Ukuzethemba , mhlawumbe, okunye kwezimfanelo ezibaluleke kakhulu ekuphileni komuntu. Iqala ukwakha esemncane bese idala ukuphila komuntu okuqhubekayo. Kungenxa yakhe ukuthi impumelelo yethu emphakathini, ukufeza ukuhlangana okufunayo, okuvame ukuvumelanisa nokungahambisani naso ngokwakho kuvame ukunqunywa.
Ukuziqhenya ukuhlola ukufaneleka komuntu siqu kanye nokuhlukunyezwa, izenzo nezenzo, ukuzimisela ngokwayo ukubaluleka kwayo emphakathini. Ukuze uthole ukwaziswa okunembile kunobuntu, kunezinhlobo ezahlukene zokuzihlola, okuzoxoxwa ngakho.
Yiziphi izinhlobo zokuzethemba ezikhona?
- Ukuzethemba okunganele / okunganele. Mhlawumbe izinhlobo ezibaluleke kakhulu zokuzihlonipha komuntu ngamunye, ngoba zinquma ukuthi lizwakala kanjani futhi liyiqiniso ukuthi umuntu uhlonipha amandla akhe, izenzo zakhe nezimfanelo zakhe.
- Ukuzihlonipha okuphezulu / okuphakathi / okuphansi . Lapha izinga lokuhlola linqunywe ngokuqondile. Kubonakala ekunikezeni ukubaluleka ngokungadingekile noma ngokuphambene nalokho - akubalulekile ukuba ube nemfanelo kanye nokungaphumeleli. Izinhlobo ezizimele kakhulu zokuzihlonipha azivami ukuthuthukisa ukuthuthukiswa komuntu, ngoba okuncane kuvimbela ukuzimisela kwezenzo, futhi kuvezwe ngokucacile - kusikisela ukuthi konke kuhle futhi akukho okudingeka ukwenze, ngokuvamile, akudingekile.
- Ukuzethemba okuqinile / okuzulisayo. Kunqunywe ukuthi ukuzethemba komuntu kuncike esimweni sakhe sengqondo noma impumelelo esimweni esinikeziwe
(isikhathi sokuphila). - Ukuzihlola okujwayelekile / okuyimfihlo / okukhonkolo-situation. Ibonisa indawo lapho ukuhlolwa kusakazwa khona. Ingabe lo muntu uzihlolisisa ngemininingwane yenyama noma yengqondo, endaweni ethile: ibhizinisi, umndeni, impilo yomuntu siqu. Ngezinye izikhathi kungabheka kuphela izimo ezithile.
Konke lokhu - izinhlobo eziyinhloko zokuzihlola ngokwakho kwengqondo. Njengoba isimo sengqondo esizwakalayo nesanele esifanele sibheke ebuntwaneni, kubalulekile ukulalela le mzuzu ezinganeni - kulula kakhulu ukwakha ukuzethemba ngokwanele kwasekuqaleni futhi kusho okuningi.