Psychology of Education

Ukubeletha ingane akuyona i-feat, kubalulekile ukuyikhulisa kahle. Lo mbono unabelwe ngamakhulu eminyaka bonke abazali. Kodwa yimuphi psychology of ingane imfundo? Indlela yokugcina isimiso sokuthi "ungenzi lutho olulimazayo" futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ukuze ukhule ubuntu obugcwele obungakwazi ukuziqhenya? Izimpendulo zale mibuzo ziphezu komqondo wokukhulisa.

I-Psychology yokukhuliswa kwezingane

Ngesikhathi esithile kanye nesigaba sezesayensi, isayensi yezokwelapha yokukhuliswa yahlukaniswa eminyakeni yama-40 ekhulwini lama-20. Emashumini ambalwa eminyaka, abameleli bale ndawo bahlanganyela ekutholeni izixazululo ezinkingeni zokubunjwa komuntu obumbene, inhlangano yeqoqo labantwana, ukuthuthukiswa kokuziphatha, ubuntu bomntwana, njll. I-psychology yokukhulisa isisekelo senzosilo yokufundisa, esiza ukuqonda ingane, ukuxazulula izinkinga zayo, ukuthola indlela kubo bonke abamele isizukulwane esincane.

Imiqondo eyisisekelo yokuthi ukucwaninga kwengqondo okucatshangelwayo ingacatshangwa ingacatshangelwa ngokomthetho ngesisekelo sokujwayelekile okukhonjwe nguP.I. Dish fast:

1. Imfundo yengane njengenqubo yokwakheka okuhambisanayo nezici zakhe zokucabanga nezokuziphatha kungenzeka kuphela ngokubamba iqhaza okusebenzayo kwengane ngokwakhe kule nqubo. Okungukuthi, isisekelo esiyinhloko semfundo efanele yilo msebenzi womuntu ofundiswayo.
2. Umsebenzi wengane enkambweni yemfundo kufanele ihambelane ngokugcwele nezidingo zawo zangempela. Uma kungenjalo, uthisha usengozini ekuphikeleni kwengane nokungahambi kahle.
3. Esikhathini semfundo, kufanele kube nokulingana phakathi kwemizamo yomfundi kanye nothisha. Ekuqaleni umntwana uphinda uthisha, umsebenzi wakhe ukwandisa futhi ekugcineni wenza konke yena ngokwakhe.
4. Ukuthuthukiswa kwengane kungenzeka kuphela ezimweni zomuzwa wothando nokulondeka.
5. Imfundo izoba nomthelela kuphela uma ingane ifinyelela iphuzu lokuphumelela komunye uhlobo lomsebenzi. Ngemva kokubona lo mzuzwana, abafundi bazothola umuzwa wokwaneliseka ngomphumela nokuhlanganyela kwakhe kulo msebenzi.
6. Inqubo yemfundo akufanele ivulekele. Uma kungenjalo, ingane izoqaphela ukuthi uzama ngokuqondile ukuthonya ukuziphatha futhi izophikisa ngokuqinile.

Kubazali abaningi, izingqinamba ze-psychology yokukhulisa izingane zobulili obuhlukile zifanelekile. Ngempela, "indoda yangempela" kufanele ikhule kumfana, futhi intombazane kufanele ikhulunywe njengowesifazane "weqiniso". Kodwa kuthiwani uma umndeni ukhula bobabili abantwana? Ukuze wenze lokhu, khumbula ubuncane bemithetho yokuqala.

Psychology yemfundo yomfana

1. Ungayibeke phansi. Kuyaziwa ngokuqinisekile ukuthi abafana basengozini kakhulu futhi bazwela ngamacala. Ungamjezisi ingane futhi uvame ukumshaya. Ukuze ukhule kuye ubuntu obunzima bufunde ukuthembela kwengane, kumnike uthando lwakho ngokugcwele, kumdumise nganoma yimiphi impumelelo futhi ungenqabe uthando nomusa, naphezu kokuthi ungumfana.
2. I-Nakornyu igxilise umbono wezinyembezi zesilisa. Abafana banelungelo lokukhala njengamantombazane. Ngaphandle kwalokho, ingane eyesaba ukuhleka usulu kwabazali neontanga izobamba ubuhlungu kuye, ibeka ingozi yokuthola izinkinga zempilo futhi ithola ubunzima obukhulu ekuvezeni imizwelo yakhe. Ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, uzoxoshwa futhi agxeka.
3. Nakekela ingane ngengqondo, kepha, ngokungekho emzimbeni. Akudingekile ukugcina umfana ngokuzikhandla ngokomzimba (isibonelo, ukuthwala isikhwama noma ibhayisikili ngemuva kwakhe). Ubeka engozini yokuthola indoda engalondekile nokuzethemba.
4. Ngokuphambene nenkolelo evamile, abafana bathanda ukudlala ngamadonki. Futhi ungabavumeli lokhu kumnandi. Kuyinto umdlalo odlala umdlalo ozayo ozomsiza abe ubaba omuhle nomuntu omuhle womndeni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, imidlalo namadonki izosiza amadoda esizayo ukuthi athole lula ukuthola ulimi nabesifazane.

