Sekuyisikhathi eside saziwa ukuthi abantu bezizukulwane ezahlukene bahlukana ngokuhlukana komunye nomunye, kaningi kunezinkinga ekuqondeni ngokuvumelana. Ngempela, banamagugu ahlukene, imibono yokuphila, njll. Akuzona zonke izingane eziziqhayisa ukuthi ubuhlobo babo nomama buphezulu. Kodwa empeleni, abazali bayakwazi ukuqonda izingane zabo, nje kuphela abadinga ukuqonda ngokucacile izizathu zokunganaki kwabo.
Sizolinga ukuthola ukuthi singasungula kanjani ubudlelwane nomama nokuthi singamtshela kanjani kahle konke okubuhlungu.
Ubuhlobo obubi nomama - izizathu
Ake sicabangele izizathu ezingenzeka zokushiya okuvela phakathi kwabazali nezingane zabo.
- Umama uzama impilo yakhe yendodakazi ukuze aqaphele amathemba akhe namaphupho akhe angagcwaliseki. Isizathu esinjalo singabonakaliswa ngokucindezela okunciphisa eminye imibono noma ekuqaliseni okuqinile kwemibono yomuntu siqu.
- Futhi, ubudlelwane obuyinkimbinkimbi nomama kungabangelwa isifiso somntwana ukuthola imvume evela kumama. Ulungele ukwenza konke okudingekayo ngenxa yokudumisa umama. Uhlala umfushane kuye. Isizathu salokhu sifihliwe ebuntwaneni bakho. Kungenzeka ukuthi kusukela ebuntwaneni ufundiswe ukuthi kubalulekile ukufeza okuningi, futhi ukwehluleka kwaqondwa kabi ngabazali.
- Umehluko omkhulu eminyakeni yobudala ababili.
- Uzwa ukugxeka okuvela njalo kunina wakho nsuku zonke. Iziquibless ezingapheli ziqhubeka ziphoqelela ubuhlobo phakathi komama nendodakazi.
Izinkinga ekusebenzelaneni nomama - isisombululo
Yiqiniso, izimbangela zokuqala ukungaqondi kahle zingase zihluke kakhulu, ukuqala kwazo kungase kufihlwe ngisho nasebuntwaneni. Phakathi neminyaka, iqoqa. Ayikho into yokuzigcina wena. Ake sinikeze izibonelo zezincomo zendlela yokuthuthukisa ubuhlobo phakathi komama nendodakazi.
- Zama ukuthola imbangela yalokho okushayela izinqumo, izenzo zikamama wakho ekhelini lakho. Kungenzeka ukuthi izikhuthazo zokuziphatha okunjalo yizinhloso zayo ezinhle. Uma uqaphela ukuthi abazali bakho bakuthanda injabulo kuphela, kufanele uzwele izenzo zayo.
- Qonda ukuthi uhlukile izizukulwane, ubuntu obuhlukile. Umama wakho, onjengawe, unombono wakhe ngokuphila kwakho. Kodwa lokhu kusho ukuthi akufanele uphile impilo umama wakho azama ukukudala. Lalela iseluleko sakhe, kodwa futhi ube nombono wakho siqu ngalolu daba.
- Funda kabanzi mayelana nokuphila kwabazali. Amaqiniso amaningi abalulekile kamama akwazi ukukunikeza impendulo yokuthi kungani ekuhlambalaza ngaso sonke isikhathi, njll.
- Qaphela umthwalo obhekene nomama wakho. Zibeke endaweni yakhe. Zizwa zonke izinkinga ayeke wazizwa. Khumbula ukuthi uzinike isikhathi esingakanani. Ngenxa yokuqonda lokhu, ungakwazi kalula ukubhekana nanoma yikuphi ukuphazamiseka okuvela ekukhulumisaneni nomama.
Ngakho-ke, isimo sengqondo sendodakazi nomama kasilungile ngaso sonke isikhathi, kodwa lokhu akusona isizathu sokuyeka. Kumelwe sifune ukuthola indawo evumelana nabazali bethu. Phela, impilo iyifushane futhi kubalulekile ukuqonda yonke imizuzu ehlala nabo.