Isikhathi sihamba ngokushesha, futhi maduzane ingane yakho iyoba umlingisi wokuqala. Ingabe ukulungele esikoleni? Yisiphi isamba solwazi okufanele izingane zasenkulisa zibe nazo ngalesi sikhathi? Yini ebaluleke kakhulu: ulwazi noma ukulungela kwengqondo? Imibuzo - ulwandle!
Zonke izingane ziyizingane zasenkulisa zihlukile. Abanye baya enkulisa, bafunda izincwadi, izinombolo, baya emakilasini ochwepheshe wezinkulumo kanye nomqondo wezengqondo. Abanye abazange babe khona ensimini, futhi isiyingi sokuxhumana sinqunyelwe abazali nabazali babangane babo. Kanti abanye, bangena enkulisa, banesikhathi sokutadisha ezindaweni ezihlukahlukene zokuthuthukiswa kwangaphambili, imibuthano nezigaba. Ngabe yiyiphi yalezi zigaba lapho ingane yakho ingaba khona, uma kukhona okungenani izinyanga eziyisithupha kwesokunxele ngaphambi kwesikole, ngakho konke kulungiswa!
I-Psychological Attect
Izincomo zengqondo yezokwelapha kubazali bezingane zasenkulisa zivame ukuphelela ekubambeni ukuthi indlela yokulungiselela isikole ekulungele ikhono lokugxilisa ingqondo emaminithini angaphezu kwengu-30, kanye ne-assiduity. Uma izingane zase-kindergarten zijwayele imithetho yokuziphatha phakathi kwamakilasi, ke izingane ezingenayo izikhungo zangaphambi kwesikole, ukuhlala etafuleni imizuzu engaphezu kuka-15-20 kuyisivivinyo esinzima. Ngisho nesihloko esithakazelisayo kunazo zonke asikwazi ukugcina ukunakekelwa kwezingane zasesikoleni ngamaminithi angaphezu kuka-10-15. Isixazululo esihle kakhulu ukuvakashela amaqembu okuhlala isikhathi esifushane esikoleni. Ngeshwa, azikho amaqembu anjalo kuzo zonke izikole. Uma ungenalo ithuba lokubhalisa ingane esikhungweni sokuqala sokuthuthukiswa, bese wenza izifundo ezithuthukisiwe ekhaya. Fundisa ingane, isibonelo, ukudweba umdwebo, kodwa zama ukuqiniseka ukuthi ngesikhathi sokudweba akaphazanyiswa futhi ehlezi endaweni eyodwa. Esinye iseluleko sabazali bezingane zasenkulisa: ngesikhathi esikoleni, zama ukwenza kanjalo ukuthi ingane yenza lokho oyale ngakho, hhayi lokho akufunayo. Okusho ukuthi, udwebe isihlahla, njengoba usho, hhayi umshini wokubhala noma ilanga.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi omama abaningi abanalo imfundo ekhethekile, izinto eziningi ezidingekayo zokulungiselela isikole zingaphuthelwa.
Amakhono abalulekile
Lezi zimfanelo zezingane zasenkulisa azibalulekile kunolwazi lwezinhlamvu nezinombolo. Ingane kufanele ikwazi ukuzikhandla: ukuhlanganisa izinwele, ukugqoka, ukufaka isicelo seluleko kubantu abadala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kule minyaka ubudala abantwana banolwazi mayelana nendawo yokuhlala, amagama, amagama abazali kanye nendawo yomsebenzi wabo, izinkathi zonyaka, iminyaka.
Ngaphambi kwesikole, abazali kufanele banakekele ukuthuthukiswa kwenkumbulo yengane . "Ukuqeqesha" okunjalo kungcono ukuqhuba ngendlela yemidlalo ethokozisayo. Bala uhambo lwezinyoni, abantu, unake imibala yezimoto, futhi ekhaya, ngemva kokuhamba, buza ingane ukuthi mangaki izimoto ezimhlophe, isibonelo, ebonile. Ukufunda nokukhumbula ngezinkondlo kuhle kakhulu, futhi uma ingane ibazi ngenhliziyo, bacele ukuba batshele inkondlo ngesihloko esithile (mayelana nomama, mayelana nabangane, njll).
Kulo memo ngabazali bezingane zasenkulisa, ukunakwa kufanele kukhokhwe ekuthuthukiseni kwengqondo yengane. Ukuze wenze lokhu, ungasebenzisa uchungechunge lwezithombe noma izibalo, lapho izakhi ezimbili noma ezimbili zizoba ngaphezulu (imifino phakathi kwezithelo
Uma ufingqa, ulwazi oluwusizo lwabazali bezingane zasenkulisa lufana nalokhu:
- ukuqeqesha inkumbulo, ukunakekelwa kwengane;
- Qaphela ukuthuthukiswa kwamaphuzu, amakhono emoto, ukuqonda nokubekezela;
- sebenzisa izivivinyo zokuthuthukisa jikelele;
- ukuqhuba amakilasi efomu lezemidlalo.
Futhi khumbula, umthetho oyinhloko wabazali bezingane zasenkulisa ukufaka ingane enentshisekelo ekutholeni ulwazi olusha, ukumfundisa ukuthi angesabi amamaki amabi futhi athole ulimi oluvamile nabalingani nabo, ngoba wena ubelokhu ekhona futhi uzobe engcono kakhulu futhi ethandekayo!