Umuntu uhlala, nsuku zonke, ngawo wonke amathuba, uzama ukuthola izifiso zakhe, imigomo, kuqala, ukuxhumana nabanye abantu. Ekusebenzisaneni komphakathi, kuvame ukungaqondani, ukungqubuzana, okungahambisane nokungahambi kahle, ukungezwani, ukuhlukaniswa, ngakho-ke izinhlobo zezingxabano zenhlalo zibaningi. Ubuhlobo bomphakathi abuyena ngaphandle kwensimu yokulwa njalo noma ukubuyisana kwezintshisekelo. Ngezinye izikhathi baya empini emide ebuhlotsheni ngezinye izikhathi abanomlingiswa obomvu, okusho ukuthi izingxabano, izimbangela kanye nezinhlobo zesinqumo sabo zizohlukahluka komunye nomunye.
Cabanga ngezinhlobo eziyinhloko zezingxabano ezihlukaniswa ngokuvumelana nezihloko eziphikisanayo:
- Ukungqubuzana komuntu kungukungqubuzana okwenzeka ngaphakathi komuntu othize ezingeni lokuqonda kwakhe. Loluhlobo lwezingxabano lubhekisela ekuziphatheni kwengqondo kuphela, kodwa lubangelwa izinto zangaphandle futhi lungaba yisisusa sokuqhamuka kwengxabano yeqembu, ukungezwani kweqembu.
- Ukuzibandakanya - ukuhlukaniswa kwezinhlobo zamabango kuhlanganisa ukungqubuzana, okungavumelani phakathi kwamalungu amabili noma ngaphezulu eqenjini elilodwa noma amaqembu amaningana.
- I-Intergroup - ingxabano phakathi kwabantu, abantu abakha iqembu, elinye iqembu. Loluhlobo lwezingxabano luvame kakhulu, ngoba abantu abazosebenza kwabanye bavame ukuthola abaxhasi ngenhloso yokwakha iqembu labantu abanomqondo ofanayo.
- Ukungqubuzana kokuba ngumnikazi. Izinhlobo zokuphikisana kwengqondo zithatha indawo enzima, futhi lezi zinhlobo zingenye yezindlela eziyinhloko. Ukuphikisana kwenzeka ngenxa yohlu lomuntu ngamunye. Lokhu kungukuthi, lapho abantu bedala iqembu ngaphakathi kwelinye, elikhulu, noma lapho umuntu oyedwa engakanye ngesikhathi enamaqembu amabili okuncintisana aphishekela umgomo owodwa.
- Ukungqubuzana nemvelo yangaphandle. Kudalwa lapho abantu abakha iqembu behlangabezana nokucindezelwa kwangaphandle (kusuka emithethweni yezomnotho, yamasiko, yokuphatha, imikhuba). Ngokuvamile, bafaka ukungqubuzana kulezi zikhungo ezisekela lezi zimiso, izinkambiso.
Izinhlobo nezinhlobo zempi zihlanganisa nokuphikisana kohlobo oluthile. Kuyakwazi ukuthwala impikiswano phakathi komuntu ohlukene neqembu labantu. Lokhu kungavumelani kuvela lapho ubuntu behhotela buthatha isikhundla esihluke kunaso sonke isikhundla seqembu lonke.
Masibuyele ekuhlolisweni okuningiliziwe ukuthi yiziphi izinhlobo zokuphikisana phakathi kwabantu:
- Ngokuzikhombisa (okungokomqondo noma emphakathini, ochwepheshe noma ekhaya).
- Ngezisusa (zangempela noma ezikhohlisayo, ziqondiswa kahle, ziqondiswa kabi).
- Emiphumeleni (emihle noma emibi).
- Ngokombono wezinhlangothi eziphikisanayo (intra-indima noma indima ephakathi).
- Ngethonya elingokomzwelo, amandla okuthonya ekuphikisaneni (okuqinile nokubuthakathaka).
- Isilinganiso semithelela (ebanzi noma yendawo).
- Ngesikhathi (okufutshane, okuphindaphindiwe, isikhathi esisodwa, okuhlangene).
- Ngokwendlela yokubonakaliswa (yangaphandle, yangaphakathi, ehleliwe noma engahleliwe).
- Ngemithombo yemvelaphi (okuzithobayo noma inhloso).
Izimbangela, njengezinhlobo zokuphikisana kwabantu, zihlukaniswa ngezizathu eziningana:
- Ihlanganiswe nezici zobungani bomuntu siqu.
- Ihlotshaniswe nokuqukethwe kokuxhumana kwabantu.
- Ihlanganiswe nezici zomuntu siqu ezithintekayo empini.
Njengoba lezi zinhlobonhlobo zihlukana, kunezindlela ezahlukene zokuxazulula izingxabano:
- Ukunakekela.
- Ukuguquguquka.
- Ukubambisana.
- Ukuncintisana.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi isimo esiphikisanayo sinama-pluses kanye namaminithi ayo futhi, ukuze kuvinjelwe imiphumela emibi emacimbini amabili aphikisanayo, kubalulekile ukuba nesikhathi sokumisa impikiswano noma umsuka wokungavumelani.