Kuyaziwa ukuthi ngentuthuko egcwele ingane ngayinye idinga ukuxhumana, imithwalo yemvelo nengqondo. Abanye abazali bakhetha ukuthuthukisa ingane yabo ngokwabo, abanye, lapho beya emsebenzini, bamema ingane. Kodwa iningi lamama nobaba bakholelwa ukuthi isisombululo esihle kakhulu ukuhlela ingane enkulisa. Ngempela, enkulisa ingane ngeke isabeka. Imidlalo, imisebenzi yokudala, imfundo yemvelo kanye nezilimi zakwamanye amazwe inikeza ingane ngayinye ithuba lokuthakazelisa nokuthuthukiswa okugcwele. Ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi ingane yakho inendawo enkulisa, abazali kufanele baqhubeke kusengaphambili yonke imininingwane yokuthi bangayithola kanjani enkulisa.
Ngakho-ke, kanjani nokuthi ungabhalisa kuphi enkulisa? Abomama nabazali abanolwazi bayalulekwa ukuba bafunde zonke iziqili zalolu daba ngisho nangesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Lokhu ngeke nje kugcine isikhathi nemali, kodwa futhi ubhalise enkulisa, eseduze.
- Okokuqala, abazali kufanele balungiselele wonke amaphepha adingekayo. Ukuze uhlele ingane enkulisa uzodinga ipasipoti yomunye wabazali nesitifiketi sokuzalwa somntwana. Futhi, wonke amadokhumenti adingekayo aqinisekisa ukuthi abazali banelungelo lokuthola indawo ekhethekile esikhungweni semfundo esandulela esikoleni. Kunconywa ukwenza amakhophi azo zonke izincwadi.
- Emnyangweni wezemfundo wesifunda, abazali kumele bagcwalise isicelo bese behambisa imibhalo. Njengomthetho, ukwamukela emnyangweni kwenziwa izikhathi eziningana ngeviki, ngakho abazali bangazikhethela isikhathi esikahle.
- Ngemva kokunikezela amaphepha futhi ugcwalise isicelo, abazali bathola inamba ngayinye, okuyinto, njengoba umthetho, ibhalwe phansi ngepensela elula eceleni kwesitifiketi sokuzalwa kwengane. Leli nani lisho inombolo emgqeni wokungena enkulisa. Kanye ngonyaka, kubhaliswa kabusha kwezingane. Labo bantwana asebevele bathole ithikithi eya enkulisa bayashaywa kusukela ekuxhumaneni. Abakhethiweyo abasele bathola izinombolo ezintsha.
- Emnyangweni wezemfundo wesifunda, abazali bathola ukuthunyelwa enkulisa lapho kufika ithuba labo. Ngalesi siqondiso, kufanele uphenduke esikhungweni semfundo esandulela esikoleni bese uyisayina kusukela enhloko. Lapho ukwamukela ukuya enhloko ye-enkulisa, futhi, udinga ukuthatha: inqubomgomo yezokwelapha, isitifiketi sokuzalwa kwengane, ipasipoti yomunye wabazali.
- Ngaphambi kokuqala ukufika enkulisa, ingane idingeke ukuba ihambele ikhomishana yezokwelapha. I-passage yekhomishana yezokwelapha yinkambiso encane kakhulu, ephakathi kwamasonto amahlanu kuya kwangu-2. Ungathola ukuhlolwa kwezokwelapha ku-polyclinic yezingane zesifunda.
Izincomo ezijwayelekile kubazali abafuna ukuhlela ingane enkulisa:
- iminyaka yobudala yengane ukuqala ukuvakashela inkulisa kuyinto iminyaka emithathu. Kule minyaka ubudala umntwana usuvele ulungele ukuxhumana ekuhlanganyeleni kwezingane;
- Ukuqala ukuvakashela inkulisa kunconywa kusukela ekuqaleni konyaka wesikole esisha;
- Kanye ngonyaka, abazali bayelulekwa ukuba bazihlole ngokuzimela ukuqhubekela phambili komgca enkulisa. Lokhu kukuvumela ukuba uqiniseke ukuthi ingane yakho ngeke ikhohlwe;
- akunconywa ukuba ungaphutheli ukuphenduka ekungeneni enkulisa - lokhu kunciphisa amathuba okuba umntwana angene enkulisa.
Ngisho nokukwazi ukuthola umsebenzi enkulisa, abazali akufanele bahlehlise le nqubo ebhokisini elide. Ungathumela amadokhumenti akho emnyangweni wezemfundo wesifunda ngokushesha uma uthola isitifiketi sokuzalwa kwengane. Noma yimiphi imibuzo ebuhlungu abazali bangaxoxa nabanye abesilisa nabomama asebevele bahamba nale nqubo. Futhi esithangamini sewebhusayithi yethu ungathola kalula abantu abanomqondo ongathanda ukuxoxa nabo ngesihloko esithi "I-Kindergarten - ukuthi ungafika kanjani".