Esinye sezifo zomphakathi esivame kakhulu esikhathini sethu ukuxhomeka kotshwala. Izinkolelo mayelana nalo, iqiniso kanye nezindlela zokulwa nalesi sifo kufanelekele ukunakwa okukhethekile, ngoba kungathinta wonke umuntu.
Indlela yokuqaphela ukuxhomeka kotshwala?
Kunezinkolelo eziningi mayelana nokuxhomeka kotshwala nezindlela zokubhekana nayo, kude neqiniso. Ngakho-ke, lo mbuzo kufanele uhlaziywe ngemininingwane eminingi ngangokunokwenzeka. Isibonelo, abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ngisho nokuphuza ibhodlela likabhiya nsuku zonke, akuzona izidakamizwa. Ngokusho odokotela - lokhu kuyindabakwane. Ukuthuthukisa umlutha, owesifazane kufanele aphuze ibhodlela lebhiya elikhanya ngosuku, ibhodlela lamadoda - amathathu. Ezinye izimpawu zesifo yizi:
- ukubukeka kwesibindi ngomqondo othile ngokuphuza utshwala;
- ukungakwazi ukuyeka ngesikhathi sedili, uphuze, kuze kube yilapho umuntu eqaqa;
- isifiso sokubandakanya abantu abajwayele futhi abangajwayelekile ngesikhathi sokuphuza;
- izinguquko ekuziphatheni - ubuhlungu kanye nokungahlanganisi, ukucindezeleka ngesikhathi sezinkathazo;
- ukubonakala kwenkumbulo emva kokuphuza;
- isifiso sokuchitha imali ngokukhipha imali, ukuthengisa izinto ekhaya, izikweletu ezihlala njalo.
Utshwala wokulutha - yini okufanele uyenze?
Ukulwa nokuxhomeka kotshwala kufanele kube okuphelele. Futhi iqiniso lokuthi lingelashwa nalo liyinganekwane. Kunzima kakhulu, isikhathi eside futhi sidinga usizo lwabachwepheshe. Iphutha ngombono wokuthi into esemqoka ukuhoxiswa kokuxhunywa kotshwala ngezidakamizwa ezikhethekile, kodwa ukubuyiselwa kwesithombe sokuziphatha kuyindlela yokwelashwa okuzikhethela. Ukuvuselelwa kwengqondo kubalulekile hhayi okungaphansi, kepha ukuhlanzwa komzimba kaningi ngokwengeziwe kusuka emikhiqizweni yokwehla kwezidakamizwa eziqukethe utshwala. Uma utshwala enganikwa isisusa sokuyeka ukuphuza, yena ngokwakhe akasoze akwenze.