;
- i-stag ne-hen party. I-stag ne-hen party yinqubo yasendulo yaseRussia, kodwa isabonakala nanamuhla. Ezinsukwini zakudala esikhungweni sezinkukhu umlobokazi ozayo wayelungiselela lo mshado, nabangane bakhe bekhuluma naye ngemimoya emibi. Iqembu le-bachelor lalivame ukuhamba nobaba, abafowabo nabangane bomkhwenyana. Bahlabelela izingoma bahamba emigwaqweni;
- umshado. Umshado uwuhlelo lwama-Orthodox lasendulo, olwenziwa phakathi kwemibhangqwana ekholwayo nanamuhla. Lo mkhosi ubonisa ukuhlangana okungokomoya phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane. Ezinsukwini zakudala, abazali babusisa izingane zabo emva komshado.
Umshado ngokwawo eRussia wagubha izinsuku ezintathu. Usuku lokuqala lunikezelwa kuphela kumakoti nomkhwenyana. Umakoti nomkhwenyana bafika endlini yomakoti ekuseni, emva kwalokho abantu abasha baya emshadweni. Ngemuva komshado, umakoti nomkhwenyana bathola isibusiso esivela kubazali babo, behalalisela izivakashi futhi idili liqala. Umshado ungahlala kuze kube sekuseni, izivakashi zaphathwa ngewayini kanye nezitsha ezinomsoco kunazo zonke, kodwa indoda nomfazi abasanda kuyenzeka babengadingeki babe newayini. Ngalolu suku, izivakashi, njengombuso, zahlala ubusuku bonke endlini yomakoti.
Usuku lwesibili lomshado lalingenamandla kakhulu kunelokuqala. Amasiko amaningi osukwini lwesibili lomshado abonakala ngesikhathi samanje. Ngosuku lwesibili izivakashi zahlangana endlini yomkhwenyana futhi zaqhubeka nomkhosi wabo wokugubha. Kulolu suku, abazali bomkhwenyana nomkhwenyana banikeza udumo olukhulu - bahalalisiwe, bahlezi ezindaweni ezihloniphekile futhi bezijabulisa.
Ngosuku lwesithathu lomshado, lo mfana osemusha wanikezwa ukuhlolwa kwangempela - wahlola ukuthi uyazi kanjani
Imishado eminingi eRussia iqhutshwa ngokuhambisana nalezi zithethe. Abanye babo bashintshile ngaphandle kokuqashelwa, abanye baye balahleka, kanti futhi abasha bavele. Imibhangqwana eshadile yanamuhla igijima amajuba "ngenhlanhla" futhi ihambisane nezivakashi ukuba zihambe ezipaki eziphakathi. Abanye, abangafuni ukukhohlwa izimpande zabo, basebenzise amasiko weMicroatia, iTatar noma imishado yase-Azerbaijani. Kungaba umakoti ukuthumba, ukuvakashela ibhuloho ngosuku lomshado noma ukuhlobisa ihholo lokudla ngendlela yesintu. Njengoba seyakhelwe iphutha, umakoti nomkhwenyana bangakwazi ukuguqula lolu suku oluphawulekayo lokuphila kwabo libe yiholidi elimnandi, lapho izivakashi zabo zizokhumbula khona isikhathi eside.