Thanda abafana futhi ungakhohlwa ukubanika ububele bakho. Ungabi namahloni ngale mizwa, bese ekukhulisweni komuntu ozayo ngeke ube nezinkinga.

I-Psychology yemfundo yamantombazane

Ukuze ungenzi amaphutha futhi ungayitholi igundane elimpunga, elikwazi ukuma kuphela epulatifeni, khumbula inamba yemigomo ebalulekile:

1. Isizathu esiyinhloko esenza intombazane ikhule ibe yinto ejabulisayo, ezolile nokuzethemba ukusekelwa kwabazali nokwethenjwa. Ingane enesiqiniseko sokuthi esimweni esinzima abazali bazokwazi ukunqoba zonke izintaba ezikude.
2. Kunezimo lapho abazali befuna umfana noma emndenini kakade enezingane ezindala futhi ngokuzumayo intombazane izalwa. Khumbula ukuthi intombazane ayikwazi ukukhulelwa njengomfana. Ungabi ovilapha kakhulu ukuguqula isitayela sakho sokubeletha, kungenjalo ingane izobe ibhekene nezinkinga zokuziqhenya nokuxhumana nabanye.
3. Thuthukisa intombazane yakhe amathalenta namathalenta emvelo. Fundisa ubuhle nobunye bakhe, mdumise futhi uphinde ukuthi ubuhle kangakanani. Ekhulisiwe ngale ndlela, intombazane izokwazi ukuthi ihlukile, i-intelligence nobuhle bayo. Ngeke enze isenzo somuntu, abe nesihawu noma ahlupheke ngenxa yokuntuleka kwabantu ekuphileni.
4. Uma unquma ukuphoqa intombazane, ungatshele okwenayo ngaye. Kungcono uchaze ukuthi kungani enza kabi. Amantombazane angase ahlaziye amaphutha abo, kepha uma uqala ukukhukhumeza, khona-ke ngenxa yesimiso sengqondo ingane yakho ayiqapheli ukuthi iyamcasula.
5. Wonke amantombazane akwazi ukuzikhandla. Bazama njalo ukuqedela izinto kuze kube sekupheleni. Ungagcini lezi zimfanelo ezinganeni. Msekele izinto zokuzilibazisa kanye nemibono.

Ngokuvamile, izazi zengqondo zithi abafana badinga ukusekelwa okwengeziwe, futhi amantombazane adinga ukunakekelwa. Cabanga ngalokhu futhi uzokwazi ukuletha ubuntu obuvumelanayo. Futhi, lapho ufinyelela ingane engama-12 iminyaka, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubulili, ungakhohlwa nge-psychology yemfundo yentsha. Kule ndaba, kubhaliwe izinto eziningi ezingokwengqondo nezemfundo, kodwa kubalulekile ukukhumbula into esemqoka - uma usuka esemncane ukhulise ingane esimweni sokwethenjelwa nothando, khona-ke kuyoba lula ukuhamba ngemigodi yesikhathi esiphezulu. Into eyinhloko abazali okufanele bayenze ukukhokha ngokucophelela ukwakheka komuntu osemusha, ukwesaba nokukhathazeka kwakhe. Kule minyaka yobudala, akufanele ube abazali abaningi, njengabangane, abalingani kanye neqembu elihle lokusekela. Lapho ukuphambukiswa okuncane kakhulu ekuziphatheni kwengane, kufanelekile ukubonisana nesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, ngaphandle kwalokho ubeka engozini yokulahlekelwa yisikhathi lapho umgwaqo nabaontanga beba negunya lomntwana, hhayi wena.

Imfundo kusukela ekubukeni kwengqondo yinkimbinkimbi ebalulekile ekusebenzeni komuntu obumbene. Imithetho ye-psyche ihlangene ngokuphelele nezindlela zokufundisa. Isibonelo, i-psychology yobudala ikuvumela ukuthi ulandele izinguquko ezinganeni zomntwana njengoba zikhula futhi ngokusebenzisa izinyathelo zemfundo ziqondisa umthelela kulezi zidingo. Ngamanye amazwi, uma ufuna ukukhulisa ingane kahle, ungakhohlwa mayelana nesimo sakhe sengqondo esibucayi nesisongela. Lena imfihlo eyinhloko ye-psychology yemfundo efanele.