Kuhle, uma unina unethuba lokuhlala nengane okungenani kuze kube yiminyaka engu-3 - lokho okubizwa ngokuthi "yobudala" ubudala. Kodwa izimo emindenini zihlukile, futhi abazali abaningi baphoqeleka ukuba banikeze ingane enkulisa ngaphambi kokuthanda kwabo. Kodwa ngaphezu kwesifiso nesidingo, kunemigomo yobudala, kanye nezinye izidingo, okumele ziphendulwe yingane engena esikhungweni semfundo esandulela esikoleni.
Badluliselwa nini emkhombeni?
Embuzweni wokuthi eminyakeni engakanani manje abayithatha i-nursery impendulo ayinzima nakakhulu, ngoba ezinye izikhungo zilungele ukunakekela imvuthuluka enezinyanga ezingu-9, kuyilapho abanye bezama ukunamathela eminyakeni yobudala - iminyaka eyi-1.5. Lesi esinye sezikhathi eziphazamisayo kakhulu empilweni yengane, lapho edinga ukuba khona kwabazali kanye nokulondoloza ikakhulukazi, ngakho-ke ukulungiselela umkhombi kufanele kuqalwe ngaphambi kwesikhathi.
Yini okufanele ingane ikwazi ukuyenza ngaphambi kwe-enkulisa?
Emasimini amaningi, kunesidingo samakhono omntwana omncane angena eqenjini labahlengikazi, ikakhulukazi aqondene nokuhlanzeka nokuzinakekela: ingane kufanele ihambe ebhodweni, idle yedwa, zama ukugqoka futhi igqoke izingubo. Yiqiniso, la makghono eminyakeni eyi-1.5 izokuba kude kakhulu futhi wonke umuntu uyakuqonda, ngakho-ke, uma ingane ingakwazi ukuzidla ngokugcwele, ngeke ihlale ilambile noma kunjalo. Okufanayo kuya embizeni - okokuqala izingane ezisemkhombeni zingase zibe yilezi. Kodwa lokhu akubangela ukuthi abazali banikele ngokugcwele imfundo yengane yokuzimela kubasebenzi abafundisa.
Ukulungelelwa kwengane kokudla kungenwa kuphela ukwakheka kwamakhono omkhaya kanye namakhono okuhlanzeka, kodwa kufaka phakathi izici zengqondo. Ingane kufanele ilungele ukuyeka unina usuku lonke, ngakho kufanele uqale "ukuqeqesha" kusukela kanye
Futhi, ingane kufanele ingesabi ngabangaphandle, kuhlanganise nezinye izingane. Ngokuqinisekile, ngalesi sikhathi, izingane zisenamandla ngokwanele ukudlala eqenjini, kodwa okunye okuhlangenwe nakho kokuxhumana noontanga kungafakwa ngokuvakashela izindawo zokudlala zezingane, izikole zokuthuthukiswa kwangaphambili, ukuvakashela abangane nabantwana ukuba bavakashele futhi bavakashele ngokwabo.
Ngakho-ke, isinqumo lapho kufanele unikeze ingane enkulisa kufanele sinqunywe hhayi kuphela ububanzi beminyaka, kodwa futhi ngezinga lokulungela kwengane yenguquko enjalo endleleni yokuphila.