Ezinyangeni zokuqala zokuzalwa kwakhe, ingane isondelene kakhulu ukuxhumana nabazali bayo kuphela: ububele, ukunakekelwa, uthando. Kodwa ukukhula, ukukhula kakhudlwana kudinga uhlobo oluhlukile lokuxhumana: ukudlala nabangane, ukuxhumana namanye amalungu omndeni, nezwe langaphandle - lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi ukuhlanganiswa kwengane, ngaphandle kokuthi ukuphila kwanoma yiluphi ilungu eligcwele lomphakathi alikwazi. Umgomo oyinhloko walokhu kusebenzisana ukuqeqeshwa kwemigomo yezingane kanye nemithetho yokuziphatha, amakhono wokwakha ubuhlobo.
Mugs kanye nezigaba, njengendlela eyengeziwe yokwenza umphakathi
Ukufakazela ukubaluleka kokukhulumisana kwabantwana, ngicabanga ukuthi akusiqondi, wonke umzali othanda futhi othanda injabulo yengane yakhe uqonda lokhu ngaphandle kwamazwi angadingekile. Ukuzibandakanya kwabafundi abasebancane abatholakali kuphela eqenjini afundela kuyo, kodwa nakwezinye izingxenye nemibuthano ehlukahlukene. Ngakho-ke, kubaluleke kakhulu kusukela ebuntwaneni ukuqala ukufaka intshisekelo yengane ezinhlotsheni eziningi zobuciko, ezemidlalo. Lokhu akukhona kuphela ukuthola amakhono amasha kuye, kodwa futhi nokuqinisa impilo, futhi uma ingane yakho iphumelela impumelelo ethile, inika futhi ithemba, ngaphezu kwalokho abangane abasha, isiyingi esithile sabangane sinika ingane imizwa emisha kanye nezinye izibonelo zokwakha ubuhlobo .
Indima yokuzibandakanya emphakathini ezimpilweni zezingane
Ukuzibandakanya kwezingane zasenkulisa, njengombuso, kwenzeka enkulisa. Futhi noma ngabe abazali banethuba lokuhlala nezingane ngaphambi kwesikole ekhaya, kungcono ukuyilahleka, ngoba ngokushesha lo mkhuba uzoba nombuthano omusha womphakathi, cishe uzophumelela empilweni futhi uzoba nethuba lokuziqhenya.
Okubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlalisana kwengane emndenini, kodwa kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi embuthanweni wabazali nezihlobo umntwana udlala indima efanayo, futhi eqenjini unethuba lokuzama ezisha. Khuthaza amakhono akho amancane avela kuminyaka yobudala: uhambe udlale ezindaweni zokudlala, uvakashele izikole ezihlukahlukene zokuthuthukiswa, ngoba indima yokuzibandakanya emphakathini ezimpilweni zezingane ayigugu, esikhathini esizayo umntwana wakho ngokuqinisekile uzokubonga.
Izici zomphakathi
Ngokujwayelekile, ukuhlangana komphakathi kwabasha kuyabangela izinkinga ezithile emindenini yabo, ngoba ngaleso sikhathi umntanakho uhlangabezana nesikhathi esiphezulu, futhi igunya labazali liphansi kunelabo nabangane. Ukuhluleka kwe-Hormonal, izinkimbinkimbi mayelana nokubukeka okubukeka kwenza kube nzima ngezinye izikhathi ukuxhumana phakathi kokukhulela izingane. Izazi zezinqondo zeluleka ngalesi sikhathi, ngangokunokwenzeka ukuthi unake izingane zabo, zama ukuba abangane babo. Uma abazali kanye nentsha banokuzilibazisa okuvamile, lokhu kuzosindisa isimo, kuqinise ukholo lwabasebuntwaneni futhi kuphakame ukuzethemba.