Njengomthetho, isitayela sobukhosi semfundo yomndeni asifudumala kakhulu. Kubonakala ngokubaluleka kohlobo lokukhulumisana "umzali nengane". Konke ngaphandle kokukhetha, izinqumo zenziwa ngabantu abadala (abazali) abakholelwa ukuthi ingane yabo kufanele ilalele njalo njalo njalo.
Izici zesitayela sobugunyazi
- Ngemfundo yokuzibusa, abazali cishe ababonisi izingane zabo uthando lwabo. Ngakho-ke, kusukela ohlangothini ngokuvamile kubonakala sengathi basuswa kancane enzalweni yabo.
- Abazali njalo banikeza imiyalo futhi bakhombise ukuthi benzani nokuthi benzeni, kuyilapho kungekho ndawo yokunciphisa.
- Emndenini lapho isitayela sobukhosi sokukhulisa sikhona, izimfanelo ezifana nokulalela, ukulandela amasiko nenhlonipho kuhlonishwa kakhulu.
- Imithetho ayike ixoxwe ngaso. Ngokuvamile bakholelwa ukuthi abantu abadala bakulungile kuzo zonke izimo, ngakho ngokuvamile ukungalaleli kujeziswa ngezindlela zomzimba.
- Abazali njalo banciphisa ukuzimela kwabo, hhayi ukufaka isidingo sokubheka umbono wakhe. Ngesikhathi esifanayo konke kuhambisana nokulawula okuqinile.
- Izingane, ngoba zihlala zilalela imiyalo, ziba yinto engeyona isinyathelo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, abazali abahloniphekile balindela ukuzimela okungenabulungisa kubo ngenxa yokukhuliswa kwezingane zabo. Izingane, nazo, zikhona, ngoba zonke izenzo zabo zinciphisa ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zomzali.
Ukungahleleki kwesitayela semfundo sokugunyaza
Isitayela sobukhosi semfundo yomndeni sinamathuba amaningi ezinganeni. Ngakho-ke, kakade esemusha, kungenxa yakhe ephikisana njalo. Leyo ntsha esebenzayo iqala ukuvukela futhi ayifuni ukwenza izabelo zabazali. Ngenxa yalokho, izingane ziba nobudlova, futhi ngokuvamile zilahla ngokuphelele isidleke somzali.
Izibalo ziqinisekisa ukuthi abafana basemindenini enjalo bayathandana nodlame. Ngokuvamile bavikelekile ngokwabo, bagxiliwe njalo, futhi izinga lokuzihlonipha liphansi kakhulu. Ngenxa yalokho, zonke inzondo nentukuthelo zikhonjwe abanye.
Ubuhlobo obunjalo abukhiphi ngokuphelele ukuba khona kobudlelwane obungokomoya phakathi kwabazali nezingane. Emikhaya enjalo akukho okunamathiselwe okuhlangene, okuyinto ekugcineni kuholele ekuthuthukiseni ukuqapha kwabanye.
Ngakho-ke, esimweni semfundo kubaluleke kakhulu ukunikeza ingane inkululeko yokuthatha isinyathelo. Nokho, lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele kushiyelwe yedwa.