Isimo somndeni siboniswa kumadokhumenti, banesithakazelo ekuxoxweni komsebenzi, ngisho nalapho kubhaliswa kumasayithi amaningi kuyadingeka ukukhombisa lolu lwazi. Kungakanani ongasho ukuthi igama elithi "ushadile" mayelana nowesifazane?
Kuyini isimo somshado?
Kukhona izinhlobo ezilandelayo zesimo somshado: ongashadile, ohlukanisile, oshadile. Uhlangothi lwezomthetho wale migomo lucacile kuwo wonke umuntu, kodwa yilokho isimo somshado somqashi ekuqashweni kuyinkinga enkulu.
Isimo somshado sizothini kumqashi?
Kubonakala sengathi indlela engcono kakhulu yokuthola umsebenzi egrafu ukushada umbhangqwana oshadile. Kodwa cha, ukungabi khona komndeni kungaba yindoda kuphela - umqashi wakhe uzocabangela ukulungele ukuchitha izinsuku nobusuku emsebenzini. Kodwa kusuka kumfana osemusha ongashadile elinde ukhenketho olungaguquki: ukuvakashelwa njalo - umshado - isimemezelo. Futhi uma owesifazane engaphezu kweminyaka engama-35 ubudala futhi engakaze ashade, ngabe lokhu kungase kungabi kumqashi - ngokungazelelwe isizathu sisesimweni esibi somenzi wesicelo?
Abesifazane abashadile abangenabantwana abasesikhundleni esingcono - kulindeleke ukuba basheshe bahambe beshiye isimemezelo, futhi abesifazane abanomntwana omncane abafuni ukuthatha umsebenzi, ngoba bacabanga ikhefu lokugula njalo ngenxa yokugula kwengane.
Owesifazane osemusha womshado akayona into ehle kakhulu kumqashi - ukungathandi ukubeka ngokomthetho ubuhlobo kungabonisa ukungazinzi nokusebenza.
Ngakho-ke, lowo omele ukhetho ungowesifazane ohlukanisile noma oshadile onomntwana omdala.
Ungashintsha kanjani isimo somshado kumadokhumenti?
Njengoba sesithole ukuthi ukubhaliswa kwezomthetho kubalulekile, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukugcinwa kwazo zonke izimo ezihlelekile. Ukuphela kwesitifiketi somshado akukakunikezi ngokugcwele ukubhala igama lomlingo "oshadile" kumbuzo wesimo somshado. Kudingeka futhi ukuthi ufake uphawu kule pasipoti.
Ukushintsha isimo somshado epasipoti uzodinga ukufaka isicelo kwihhovisi lepasipoti endaweni ohlala kuyo. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthi uma ushintshe isibongo sakho, khona-ke ipasipoti izodinga ukuguqulwa.
Umshado akuyona isimo somshado!
Kodwa imibhalo iyimibhalo, kodwa asihlali ephepheni. Futhi umshado ungaphezu nje kwezimpawu epasipoti. Sizwile, mhlawumbe, inkulumo: umshado awuyona isimo somshado, kodwa indondo "Ukuze uthole isibindi". Ngalokhu asikwazi ukuvumelani, kunzima ukubeka indandatho ngomunwe wakho, kodwa ugcine lapho ukuze uthole impilo. Owesifazane udinga isibindi esikhulu nesibindi sokwakha ubudlelwane obethembayo emndenini futhi ugcine uthando lweminyaka ezayo. Kodwa umthwalo wemindeni ejabulisayo awugcini nje kuphela emahlombe abesibindi besifazane, usizo lomlingani nalo liyadingeka lapha. Nakuba, konke kuxhomeke kulo mbhangqwana, isibonelo, izazi zengqondo zihlukanisa izinhlobo eziningana zemindeni.
- Ubudlelwane, esakhuluma ngakho, lapho umthwalo wemfanelo womshado usatshalaliswa ngokulinganayo phakathi kwabashadile, izazi zengqondo zicabangela eduze. I-Union of Companions ihlala eqinile, ngoba idinga izingxabano hhayi ngokuzimela, kodwa ukunquma ukuthi iyiphi indlela yokuhambisa umndeni phambili. Uthando emshadweni olunjalo luyicabangelo, kungadingeki ukuzithoba ngokuphelele kumlingani wakho.
- Olunye uhlobo lobuhlobo obuvame ukwenziwa ngumshado othembekile - omunye wabashadile uzizwa enesibopho komunye futhi unakekela zonke izinkinga zakhe. Indoda ayidlala indima yomlondolozi, maduze abesifazane basuke beba insika enjalo yomndeni.
- Kunemindeni lapho abashadile bazama kanzima ukugcina ukuzimela kwabo. Bangakwazi ngisho nokuhlala ngokuhlukile futhi bavumele ukuba babe nemihlangano emihle "ohlangothini".
- Akuyona into engavamile lapho kukhona imibhangqwana lapho lo mbhangqwana uthola khona ukuthi ubani oyinkosi yomndeni. Iziyaluyalu ngalesi sisekelo zihlala njalo. Imishado enjalo ingavamile ukuhlala njalo, ngokuvamile abashadile bahlukana ngezindlela bese behluleka ukuthola ukuthi ubani okufanele abe nesikhundla esiphambili.
- Okunye ukusebenzisana okungezansi kungukuthi ubudlelwane bakho bakholelwa ukuthi kufanele bahlanganyele ngokuphelele, bengenalo ilungelo lokuphila kwabo siqu. Nalapha futhi, ukuxabana akuyona into engavamile, kuphela isizathu sokuba nomona.
Njengoba ubona, inkulumo emfushane mayelana nesimo somshado ikhuluma ngesimo sangempela sezindaba akuyona kakhulu. Ngakho-ke ungacabangi ukuthi bonke abesifazane abashadile bayajabula futhi banamathele, futhi abalahlekelwa ngu-razvedenok.