Kuyini ukugxekwa?

Ukugxekwa okubi kunethonya eliqondile ebuhlotsheni babantu kanye nokuphila ngokujwayelekile. Nakuba kubaningi kuyisisusa esihle kakhulu sokuthuthukisa futhi kufinyelele izindawo eziphakeme.

Kuyini ukugxekwa?

Ngaleli gama baqonda ukuthi kungenzeka ukuveza umbono wabo omubi ngesenzo noma isimo esithile. Ekuqaleni, ukugxekwa ngokwakho kuveza inhloso enhle-isifiso sokushintsha isimo sibe ngcono. Kungani, ekugcineni, kuvame ukungqubuzana okukhulu nezikhalazo? Lokhu kungenxa yokungafani komgomo owaziwayo - isifiso sokwenza okungcono, nokungazi lutho - ukuthanda kwangempela. Ngokuvamile, kunezinhloso eziningana ezingaqondakali eziholela emiphumeleni emibi yokugxeka:

• isifiso sokuhlazisa noma ukulimaza;
• isifiso sokuzivikela ezithandweni zabanye;
• isifiso sokuthuthukisa ukuzethemba nokuzibeka.

Izinhlobo zokugxekwa

Ngokuvamile, kunezinhlobo ezimbili zokugxeka:

1. Ukugxeka okuhloswe - kuhloswe ekuthuthukiseni isenzo nesimo esithile. Uma usebenzisa lolu khetho, umphumela uzoba nomphumela omuhle, wonke umuntu uzokwenza iziphetho ezifanele futhi athuthukise umsebenzi noma ukuziphatha kwawo. Ukugxeka okuqondile kusho ukusetshenziswa kwempendulo, okungukuthi, uthola impendulo eyiqiniso embuzweni owake wabuza. Isibonelo, ungacela ozakwabo noma u-boss ngalokho okudingeka ukwenze ukuze uthuthukise umsebenzi wakho. Ngenxa yalokho, uzothola ukuphawula kanye nezifiso zangempela, lokhu kuwukugxeka okwakhiwayo.
2. Ukugxekwa okulimazayo noma okungenangqondo . Kulokhu, umuntu akazweli ukuhlolwa noma impendulo kwisenzo esithile, kodwa uhlobo lokubheka phezulu, isibonelo, "Awukwazi ukwenza okuhle", njll. Ukusola okunjalo kuyathinta ukuzethemba nokuziphatha. Ngokuvamile ukugxeka okungenangqondo kusetshenziswa abazali, ukuxhumana nezingane.

Ngaphambi kokunikeza ukuphawula okuqondile isenzo noma isimo, kudingeka uzibuze umbuzo ongokomqondo: "Ufuna ukufezani ekugcineni?". Mhlawumbe umgomo umane umcasule umuntu noma usufuna ukuthuthukisa isimo. Cabanga ukuthi noma yikuphi ukukhetha ozokwenza kuyoba nomthelela esimweni nasekuphileni ngokujwayelekile.

Uma ukhetha ukugxekwa okuwakhayo, sebenzisa izingxenye ezintathu ezibalulekile:

1. Tshela iqiniso futhi uveze konke okungahambisani nawe.
2. Yenza konke okusemandleni ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ubuhlobo nomuntu abuzange buyeke, futhi walalela ngokuzithoba imibono.
3. Ukufezekisa umphumela oyifunayo, okungukuthi, ukulungisa isimo