Bonke abazali baphupha ukuthi ingane yabo ekhulayo iphumelele ekukhulumeni neontanga. Emva kwakho konke, kungenxa yokuxhumana nezingane ukuthi uhlamvu, uhlobo lokuziphatha emphakathini nobuntu lwakhiwa. Yingakho ukuzivumelanisa nomphakathi kubaluleke kakhulu ezinganeni zasenkulisa. Ukufika kunoma yikuphi okuhlangene, abantu badinga isikhathi sokujwayela futhi "bazivelele" ngokwabo, kuyilapho izingane zifunda emphakathini ukuba ziphile, ezithinta ngokuqondile ukuthuthukiswa kwazo.
Izici zomphakathi wengane
Ukuthuthukiswa kwezenhlalakahle zezingane zasenkulisa kubandakanya inqubo yokubambisana nezingane zamagugu, amasiko kanye namasiko omphakathi, kanye nezimfanelo zomphakathi zomuntu, okusiza ingane ukuba iphile kahle emphakathini. Ngenqubo yokuzivumelanisa nabantu, izingane zifunda ukuphila ngemithetho ethile futhi zicabangele izimiso zokuziphatha.
Enkulumweni yokukhulumisana, ingane ithola ulwazi lokuzijabulisa, olunikezwa indawo eseduze: abazali, abafundisi begadi nabangane. Ukufaneleka kwezenhlalakahle kutholakala ngenxa yokuthi ingane ikhuluma ngokushelela futhi ikwabelana ngolwazi. Izingane ezingenakulungiswa ngokuvamile zilahla okuhlangenwe nakho kwabanye abantu futhi azihlangani nabantu abadala nabangane. Lokhu kungaholela ekuziphatheni okungekho emphakathini esikhathini esizayo ngenxa yokungabi namakhono amasiko kanye nezimfanelo zomphakathi ezidingekayo.
Noma yimuphi umsebenzi unenhloso, futhi ikhono lomntwana lokufeza umgomo linikeza ukuzethemba futhi unikeza ukuqaphela amandla akhe. Umqondo obaluleke kakhulu ubonisa ukuhlolwa komphakathi futhi kuthinta ukuzethemba kwawo. Ukuzihlola kwezingane ngokuqondile kuthinta impilo yabo kanye nokuziphatha kwabo.
Izindlela zokufaka ulwazi lwezenhlalakahle zezingane
Ukuze ubuntu bomntwana bukhule ngokuvumelana, intuthuko yezenhlalakahle zezingane kufanele isekelwe ohlelweni lokufundisa olubalulekile. Izindlela ezithinta ukwakheka kwesimo senhlalo yengane zihlanganisa imisebenzi elandelayo:
- Ukugembula : emdlalweni, izingane zizama ukuzibandakanya izindima ezihlukahlukene zomphakathi ezenza bazizwe begcwele amalungu omphakathi.
- Ukucwaninga : kuthuthukisa ulwazi lomntwana, kumvumela ukuba athole izixazululo eyedwa.
- Umsebenzi wokufunda : kwenza umntwana azi umhlaba ozungezile futhi anelise izithakazelo zakhe ezingqondweni.
- Umsebenzi wokuxhumana : kusiza ingane ukuthola ukuxhumana ngokomzwelo nomuntu omdala, uthole ukwesekwa nokuhlolwa kwayo.
Ngakho-ke, lapho kudala izimo zokuthuthukiswa kwezenhlalakahle zezingane, akudingekile nje ukudlulisela isipiliyoni sezenhlalo kubo ngolwazi namakhono, kodwa futhi ukukhuthaza ukudalulwa kwamandla angaphakathi.