Utshwala, ingoma edabukisayo kanye nenkampani yamantombazane - konke lokhu kuyadingeka ukuba intombazane iqhubeke nokuhlukana nomthandekayo wakhe. Futhi amadoda abhekana kanjani nokuhlukaniswa futhi enza ngokusemthethweni? Mhlawumbe kungukuthi ubulili obuhle kuphela obukhalayo, ukukhumbula izikhathi ezijabulisayo ezisebenzisana ndawonye, ukwenza izenzo zokuqhaqhazela "ukumcasula" nokulalela abangani bethi "njengokunye okunye okuzoba khona." Ake sibone ukuthi ama-halves ethu angenangqondo kangakanani, nokuthi ngabe ukuphela kobuhlobo kubathinta nabo kanye nathi.
Amadoda ahlangabezana kanjani nokuhlukaniswa?
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuthola ukuthi ngabe amadoda ejwayelekile ahlukana yini , noma ukuthi ukuhlukana kobuhlobo besithembu kuyinto engokwemvelo, yini okufanele ingayikhokhwa ngokukhethekile? Uma sikhuluma ngokuzilibazisa okudlulayo, cishe akunakwenzeka ukuthi indoda izobhekana nokuqedwa kwemihlangano nentombazane, i-novel elula ayisho ukuthi kwakhiwe izibopho eziqinile, ngakho-ke igebe ngeke lizwe, njengento ebabazayo. Kodwa uma kungumbuzo wobuhlobo besikhathi eside, isimo sihlukile. Naphezu kokuvimbela kwangaphandle, imizwelo yesiqingatha sethu esiphezulu ayiyona yonke indawo engaphandle, ikakhulukazi iyoba khona ekuqaleni kokuhlukaniswa kwentombazane. Khona-ke ukuziqhenya okulimazayo kuzoqala ukusebenza, lo mane kufanele abe ngowokuqala kukho konke, okusho ukuthi kufanele athi "ulahlekelwe" kuye.
Njengoba sithole ukuthi amadoda abhekana nokuhlukana, ahlala ekuqondeni ukuthi akwenza kanjani, nokuthi lokhu kuqhubeka isikhathi eside kangakanani. Ukuhluleka ukuveza imizwa yabo evulekile kwenza kube nzima ukuba indoda isebenzise izindlela ezizithandayo zesifazane ukuze zisinde insizi - insizi emceleni kanye nemibuthano nabantu abaseduze. Abamele isigaba esiqinile sabantu banamasu amaningi amaningana.
- Thola intombi yesikhashana. Lokhu kuvumela indoda ukuba iqinisekise ukuziqhenya kwayo futhi iqinisekise ukuthi iyaphikisana ngokuphelele, futhi yonke into yayisesikhathini sakhe esingasakwazi ukuthokoza injabulo yakhe. Yiqiniso, ezimweni eziningi, amanoveli anjalo awahlali isikhathi eside, futhi umuntu uqala ukuguqula izinkanuko, njengeglavu. Nakuba, ngezinye izikhathi, emva kokuphefumula okunjalo, kunesidingo sokuba nobuhlobo besikhathi eside, ngakho-ke indoda iyavela ukuthi ifuna umngane ofanelekayo. Kulo mzuzu, kwenziwa imizamo yokuhlangana nabadala nabafazi, abathanda kakhulu abalobi banoveli.
- Enye indlela, ngokuzingela okusetshenziselwa abalobi be "soap operas", kuwumzamo wokudabuka kosizi kotshwala. Enye into ukuthi akubheki ngaso sonke isikhathi e-cinema - indoda engavunyelwanga esitokisini sokuphuza utshwala, indlu ehlanzekile, ibhodlela le-vodka nokudla okushisiwe. Owake wangaphambili angase abukeke ngendlela ekhangayo, futhi aze ahambele amakilabhu, kungukuthi lokho okuthandayo kuyomkhawulela ku-postulate "yokudakwa nokukhohlwa".
- Wonke umuntu uyazi indlela enhle yokukhohlwa ngezinkinga - ukushintsha isimo. Uma umuntu ecebile, kungenzeka ukuthi angasebenzisa le ndlela, eshiye indawo yokuhlala, lapho kungenzeka khona ukuhlanganisa zonke izindlela ezintathu ezingenhla.
- Enye indlela ethandwayo yamadoda ukuze basinde ukuhlukanisa ukushiya amakhanda abo ngokuzilibazisa, ngokuvamile ziyi-computer imidlalo. Futhi ngokuvamile lokhu
Ukuzilibazisa kuba umlutha wangempela, indoda iqala ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi nemali ekuqinisweni kwangempela.
Ngokuqondene nesipiliyoni, konke kuncike kumuntu nokujula kwemizwa azizwayo. Abanye amadoda balungiselela into yabo yentshiseko, balandele impilo yabo iminyaka eminingi, ngokulandela ngokusemthethweni umlingani wangaphambili esikhaleni esivamile. Abanye, emva kokuvutha okungaphansi kwenyanga, babuthana ngomoya futhi benze imizamo yokuthuthukisa izimpilo zabo. Abanye abanye bamane bayeke abesifazane abakholwayo, baqale ukuwasebenzisa ukuze bahlangabezane nezidingo zabo.