Izinhlobo zemfundo yomndeni - isici esijwayelekile esinobuhlobo obunzima phakathi komndeni owodwa. Zithembele ngokugcwele esimweni sabazali ngokujwayelekile futhi zenziwa izici ezintathu eziyinhloko:
- ukufaneleka - ukufaneleka kokusebenzisa izimiso ezithile zemfundo kumntwana othize enezici zayo;
- ukuguquguquka - ikhono lomzali ukuhambisa, ukuguqula, ukuvuselela, uma izimo zidinga;
- ukubikezela - isethulo esilandelayo somphumela wokusetshenziswa kwezitayela ezithile nezinhlobo zemfundo yomndeni.
Imingcele elandelayo ithathwa njengesisekelo sokuhlukaniswa kwezinhlobo zomndeni nokukhuliswa komndeni:
- Izinga lokwamukelwa ngokomzwelo kanye nesithakazelo sabazali emntwaneni.
- Ukubonakaliswa kokunakekelwa, ukubamba iqhaza.
- Ukulandelana kokugcwaliseka kwezinhlobo ezithile zokukhuliswa komntwana emndenini.
- Ukufuna.
- Ikhono labazali lokulawula ukubonakaliswa kwabo okubuhlungu.
- Izinga lokukhathazeka.
- Izici zokuphatha ngaphakathi komndeni wonke.
Izinhlobo ezijwayelekile kakhulu zemfundo yomndeni
Ngokusekelwe kulezi zici ezingenhla, singakwazi ukubona izinhlobo ezingu-576 ezihlukene zokufundisa imindeni "ezilungile" nezithi "ezingalungile," kodwa empilweni yangempela, ngokuvamile ziyinhloko eziyisishiyagalombili kuphela:
- Ukulahlwa ngokomzwelo - abazali bancane kakhulu ekubonakalweni kwemizwelo kumntanami futhi maduzane naye uyajwayele ukukhombisa imizwelo ebheke kubo. Izingane ezinjalo zikhula zivaliwe, zinezinkinga ezingokomzwelo ezibucayi kakhulu futhi zizithoba.
- Isimo sengqondo sokuhlukunyezwa ngokuvamile sihambisana nokulahlwa ngokomzwelo. Ubuqotho bungabonakalisa kokubili ukuhlukumeza ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo kwengane. Izingane ezikhuliswa ngale ndlela zivame ukubonisa ukukhathazeka kobuntu kanye nezinga eliphezulu lobudlova.
- Imithwalo yemfanelo ephakeme yokuziphatha - ukubeka okulindelekile okungakagcwaliseki kanye nethemba kumntwana, indlela ehlelekile kuyo. Inselele yomzwelo yabantwana abanjalo nayo ihluphekile, ilahlekile ezimweni ezinemibala ejulile.
- Ukukhulumisana okuphikisanayo kuvela esimweni sokulwa mayelana nezitayela zemfundo ngaphakathi komndeni. Izingane ezinjalo zikhula zikhathazeka, hypochondriac, zizenzisi.
- Ukwehliswa - ukungabi nentshisekelo yangempela empilweni yengane, ukungabi nokulawula. "Ukunganaki" izingane zibeka ingozi yokuwela ngaphansi kwethonya elibi lomunye umuntu.
- Hyperprotectics - hyperopeak , isifiso sokulawula ingane ngokugcwele
futhi ukumvikela ezweni langaphandle. Ngokuvamile umphumela wesidingo esingenakudingeka sabazali sothando. Ukukhathalela ngokweqile izingane zikhula zibe nobugovu, zingakwazi ukujoyina iqoqo ngokujwayelekile. - I-Hypochondria - iqala kule mikhaya lapho ingane igule khona isikhathi eside ngesifo esibi. Impilo yonke yomndeni iboshwe empilweni yakhe, konke kuphazamiseka ngokusebenzisa i-prism yesifo. Izingane ezinjalo ziyi-egocentric, cindezela isihawu.
- Uthando luhlobo oluhle lwemfundo yomndeni, lapho abazali bengamamukeli ngandlela-thile ingane, bacabangele izithakazelo zakhe, bakhuthaze isinyathelo.