Umuntu akazalwa enamahloni futhi engaqiniseki kuye. Lezi zimfanelo zitholwa nguye ngesikhathi sokuphila kwakhe, kubandakanya kusukela ebuntwaneni. Ubuhlobo bomphakathi nabazali nabangane bangadlala indima ebalulekile ekwakheni ubuntu bomuntu . Ngokulandelayo, amahloni amaningi angaphazamisa ezimweni ezahlukene zokuphila. Njengomthetho, umuntu onokuphepha unenkinga yokukhulumisana, unesaba sokungaqondwa kahle, ukuhlekwa usulu ngabanye. Kulesi simo kunzima ukuxhumana, ukuveza imizwelo yakho, ukuvikela izithakazelo. Ngemuva kwemizamo yokuphumelela yokuxhumana, ukuhlukaniswa nokuhlukunyezwa kwezinkinga zomuntu kuphakama. Kukhona ukungqubuzana kwangaphakathi, ukungathandi ukuthuthukisa nokuqhubeka phambili, okungaholela ekucindezelekeni. Ngezansi kukhona amathiphu ambalwa avela kubanokholo kwengqondo indlela yokunqoba ukungabaza.
Indlela yokunqoba ukwesaba nokungaqiniseki?
- Okokuqala, ungabuzi amehlo akho kwabanye futhi uhlale ucabanga ngalokho abanye abakucabangayo. Izenzo ezifanele ukuzenza, ngaphandle kokulinda ukuvunywa noma ukuphika ohlangothini.
- Ukushiya indawo yakho yokududuza kungaba umsebenzi onzima. Kodwa ukushintsha kwesimo esijwayelekile kanye nokuthunyelwa kwezinyathelo ezincane kodwa ezingavamile ekuphileni kwansuku zonke kuzosiza ukuthola ukuzethemba.
- Uma kukhona ukwesaba ukufeza imigomo emikhulu, kulokhu, izazi zengqondo zeluleka ukwehlukanisa zibe ezincane. Ukuhlangabezana nempumelelo kulula, ukwenza imisebenzi emincane.
- Kunoma yisiphi isimo, kufanele uxoxe kabanzi. Kungaba ingxoxo nomakhelwane, ukuhlinzeka ngezithuthi zomphakathi, ukuxhumana nomdayisi esitolo.
- Izinga elilandelayo ikhono lokunqaba izimo ezingamukeleki. Kungase kubonakale kunzima, kodwa kuzokwenza kube lula ukuphila esikhathini esizayo.
- Isimo sengqondo esibucayi ngokuqondene nokuphila kuyindlela eqinisekile yokucindezeleka . Kubalulekile ukuphatha imicimbi kalula, ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa umqondo wemfanelo.
Kufanele uzithande futhi udumise njalo ngangokunokwenzeka - lokhu kuthuthukisa ukuzethemba kwakho. Ukuvulwa ukubuka emehlweni ezinkimbinkimbi zabo akukwazi wonke umuntu, kodwa kudingekile ukuzama ukubhekana nabo futhi ube umuntu ophumelelayo nozethemba.