Amanethiwekhi omphakathi wokuxhumana

Namuhla akunakwenzeka ukucabanga ngokuphila kwentsha yanamuhla nentsha ngaphandle kokuxhumana nabantu. Lapha ungaba nesipiliyoni, isimo sengqondo, thola ama-comrades ekubukeni kwezombangazwe nangokwenkolo, imibono yokushintshanisa ngendaba ethile. Endaweni yokuxhumana nabantu uzothola abajwayelene nabo kanye nokuxhumana , izinto zokwenza umsebenzi nokufunda, kanye neminye imininingwane eminingi ewusizo.

Abasebenzisi be-intanethi baseMelika bakholelwa ukuthi umsebenzi oyinhloko wenethiwekhi yezenhlalo yithuba lokuthola ukuxhumana okuhle. Kusho ukuthi ngokusebenzisa uchungechunge lwabantu abaningana ongazijwayeza ngisho nomengameli ngokwakhe. Sikuqaphelisisa ngokuncintisana kwamanethiwekhi omphakathi wokuxhumana, okuzokusiza ukuthi uthole i-Druze, mhlawumbe ngisho nothando.


Uhlu lwamanethiwekhi omphakathi wokuxhumana

Phakathi kwabo kukhona ukuxhumana kwabantu baseMelika okukhulumisana, ukuxhumana nabantu ekukhulumisaneni kwentsha, ukuxhumana nabantu ngokuzilibazisa, umsebenzi, ukutadisha, ukuzijabulisa, njll.

Imithetho yokuxhumana kumanethiwekhi omphakathi

Kubonakala sengathi abantu sebevele bekhulume isikhathi eside kumanethiwekhi omphakathi ukuthi abadingi imithetho, ikakhulukazi uma sekukhona uhlu oluthile lwezinkambiso. Phela, akekho oye wakhansela izimiso zokuxhumana, ngisho noma kungumphakathi wokuxhumana nabantu. Kodwa, ngeshwa, abantu bavame ukukhohlwa ngisho nezinqubo zokuxhumana eziyisisekelo , ngenxa yokuthi kuvela ukungezwani okuningi. Futhi lokhu kukhathazeka, ikakhulukazi izincwadi zebhizinisi, ngoba emuntwini, ukukhulumisana kuyinto elula futhi ayidingi ukusemthethweni. Nazi imithetho embalwa eyokusiza wenze ukuxhumana kuphumelele kakhulu.

  1. Njalo uzethule uma ubhalela umuntu ongaziwa. Naphezu kokuthi igama lakho selivele libonakala, ungabi nobuvila ukubhala amagama ambalwa mayelana nokuthi ungubani, kuphi nokuthi kungani ubhala. Lokhu kuzosetha ithoni kuyo yonke ingxoxo. Ukubingelela kuqala ngamazwi athi "Sawubona", "Usuku oluhle" noma "Sawubona", kodwa ungabhali "Isikhathi esihle sosuku" - lokhu kungadala ukucabanga ukuthi wenza lokhu kuphela, ukuthi uthumele izincwadi kuwo wonke umuntu olandelanayo futhi awusebenzi ngisho nokufaka isikhashana umongo noma ukubingelela. Qinisekisa ukwengeza ukubingelela ngamagama. Futhi, le ncwadi kufanele ibhekisele kumuntu othi "Wena". Ngencwadi enkulu noma encane, lena ibhizinisi lakho, kodwa ungashintsha kuphela emva kwemilayezo eminingi noma izinhlamvu kanye kuphela nemvume ye-interlocutor.
  2. Qala ngento esemqoka. Yonke imininingwane yokwethulwa kumele ibe yimisho emibili. Okulandelayo, hamba ngokuqondile iphuzu: ubuza umbuzo, isipho, njll, futhi ungamemezeli wena noma inkampani yakho.
  3. Phendula njalo ngesikhathi futhi ufunde ukuthi "cha." Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu. Kusukela uma ubambezela ngempendulo, khona-ke umuntu kukhona umbono omubi ngawe. Futhi ungesabi ukwenqaba. Ngemuva kwakho konke, uma uthatha umsebenzi ongathandi noma awunayo isikhathi sokwenza lokho, uzoshiya nombono omubi ekudumeni kwakho nasemizweni yakho.
  4. Phendula ngokuzithoba futhi ngokuzivimbela, sebenzisa isihloko sencwadi. Uma uhlela isihloko ngamazwi ambalwa, amathuba okuthi uzophendulwa azokhula ngokuphawulekayo. Futhi uma ithoni ye-interlocutor ikuthinta ngento ethile noma ibonakala ingenangqondo nokuzikhukhumeza, bonisa ukuvimbela. Impendulo ehloniphekile "iyopholisa" lowo muntu futhi imbeke yona.

Ukunamathela kumasiko wokukhulumisana kumanethiwekhi omphakathi, ungazibeka njengomuntu onesizotha, onomthwalo wemfanelo nomuntu ongathanda ukubambisana noma enze abangane.