Incwadi evulekile eyashicilelwa encwadini yeLe Monde, yebo, iqhathaniswa nesenzo samanje somnyama omnyama, okwaba yingxenye ye "Golden Globe" kulo nyaka.
Khumbula ukuthi izivakashi zomunye wemiklomelo ebaluleke kunazo zonke zefilimu zakhetha izingubo ezimnyama ukuze kugcizelele isimo sabo sengqondo esibi ngokuqondene nokuhlukunyezwa, kuyilapho amakhulu amakhulu amakhulukazi aseFrance ehloniphekile, ngokuphambene nalokho, cabanga ukuthi yonke into ibe yinto engavamile futhi ingavinjelwe.
Isayinwe yilezi zincwadi zibeka abadlali abadumile, abalobi, izazi zengqondo, izintatheli, ososayensi abaqhathanisa isimo samanje eNtshonalanga ngokuthi "ukuzingela abathakathi" nokuvuselelwa kwePuritanism.
Kulesi sihloko, sinikeza izingcaphuno ezithakazelisayo kunazo zonke ezivela encwadini ekhulunywe ngenhla, ezosisiza ukuba siqonde uhlobo lenye isikhundla ngokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi:
"Yiqiniso, noma yikuphi ukudlwengula kuyisigebengu. Kodwa-ke, okungahambi kahle, nakuba ukukhulumisana okuqhubekayo akukwazi ukubizwa ngokuthi ubugebengu. Futhi ukuqubuzana komuntu akufani neze-machismo enobudlova. Yini esiyitholile ngemuva kokuhlambalaza ne-Weinstein? Hlola kabusha imiphumela yokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi kwabafazi. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi emkhakheni wezobuchwepheshe, lapho amadoda angakwazi khona ukwenza lokhu ngokusebenzisa kabi amandla. Kodwa yini le glasnost eyasinika yona? Umphumela ongenalutho! Manje sesivinjelwe ekuboniseni imizwelo, sivale umlomo kulabo abaphikisana nathi futhi basicasulayo, futhi uma isisulu sithanda ukungathuli ngalokho okwenzekile, ngokushesha kufakwa kuhlu lwabahlukumezi, noma ngisho nezinhlanganiso. Lokhu akukukhumbuzi yini indlela ye-puritan eqinisweni? Kunezimpikiswano ekuvikeleni ubufazi nokukhululwa, kodwa empeleni abesifazane baboshwe ezigqokeni eziqinile zokuphendula ngendlela efanele - lokhu kuyisimo esingunaphakade salowo ohlukumezekile wobudlova, owawela ngaphansi kwejoka lomkhuba wokubhaliwe. Isikhathi sokuzingela abathakathi siphenduke. "
Yini ngempela i-#MeToo?
Khumbula ukuthi ngonyaka odlule, ngemuva kokuhlukunyezwa kobugebengu bobulili okwenzeke emvelweni weHarvey Weinstein, abasebenzisi abaningi benethiwekhi bazama ukuveza ukuhlukunyezwa kwabo, behambisana nokuthunyelwe kwabo nge-#MeToo hashtag. Yiqiniso, lo mkhuba awukwazanga ukuxoshwa yizishoshovu zaseFrance encwadini yabo evulekile:
"Uke wazi ukuthi isimo senzeke kanjani? I-hashtag ephawulekayo #metoo iqalise ngokuzenzekelayo lonke ugagasi lwamaphutha nokubhuka. Ngaphansi kwesandla esishisayo, konke kwaqala ukuwa. Futhi umsolwa wayengenalo ilungelo lokuvota! Abavunyelwe ukukhuluma, kodwa ngokushesha bafaka uhlu lwabahlukumezi ngokobulili. Laba bantu sebevele behlupheka - balahlekelwa imisebenzi yabo, idumela labo lalinakele ngendlela engafaneleki. Yini abajeziswa ngumphakathi? Ukuze uthole ukusikisela okungalungile kobulili noma umlayezo othunyelwe kowesifazane ongakaze ahlangane? Lesi sifiso esinomdlandla sokuthola izidakamizwa sithatha ezandleni zezigaba ezithile zabantu: inkululeko yezocansi, izishoshovu zenkolo, nalabo abaqondiswa "Ukuziphatha kombambiswano", ukholelwa ukuthi lona wesifazane uyisidingo esikhethekile esidinga ukuvikelwa. "
Umlobi onamandla kakhulu uCatherine Rob-Grieille nomlingani wakhe uCatherine Millet, uCatherine Deneuve kanye nomdlali wesigameko waseJalimane u-Ingrid Caven, owaqala umlayezo ophikisayo, akakaze ahluke ezinkimbinkimbi zabo futhi babengabalandeli bendabuko. Ngokuphambene nalokho! Laba besifazane phakathi nekhulu leminyaka elidlule babeyi-apologians yaseYurophu ngenxa yefilosofi yobufazi, okusho ukuthi bangathembeka lapho bekhuluma ngamalungelo nabesifazane, akunjalo?
Ilungelo lokuthandana - ilungelo lokuphila
Laba besifazane ngokushayela ngezwi eligcwele emhlabeni ukucubungula nokuyeka ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi, beshiya amadoda nabesifazane ithuba lokudlala ngothando nobudlelwano:
"Sibeke umgomo - ukunqoba ilungelo lokudlala ngothando. Lokhu kumane kudingekile uma sikhuluma ngenkululeko yezocansi. Sinesipiliyoni esanele sokuqaphela ukuthi isithakazelo sobulili ngokwawo siyisimanga futhi sihlaselayo. Kodwa sinombono oqondile wokuqonda ukuthi ukuhlukunyezwa okungahambi kahle akunakuqhathaniswa nokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili. "
Abalobi bezincwadi ezidabukisayo babhekisela emalungelweni amadoda ukuba anakekele, futhi abesifazane - ukwenqaba ukukhulumisana uma befisa. Baqiniseka ukuthi inkululeko yangaphakathi igcwele ingozi kanye nomthwalo wemfanelo:
"Ubunqunu abuhlangene nokuzondwa kwabantu kanye nobulili babo. Uma ungathandi ukuthi abantu bakukhathalela kanjani, lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele uzikhiphe esithombeni sesisulu. Khumbula ukuthi okwenzeka emzimbeni wesifazane akudingeki ngaso sonke isikhathi kuthinte isithunzi sakhe sangaphakathi, futhi ezimweni ezimbi akumele kumshintshe ube ngumhlatshelo waphakade. Asiyena umzimba wethu kuphela! Udinga ukuhlonipha inkululeko yangaphakathi. Futhi akunakwenzeka ukucabanga ngezingozi nemithwalo yemfanelo. "
- UCatherine Deneuve waba u-brunette
- U-Kate Blanchett utshele mayelana nesifazane nesimo sakhe sengqondo kuHarvey Weinstein
- UVincent Gallo: "Ngiyisisulu sangempela sikaWeinstein, hhayi umdlali we-actress!"
Yiqiniso, incwadi enjalo engathí sina ayikwazi ukushiya abesifazane abangenandaba nalabo ababambe iqhaza ekuhambeni kwabesifazane. Yebo, okwamanje, ngokumelene namakhulu abesifazane besifazane baseFrance, abesifazane abangenandaba nabantu abangu-30 abaholwa nguCaroline de Haas sebevele bevele. Bafaka amajaji amakhulu ukufaka imiqondo kanye nomzamo wokunciphisa ukuzimisela kwezisulu zobudlova ngokocansi.