Ngokuvamile ngamaphupho kukhona abantu abanenani elithile ekuphileni kwethu. Isithombe ngasinye sinokuhumusha kwayo, okuzoxhomeka eminye imininingwane. Manje sizozama ukuthola ukuthi ikuphi isimo esikulungiselele sona lapho isithombe somama-kamama wangaphambili sibonakala ephusheni.
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Ngokuvamile iphupho elinjalo libikezela ukuvela kwezinkinga ezihlukahlukene ezizobangela ukuhlangenwe nakho okuningi okwesaba. Iphupho lapho ubona umamazana omdala owayengumgula khona uzokutshela ukuthi maduzane esinye sezihlobo zakho eziseduze noma abangane bazofuna usizo, lapho ongeke ukwazi ukunqabela khona. Ukuze ubone umamazala wangaphambili ephusheni bese uxabana naye, khona-ke ulindele izinkinga nabalingani emsebenzini. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi kunconywa ukuba kugcinwe futhi kuthule, ukuze ungaphuli. Iphupho lapho uhlangana khona nomamazala wakho wangaphambili, uxwayisa ukuthi maduzane emndenini lapho kungaba khona ukuxabana nokuhlukunyezwa okuhlukahlukene. Ungakhathazeki, ngoba konke kuzophela maduzane futhi umhlaba uzofika.
Enye yezincwadi zephupho inikeza enye incazelo yephupho mayelana nomamazala wangaphambili. Uthi zonke izinkinga ezikhona ungakwazi ukunqoba kalula futhi ekugcineni uthole umvuzo ofanelekayo. Iphupho, lapho uninazala wangaphambili ekunakekelwa ngesikhathi sokugula, ubikezela ukuthola usizo kumuntu ongazange alindele kuye. Iphupho lapho umamazana omdala owayengasekho khona abonakale kuwe, uthembisa izinguquko zamakhadi ekuphileni kwangempela. Ngisho nephupho elinjalo kubonisa ukuvela kokungaboni kahle nomlingani. Uma isihlobo sangaphambili sibonakala ephusheni ngenhliziyo enhle, kufanele ulindele imicimbi ebuhlungu. Uma ephikisana nalokho, ukukhala nokuthile okuthukuthele, khona-ke ubuhlobo buzofika injabulo . Iphupho lapho umama-mkhwenyana wangaphambili akuthatha khona ngandlela-thile, uxwayisa ukuthi kubantu abazayo abasuka kumbuthano oseduze bazokucasula.