Emgwaqweni isimo sezulu siyinto enyanyekayo, abantu bayabuhlungu, bahamba ngezinyawo ebhasini, bese kuthi emsebenzini bebuza ukuthi kungani isimo sengqondo esinjalo. Futhi yini okufanele ujabule into - ukuphila kuphonsa izinkathazo ezingathandeki! Futhi-ke lapha sihamba, sikhononda, sithola ngokuphendula esikhundleni sokumomotheka amazwi okubamba amanga nokudabuka. Kodwa futhi akunakwenzeka, umuntu wadalwa ukuze ajabule. Ngakho udinga ukufunda ukuthi ungakujabulela kanjani impilo nokuthi ungayithola kanjani injabulo.
Ungabuyisa kanjani injabulo yokuphila?
Ngokubanzi, umbuzo wokuthi ungafunda kanjani ukujabulela ukuphila akulungile. Wonke umuntu unelungelo lokujabulela ukuphila, abanye nje babo balahlekelwa amakhono abo kancane. Futhi ungaphikisani - okungenani ebuntwaneni obude sonke sasijabule futhi sijabule nsuku zonke. Ngakho-ke, kuyoba okulungile kakhulu ukufuna indlela yokubuyisela injabulo yokuphila, indlela yokuyithola kabusha.
- Okokuqala, khumbula lapho uhlala khona ungathandi i-robot, wenza ngokuzenzakalelayo izenzo ezidingekayo. Isikhathi lapho wawujabulela khona amakilasi akho.
- Kukhunjulwa? Yisiphi isikhathi esithile: ubuntwana obujulile, isikhathi sokuthanda kuqala, ukutadisha enyuvesi, iminyaka yokuqala yomshado?
- Manje cabanga ukuthi yini eshintshile kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, kungani manje ungaboni izinjabulo ezincane zokuphila. Manje uya emsebenzini ongathandeki, uyeke ukuthanda umyeni wakho, ngenxa yazo zonke izifo eside ezibangele ukucindezeleka? Iyini inkinga, yini eyenza wena uphese ukuphila kangaka?
- Ungatholi nje ngemibandela ethi "lokhu ebuntwaneni kwakungenakho ukukhathazeka, yingakho kwakukhona injabulo enkulu", impilo yabantu abadala akusho nje ukujwayela okujwayelekile nokujwayelekile. Wena ubheka okungenani amakhulukazi, banezizathu eziningi zokudabuka (izifo eziningi, impesheni encane, izingane zivakashe ngokungavamile), kodwa eziningi zazo zinganikeza abantu abasha ukuba bajabule. Ngakho iminyaka ayikwazi ukuba yindlela yokudabuka empilweni yokudabuka.
- Ake sithi unqume ukuthi ujabule njengengane. Kulungile, kwakunjani ngaleso sikhathi, yini engekho manje? Khona-ke wonke umuntu wanikezwa abazali, futhi akudingeki wenze izinqumo zakho, ucabanga ngempela ukuthi lokhu kuyisibopho senjabulo? Yiqiniso, cha, kungombono wakho wezehlakalo zansuku zonke. Njengengane, ngokuqinisekile wayazi ukuthi ujabulela kanjani injabulo elula yokuphila - iswidi elimnandi, isibhakabhaka esibhakabhaka esiphakeme kanye nenja, ukugijima ngokumangala ngemva kwevemvane. Ngakho-ke yini okukuvimbela manje ukuba ujabulele okufanayo, noma isibhakabhaka singashintsha umbala, amaswidi asisekho amnandi, futhi ama-kittens awawenawo ahamba? Cishe, usuke umatasa kakhulu ngezikhalazo mayelana nokuphila ukuthi awunaki inkinga ukubheka lobu buhle.
- Yebo, manje unomndeni, umsebenzi nokukhathazeka okwakungekho ngaphambili. Kodwa kukhona futhi injabulo yokuphila komndeni, ingabe usikhohliwe ngempela ngabo? Angazi ukuthi ujabulela kanjani impumelelo yakho noma izinto ezincane ezifana nesimo sezulu esihle? Bese ujabulela umyeni wakho kanye nezingane zakho, ngoba kuyisibusiso ukuthi zihlakaniphile kakhulu futhi zimangalisayo.
- Ungaqala kanjani ukujabulela ukuphila? Ukuze ufunde ukucabanga ngendlela ehlukile, ngoba imicabango yethu ithola ukucabanga kwayo emhlabeni jikelele. Futhi uma ucabanga ukuthi umakhelwane ungumuntu omubi, inhloko ingumuntu ohahayo nomuntu ongenabulungisa, abangani bayazibophezela, umyeni uyisidlo sokudla, futhi bonke abantu emhlabeni bayisinengiso, khona-ke maduzane uzothola okungaphezu kokukodwa kokuqinisekiswa kokuqagela kwakho. Zama ukukholelwa ukuthi uhlala phakathi kwabantu abahle kunazo zonke emhlabeni, ngoba lokhu kunjalo ngempela. Yebo, bonke banezinsizakalo, kodwa bheka ukuthi iziphi abantu abalungile. Uyomangala lapho ufunda ukuthi unobhala okungenani uyinhlebo, kepha umuntu onomusa ozokusekela ngesikhathi esibucayi, uma uvumela lokho. Izingane zakho, nakuba zixubha, zinekhono elikhulu, futhi indoda ingase ibe nesivila, kepha iyakuthanda nabantwana futhi ingakaze ibheke "ngakwesokunxele" isikhathi sonke sokuphila kwakhe ndawonye.
Kuzo zonke, bheka izinzuzo, khona-ke injabulo ngeke ikugcine ulinde. - Ukuze uphumelele, kufanele ube nezinhlelo zokuphila, uhambe ngokuqinile emigomweni ebekiwe. Lokhu konke kuyiqiniso, kodwa ungabi ekuphishekeleni ikusasa ukukhohlwa mayelana nalokho okwamanje. Zibophe ngokucabanga ukuthi eminyakeni emihlanu uzoba yinhloko yegatsha, futhi izingane zizoya eyunivesithi ehloniphekile, kodwa khumbula ukuthi uhlala manje, futhi, kuyadingeka. Kungenjalo, uzoba yini eminyakeni emi-5 kusukela manje? Ngomsebenzi omuhle nezingane ezihleliwe, kodwa ngokuphazamiseka kwemizwelo nokucindezeleka kwezifo ezingapheli. Futhi uma ungafundi ukuzinikela isikhathi futhi ujabulele okwamanje, kanjalo kuyoba njalo.