Kubonakala sengathi nakamuva usufunde ukuthi uzoba abazali, futhi sekuyizinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye kakade, futhi umuntu omncane ongenakuzivikela usuvele wazalwa. Ulethe ekhaya lakho hhayi injabulo nethemba kuphela, kodwa futhi nomthwalo omkhulu, ngoba uhlobo luni lomuntu olusakhula luxhomeke kuwe.
Indima enkulu yomndeni ekukhulisweni kwengane, ngoba kulesi sikhungo emphakathini wethu ukuthi ingane iningi isikhathi. Kulapha ukuthi lakhiwa njengomuntu. Lapha uzizwa enakekela, ethandana nothando. Emindenini lapho ukuqonda okubili kubusa khona, futhi inhlonipho ngokuvamile ikhula izingane ezinhle. Abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi into ebaluleke kakhulu ekukhuliseni ingane, ukuthi ingane isondliwe, igqoke kahle futhi yalala ngesikhathi. Kodwa lena umbono ongalungile. Imfundo - umsebenzi onzima odinga amandla amaningi namandla. Phela, abazali akufanele bakhulume kuphela ngamazwi, kodwa futhi nesibonelo somuntu siqu sokufundisa izingane zabo.
Kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala zokuphila kwakhe ingane izwa ithonya lomama nobaba. Lena enye yezindlela eziyinhloko zokukhulisa izingane emndenini. Kodwa hhayi njalo isibonelo somuntu siqu kusiza ukuthola umphumela omuhle. Khona-ke kuyafaneleka ukusebenzisa ezinye izindlela zemfundo. Ababili babo sazi indlela "isanqante" nendlela "isanqante" kahle kakhulu. Ngezenzo ezinhle ingane ikhuthazwa, kepha ngenxa yobubi - ijeziswe. Ngezinye izikhathi kufanele uchithe umzamo omkhulu ukuze uqinisekise ingane ngokungalungi kwezenzo zakhe. Mbonise ukuthi wenza kabi kakhulu. Kodwa uma lokhu kwenzeka, imemori yakhe izogcina zonke izimpikiswano esinikeze isikhathi eside. Ukukhuthazwa enye indlela yokukhulisa ingane emndenini.
Isisekelo sokukhulisa izingane kusukela eminyaka sasisebenza. Kubalulekile ukufundisa ingane ukusebenza kusukela esemncane. Uma kungenjalo, amathemba akho esikhathini esizayo angeke afaneleke. Izingane zizokhula zibe yizinhlanzi zangempela nama-egoists. Awukwazi ukuwakhulula emsebenzini wemisebenzi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yisiphi isimo sezimali somndeni, wonke umntwana kufanele abe nemithwalo yakhe yemfanelo ekhaya. Kufanele kwenziwe ngokuziphendulela futhi ngaphandle kokubakhumbuza.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ukukhulisa ingane yakho, akufanele uvumele ukuphazamiseka. Ingane ngayinye iyizwe elihlukile: ezinye izingane zingaphezu kweselula, ezinye zinesibindi futhi zizinzile, kanti ezinye ziphikisana kancane, zinamahloni futhi ziyakhathazeka. Kodwa indlela kumele itholakale kubo bonke. Futhi ngokushesha lokhu kutholakala, izinkinga ezincane ingane ezozidala esikhathini esizayo.
Emindenini eminingi, imizwa nemizwa yengane yakho ifakwe phambili. Ngokuvamile, yiyiphi yabazali abazama ukuhlola ingane yabo, siyayithanda futhi siyayamukela njengoba kunjalo. Lesi yisici esiyinhloko sokukhuliswa kwezingane emndenini. Futhi nakuba sivame ukuzwa ukuthi awusoze wabhidliza uthando lomntwana, akulona iqiniso. Ngothando olukhulu senza konke okusemandleni akhe, silungele ukufeza noma yiziphi izifiso zakhe. Ngalesi siziphatha sonakalisa ingane yethu. Ukuthanda ingane, kumele sikwazi ukumenqaba. Uma singeke sikwazi ukwenza lokhu, sinezinkinga ekukhuliseni izingane emndenini. Ukuvumela ingane ukuba yenze noma yini, sihlanganisa ubuthakathaka bethu ngothando.
Imfundo yokuziphatha yabantwana
Ekhuluma ngemfundo yezingane emndenini, akumelwe sikhohlwe ngokuziphatha kwabo. Kuyini? Kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala zokuphila, engakakwazi ukukhuluma nokuhamba, ingane iqala "ukuhlola" isimo emndenini. Iphimbo elithandako lokukhulumisana, ukuhloniphana kuzosiza ekuhlakuleleni izidingo zokuziphatha ezinganeni. Ukumemeza okuqhubekayo, ukufunga, ukukhwabanisa kuzoholela emiphumeleni emibi. Imfundo yokuziphatha emndenini iqala nge: ukuphendula, umusa, ukungathandabuzeki ekuboniseni ububi.
Kuzo zonke izinto ezishiwo, sibona ukuthi indima yomndeni ekukhulisweni kwengane inkulu kakhulu. Ulwazi lokuqala, ukuziphatha, imikhuba umuntu azothola emndenini, iyohlala nayo yonke iminyaka yokuphila.