Kusukela esikhathini eside esidlule, amaphupho ayebhekwa njengesihluku sekusasa. Intshisekelo kumaphupho iye yasinda nanamuhla. Kunezincwadi eziningi zokuphupha, isibonelo, incwadi yephupho kaFreud, uVanga, Miller, Juno, njll. Futhi eziningi zazo zabhalwa isikhathi eside ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwethu, ipeni labantu abakhulu, ngakho ngobuqiniso babo, awukwazi ukungabaza. Ukuze uthole ukuthi iphupho lakho lisho ukuthini, kubalulekile ukubola amaphuzu ayisihluthulelo, futhi kusuka kubo ukuqala.
Ngabe amaphupho angenzani othandweni?
Izinkinga ezicindezela kakhulu kule ndawo ziyisihloko sothando. Ngokuqinisekile, ngamunye wethu unesithakazelo sokwazi ukuthi yimaphi amaphupho enjabulo othandweni. Ngakho, okuvame kakhulu:
- umnyango;
- u-kiss;
- isidleke;
- inhlanzi;
- izilwane (ingwenya, unogwaja, isorkork, ihlengethwa);
- izimbali zezimbali (lily, sunflower, roses).
Manje chaza ezinye zezinketho ezingenhla. Uma uphupha ngomnyango, khona-ke wazi, uthando seluvele lukhona emnyango, futhi kulindeleke ukuthi ujwayelane nabantu abasha, abafisayo. Ungavumi ukubaluleka emaphupheni ngamaphi amaphupho othando, nezilwane. Ngakho-ke, isibonelo, izingonyama zizokunika ubuhlobo obusha, amahlengethwa - umshado oqinile, udoti - umshado ojabulisayo, onogwaja omhlophe uzokunika ukwethembeka.
Ibhere limelela ubudlelwane obude nobuqine, kodwa uma umthandi wakho engakusiza ephusheni, khona-ke lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokungathembeki okuzayo. Futhi, uma umanga - khona-ke uthando luthandana alukwazi ukugwema. Umhlambi wezimpisi noma inyoka ibonisa umshado. Futhi isibonakaliso esihle kakhulu sokuthi amaphupho othando olusheshayo yisidleke esibonakala ephusheni sibonakalisa injabulo yomndeni, ngokuqinisekile kuyoletha injabulo ethandweni, umshado wokuqala kanye nokufaka emndenini. Uma ubusika noma ekwindla amaphupho okuza entwasahlobo - lokhu kuyintando engalindelekile. Kodwa impikiswano ephusheni ingakwazi ukubikezela umhlangano ozayo. Ukudla ushokoledi namaswidi ephusheni kuzoholela ekuthandeni ama-adventures, amaqebelengwane, ngokuphambene nalokho - ekukhohliseni noma ekukhohliseni.