Masikhumbule ukubamba iqhaza kwezakhamizi empilweni yezombusazwe zombuso wabo. Ukubamba iqhaza kokhetho kuyamukelwa kuphela yibo bantu abafinyelele eminyakeni ethile, noma iningi. Ngesikhathi esifanayo eGrisi Yamandulo, isibonelo, bonke abantu abakhululekile, ababalelwa ku-12, babhekwa njengeminyaka yobudala. Emazweni amaningi anamuhla, umuntu angabonisa umbono wakhe futhi ahlanganyele ekuvotweni ngemuva kokuba umuntu ephenduka iminyaka engu-18 ubudala.
Ngakho-ke, kuvela ukuthi ingane encane ayinalo ilungelo, ngoba abazali bayo banelungelo. Ngakho kungani amalungelo omntwana ahluke kumalungelo omuntu omdala? Futhi lokhu ukungalingani kuvela kuphi? Ake sizame ukuqonda lo mbuzo.
Ingabe umntwana nomdala balingana namalungelo?
Kungokwemvelo ukuthi zonke izizwe namasiko zivimbela izingane ezincane emalungelweni abo. Naphezu kokulingana okubonakalayo, empeleni kuvela ukuthi omdala uba, amalungelo othola ngaphezulu. Okokuqala futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, lokhu kubangelwa ukunakekela izingane, ngoba baningi abangenalwazi, okusho ukuthi bangakwazi ukuphazamisa impilo yabo kanye nempilo yabo ngokungazi.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, izingane zibuthakathaka kakhulu kunabantu abadala futhi abathwali imithwalo yemfanelo yazo. Yiqiniso, ukuvinjelwa kwamalungelo wengane encane kungahlanganiswa kuphela nalezi zinkinga lapho ukungakwazi kwakhe nokuntuleka kwemfundo kungalimaza abanye noma yena. Ngokwenza njalo, lokhu akusiyo njalo indaba. Ngokuvamile ungabona izimo ezihlukene,
Okwamanje, emazweni amaningi anamuhla, amalungelo ayisisekelo wengane ahlonishwa . Namuhla, bobabili abantwana kanye nabantu abadala banelungelo lokuphila, ukuvikelwa ebudloveni, ekwelapheni okuhloniphekile, ebuhlotsheni namalungu emindeni yabo kanye nabantu abaseduze, ukuze kube nemibandela emihle emasiko, emzimbeni nasenhlalakahle yentuthuko, nokusekela imibono yabo .