Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi izihlobo zethu zihambe kuleli zwe kuqala, zihlale enkumbulweni, zishiye izinkumbulo ezinhle. Futhi bavame ukufika emaphupheni ethu. Uma ungazi ukuthi leli phupho liholela kuphi lapho abazali abafile beya khona bephila, ungesabi ngaso leso sikhathi, ngoba akusho ngaso sonke isikhathi into embi.
Abazali abafayo baphupha ngani?
Ukuphendula lo mbuzo, abazali abafayo baphupha ndawonye noma bahlukane, kufanele siqale nje singesabi amaphupho anjalo. Yiqiniso, la maphupho awayikhohliwe - angashiya imizwelo eminingi yemvelo ehlukene kakhulu, ngezinye izikhathi ajabule futhi ngezinye izikhathi edabukisayo. Kodwa into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi amaphupho anjalo abaluleke kakhulu, futhi kunoma yikuphi, afanekisela uhlobo oluthile lwezigameko ezinkulu.
Ngingazi ukuthi izihlobo ezifile ziphupha ngani, isibonelo, unina, abaningi sebeqala ukwesaba okukhulu. Kodwa izihlobo ezifile zifakazela izinguquko ezizayo ezijabulisayo. Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi uma umuntu ophuphile efile maduzane, futhi ulokhu ukhala ngaye ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi ngokuvamile ucabanga - amaphupho anjalo awukubonakaliswa kwakho kuphela
Kuzo zonke ezinye izimo, umbuzo wokuthi kungani abazali abafayo bephupha, ungaphendula ukuthi lokhu akuyona nje injabulo. Ngakho-ke, isibonelo, ubaba oye wafa isikhathi eside ezimweni eziningi eze ephusheni ukuze axwayise mayelana nezinkinga emsebenzini, ukwehluleka kwebhizinisi, usongo lokulahlekelwa idumela. Uma kwenzeka umama oshonile ephuphile, lokhu kungabonisa ukuthi kwenzeke izinkinga ezingase zihlotshaniswe nempilo. Kunoma yikuphi, zama ukuzimela ngokuzimela imizwa nezixwayiso zabazali abafile.