Ekuphileni, konke kuhlukile, futhi ngezinye izikhathi kufanele wenze izinqumo ezinzima kakhulu. Ngokuvamile, ubudlelwane phakathi kwalabo abashadile buya ekupheleni, amaphupho okuwa komndeni ojabulayo, futhi abesifazane abaningi abasesimeni benza isinqumo mayelana nesahlukaniso . Kodwa-ke, akulula kakhulu ukwazisa ngesinqumo kumlingani wakho, ikakhulukazi, lapho wena izingane ezijwayelekile futhi ngemuva kwamahlombe iminyaka ethile yomshado. Ake sizame ukuthola ukuthi singabelana kanjani nomyeni wakhe, ngakho konke kwahamba ngokuthula, futhi kungenabuhlungu ngangokunokwenzeka wena nezingane zakho.
Kubuhlungu kangakanani ukuhlanganyela nomyeni wakhe?
Uma isifiso sokufakela isahlukaniso sithandana, kulula kakhulu, kodwa uma umyeni ehlukana ngokuhlukana, konke okuba nzima kakhulu. Kulesi simo, abesifazane bakhathazekile ngokuthi bangenza kanjani kahle, ukuze kube lula ukuhlukana nomyeni wakhe ukuze ugweme izigameko nezingxabano ezingadingekile.
Okokuqala, udinga ukukhuluma nomngane wakho womshado. Zama ukuchaza ukuthi kungani banquma ukuhlukanisa, kodwa ungacabangi ukufunga, ukumthuka nokumsola, kule ngxoxo ukuzola okukhulu. Ezimweni eziningi, incazelo enokuthula yobudlelwane inikeza imiphumela emihle.
Ukuhlukanisana kuhlale kunzima, futhi ikakhulu lapho kufanele uhlanganyele nomyeni wakho omthandayo, abesifazane abaningi babhekana nakho, njengalesi simo, musa ukuthola unstuck futhi uqhubeke nokuqhubeka. Kulokhu, nakanjani udinga ukuthola isifundo esithakazelisayo. Bhalisela ezinye izifundo, isibonelo, ulimi lwangaphandle, noma wenze okuthile ongakaze ube nako. Zama ukucabanga kancane ngalokho okwenzekile, ukuhlangabezana nabangani kaningi, uma kukhona izingane, bese ubuthana ndawonye bese uhamba. Konke lokhu kuzokusiza ukuthi uphazamiseke futhi unike amandla.
Hhayi, kodwa mayelana nokuthi ungahlukana kanjani nomyeni wakhe, uma unayo