Ukuthola isigamu sabo sesibili, intsha eningi ifuna ukuhlanganisa emndenini futhi ngokushesha ibhalise ubuhlobo bayo. Kodwa akuyona yonke imibhangqwana enethuba lokuhlela umshado omkhulu futhi ungalindeli iminyaka lapho inani lempahla eningi kanye nezambatho ezibizayo ziyoqoqwa, kuwukuhlakanipha ukudlala umshado wesabelomali ongenziwa ngendlela engavamile nokuthakazelisayo.
Ukuhlela umshado wesabelomali, landela imibono ehambisana nezikhathi ezisuka emlandweni wothando lwakho. Uma uhlangane, ukuhlangabezana ngengozi ematayini eMcDonald's, khona-ke ungakwazi ukugubha umshado wakho nabangani bakho, uyala i-hamburger ne-coca-cola. Ezimweni lapho wakhulela khona egcekeni elilodwa, indawo efanelekayo yomkhosi omkhulu uzoba endaweni yokudlala oyikhonzile noma ngaphansi kwezihlahla zegadi.
Indlela yokuhlela umshado wesabelomali?
Umshado webhajethi unikeza inani elincane lamenywa abamenywe, kungaba izihlobo eziseduze noma abangane kuphela-abafundi. Umakoti angagqoke ingubo yakhe ethandekayo kakhulu noma athenge isembatho esingabizi kakhulu, umkhwenyana kufanele agqoke ihembe ngezwi kanye nomkhethiweyo.
Qinisekisa ukuthi unakekele izesekeli ezinhle ezinhle
Isabelomali, umshado wangempela ungabanjwa esifubeni semvelo, isibonelo, ekamu lezokuvakasha eliseduze komfula. Qaphela isitayela sokuqala, ongayakha ngezandla zakho ngaphandle kwemali eningi. Isibonelo, ungakwazi ukuhlobisa yonke i-gazebo kwisisekelo sokuzilibazisa namabhola emibala emibili ehambisana nombala wezingubo zakho ngombala.
Uma unomshado ngesikhathi sehlobo, sebenzisa izimbali ezithile zonyaka - uhlobisa igumbi lonke nge-dacha peonies noma i-gladioli, izakhi zomuntu ngamunye ezingafakwa ezingeni lomakoti kanye nephaketheni lejackti kumkhwenyana. Amakhemikhali afanelekayo okuhlobisa umkhosi womshado, awuphawu lokumsulwa, uthando nokuthembeka .