Naphezu kokubonakala kungenakusiza nobuthakathaka, umntwana osanda kuzalwa unezici ezidingekayo kanye nezinqubo ezinika ithuba lokusindisa impilo nokukhula. Indima eyinhloko kulokhu idlalwe yizindinganiso ezingekho ngaphansi komsebenzi ezinikezwe umsebenzi wesimiso sezinzwa futhi zingakusizo kuphela ukuvikelwa, ukuxhumana nezinto ezizungezile nokudla okunomsoco, kodwa futhi zibe yisisekelo sokwakheka kwezinhlobo eziyinkimbinkimbi nezinhlobo zomsebenzi we-neuropsychic.
Lesi sihloko sizinikele emithethweni nasezikhungweni zokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo kwengane, lapho sizokhuluma khona ngezinkinga kanye nokuphambana nentuthuko yengqondo yengane, sizocubungula izici zomuntu wengqondo yentuthuko yengqondo.
Izinto ezibalulekile kanye nephethini lokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo yengane
Izinga lentuthuko yesimiso sezinzwa zesintu lihluke ngokweqile kuze kube yiminyaka. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ingane encane, ngokushesha izinqubo zokuthuthukisa ziyahamba.
Ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila, i-crumb ithola izimo eziningi ezinengqondo ezikhomba izindlela zokuziphatha ezimweni ezahlukene. Amakhono nemikhuba etholakalayo esikhathini esizayo nazo zidlala indima ebalulekile, ngokuyinhloko ekunqumeni indlela yokuziphatha kanye nezindlela ezivamile zokuthi ingane isabele. Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu kusukela ebusheni ukuba ulawule okungokwenyama kuphela, kodwa futhi nokuthuthukiswa ngengqondo kwengane, umbonise isibonelo esihle futhi ufunde izindlela ezifanele zokuziphatha. Phela, imikhuba etholakalayo ebuntwaneni ngokuvamile ihlala isikhathi eside.
Inkulumo idlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni ingane. Ukwakhiwa kwekhono lokukhuluma kungenzeka ngenxa yokuthuthukiswa kancane kancane kwe-analyzer nomsebenzi wokuzwa kwengqondo. Kodwa ncamashi ngesilinganiso esifanayo inkulumo yimbangela yomsebenzi wezemfundo, ukuxhumana kwemvuthu nabantu abadala. Ngaphandle kokuxhumana njalo nabantu abadala, ukubunjwa kwenkulumo yengane akunakwenzeka.
Ngokusho kososayensi, eminyakeni yamuva ekuthuthukiseni kwengqondo kwezingane lezi zindlela ezilandelayo ziye zaphawula:
- ukushaywa umoya (ukwanda kwenani lezingane ezinezimo ze-asthenic);
- kanyerogyny (ukuqubuzana kokuhlukana kobulili);
- ukunciphisa ukusheshiswa kwentuthuko nokukhula kwezingane;
- ukwanda kwamacala okukhula emzimbeni, ukunciphisa umzimba nokukhula;
- i-gracilisation (ukunciphisa ubukhulu bemisipha);
- ukukhishwa kwentsha (ukwanda kwenani lezingane ezinamazinga aphezulu neziphezulu ezihlakaniphile).
Sula imingcele yobudala nemigomo yokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo engekho. Uhlelo lwesimiso somuntu luyisimo esingavamile kakhulu. Ngokuvamile zonke izingane zinezici ezithile zokuthuthukiswa ezingahambisani nohlaka oluqinile, kodwa amaphethini ajwayelekile, ukuhleleka kanye nemingcele yobudala "ephansi" ne "engenhla" yazo zonke izigaba zokuthuthukiswa ichazwa.
Izinkinga zokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo yengane
Kunezikhathi eziningana "zesikhashana", izinkathi ezinzima zokuthuthukiswa kwengane. Ukubunzima kwabo kubangelwa ukuthi ngezikhathi ezinjalo ukuziphatha kwengane kuyashintsha, kuba yinto engacabangeki futhi ephathekayo. Abazali abangazi ukuthi kunezinkinga ezinjalo bavame ukubhekana nezinkinga eziningi, kuhlanganise nokulahlekelwa ikhono lokulawula ingane yabo kanye nokuthola ulimi olufanayo naye.
Izinkinga zokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo:
- Inkinga yonyaka owodwa . Kuhlotshaniswa nokwandiswa kokuzimela kwengane. Ingane ayisekelwe ngokuphelele kumama, angadla, asuse, athathe izinto futhi adlale nabo. Kodwa inkulumo ayikathuthuki kahle kakhulu, futhi ngokuphendula ukungaboni kahle kwabanye, ukuvutha kwentukuthelo, ukuhlukunyezwa, ukwesaba ngokuvamile kubonakala.
- Inkinga yeminyaka emithathu . Lokhu kuyinkinga yokuzihlukanisa. Izinkinga eziyinhloko zalesi sikhathi zibonakaliswa ngalezi zindlela zokuziphatha kwengane: ukuzifunela, ukungahambi kahle, ukungabi nenkani, ukwehla kwenkani, inkani, ukuxolisa, ukuphikisana kwemibhikisho.
- Inkinga yeminyaka eyisikhombisa . Isikhathi lapho ingane ilahlekelwa ukuzithokozisa kwengane futhi ithola "i-social". Ukubukeka kwemikhuba, ukuvutha, ukugcoba, ukulimaza, ukuziphatha kungabonakali, kunzima, njll. Igunya labazali liyingxenye engabaza, ukunikeza igunya lomuntu omdala empilweni yengane - uthisha.
- Iminyaka yobudala ivame ukubizwa ngokuthi "inkinga yokuthatha isikhathi eside" . Eqinisweni, emfundweni yabasha, kukhona "imingcele" eminingi nobuqili. Into ebaluleke kakhulu abazali okufanele bayikhumbule ukuthi ingane ingumuntu ogcwele
kufanelekile ukuthanda nokuhlonipha, futhi unelungelo lokwenza amaphutha.
Ukuqinisekisa ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo evamile kwezingane nganoma yisiphi isikhathi, ubudlelwane obuseduze nabazali, ukuxhumana nabantu abadala, isimo esihle ngokomzwelo emndenini kanye nethuba lokuzizwa likhululekile, umuntu ogcwele ngokugcwele ubaluleke kakhulu. Abazali kufanele bafunde izici zentuthuko yezingane ezineminyaka ehlukene, babe nesithakazelo ezindabeni zenkolelo yokukhulisa, babheke izingane zabo, futhi uma kwenzeka izibonakaliso zokungajwayelekile noma ezinye izimpawu zokukhathazeka, ungesabi futhi ngokushesha uthintane nodokotela.