Ukuthi phakathi kwabantu abavamile kukhona abesifazane abanobuciko bemilingo beyaziwa ezikhathini zasendulo. Okokuqala, abathakathi babephathwa kabi, babanjwa futhi bashiswa esigxotsheni. Ezweni lanamuhla, bayesaba, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo bahlonishwa. Abantu abaningi baphendukela kubo ukuze basize ngezinkinga ezihlukahlukene. Abanye abathakathi abafihli amakhono abo, kuyilapho abanye bezama ukuhlala bengaboni.
Indlela yokubona umlumbi?
Naphezu kwesifiso sabesifazane abanomlingo ukufihla isisekelo sabo, ngoba namuhla izimpawu ziyaziwa, zivumela ngisho nokubukeka zihlukanise phakathi kwesixuku.
Izindlela zokubona umlumbi ngokubukeka:
- Ngokuyinhloko, bonke abesifazane abanomlingo bahle futhi bayaqiniseka. Okuthakazelisayo kunazo zonke, akunakwenzeka ukusho ukuthi yikuphi okuhehayo ekubukeni kwabo, kufana nokunye uhlobo lwe-magnetism.
- Ngokuqinisekile umlumbi unomkhuba othile wesilisa, isibonelo, kungaba ukukhula okukhulu, amahlombe amakhulu noma izwi elibi.
- Ungakwazi ukubona umlingo emehlweni, ngoba uma ubheka kuzo nganoma iyiphi indlela, noma uhambe ngokubukhali, noma uzame ukugwema ukubukeka ngqo. Laba besifazane banokubukeka okunzima nokubhoboza, abaningi babo bephonsa ukuthuthumela. Ngokuvamile, abathakathi bangabanikazi bamehlo alula, isibonelo, aluhlaza. Isenzakalo esibonisa ukuthi ngaphambi kokuba ube ngumlumbi wangempela - amehlo emibala ehlukahlukene.
- Esinye isici esiphawulekayo sabathakathi abaningi siyizinwele ezinhle kakhulu. Ngokusho kwezinkolelo, kuwukuthi amandla nezikhwepha zigxila kuzo, futhi uma zikhishwa, owesifazane uzolahlekelwa ngamakhono akhe.
- Esigqokeni sezinkoyi, khetha ama-dark shades nezesekeli, kunalokho, imibala ekhanyayo. Ngokuyinhloko, lezi yiziketi ezinde noma izingubo.
- Ungakwazi ukubona umlumbi ngezikhumbuzo zokubeletha, ngoba amamaki anjalo abizwa ngokuthi "iMark Devil". Amamaki kuphela asezindaweni eziyimfihlo, ngokwesibonelo, ezinyaweni, eduze kwezitho zangasese, ngaphansi kwezingalo, njll, ziyacatshangelwa. I-molecule noma indawo ingahluka kakhulu ngobukhulu, kodwa bayoba nesimo esingavamile. Uma uphonsa indawo enjalo ngenaliti, khona-ke ngeke kube khona igazi, futhi umlumbi ngeke azizwe.
Ekuphileni, abesifazane abanomlingo abafani kakhulu nabanye besifazane, kodwa ezimweni ezithile bangabonakala kalula. Kubonisa indlela yokunquma umlumbi ngokuziphatha:
- NgoLwesine onempilo udinga ukuya esontweni izingubo zakho ziphenduke ngaphakathi futhi ungathinti lutho. Uma kukhona abathakathi ethempelini, ngokuqinisekile bayozibonakalisa. Kungase kube khona isithombe somlumbi ongcolile ngemuva kompristi.
- Kuyadingeka ngeSonto lePalm ukuhlukanisa lelikhandlela futhi ngolunye usuku ukuya endaweni engcwele, nokulikhanyisa. Uma kukhona umlwane oseduze, ngokuqinisekile uzozibonakalisa ngokwakhe futhi aphenduke phansi.
- Ungabona umlumbi phakathi kwabantu ngendlela ashiya ngayo isonto. Into yukuthi abesifazane abanjalo bayakwenza ngemilenze yabo, ngoba ababekezeli amandla avela emathempelini.
- Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, inkolelo yokuthi umlumbi angabonakala esitebeleni lapho izinkomo zitholakala khona. Umuntu kufanele afihle lapho futhi alinde ukubukeka kwekati elimnyama noma i-frog. Uma bebangela noma yiluphi uhlobo lokulimala, ngosuku olulandelayo, ukuthola owesifazane enezinxeba kule ndawo kungashiwo ukuthi ungumlumbi.
- Ngokuvumelana nezinkolelo-ze, umlumbi unezindawo eziningi emzimbeni wakhe ngaphandle kokuphela kwezinzwa futhi uma umzimba wakhe ubanjwe, ngeke azizwe ubuhlungu, futhi ngenxa yalokho ngeke kube khona ukusabela kuye.
Ngenxa yokuthi umlumbi angakwazi ukuphatha kalula amandla akhe, futhi uyazi izimfihlo zemvelo kanye nohlelo oluhlukile, ukubukeka kwakhe akuguquki isikhathi eside. Odade abanjalo bathandwa kakhulu phakathi kwabameleli bobulili obuhlukile.