Sonke sihlala emphakathini. Nsuku zonke sizungezwe abantu abaningi esingaba nabo ngandlela-thile singene kwinkhulumomphendvulwano: izihlobo, abangane, osebenza nabo emsebenzini, abathengisi ezitolo, abadluli abahamba ngokungahleliwe-ngalolu hlu bangagcinwa kuze kube phakade. Vumelana, kungaba kuhle, ungalokothi wenze amaphutha ekusebenzelaneni nabo: bekungeke kube khona ukuphikisana emsebenzini, ukuxabana ekhaya, kungenzeke ngaphandle kwezinkinga, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo kulungile ngokuphelele, ukuvimbela ukuhamba kwezimoto zomphakathi noma ukusungula ubuhlobo nabomakhelwane abahlambalaza. Ngeshwa, uma lokhu kwenzeka ezweni langempela, khona-ke ukufeza okunjalo kubonakala kuwumsebenzi onzima, kepha lokho akusho ukuthi kuyasiza, okungenani azama ukuthuthukisa ikhono lomuntu lokuxhumana (noma, izazi zengqondo zithi, ukuxhumana).
Ikhono lokuxhumana - indlela eya empumelelweni
Iningi lethu liyakwazi ukuxhumana ngokukhululekile noma okuncane, kodwa njalo ungenzi lokhu ngokusemandleni ngangokunokwenzeka. Ukuze kuthuthukiswe amakhono okuxhumana, kufanelekile ukunaka izincomo eziningana:
- Ungazami ukugwema ekukhulumisaneni, ngokuphambene nalokho, yiba ngumqashi walo;
- zama ukujabulela iqiniso lokuxhumana nabantu;
- sebenzisa ubuciko bakho, imidlalo ethile ingasiza, isibonelo, "Imibuzo Yengoma", phakathi nale mdlalo iqembu labantu abaningana ukuze bahlukanise ngamaqembu amabili, ngamunye wabo ubuza umbuzo, futhi uthola impendulo ngesimo somculo odumile: "Kuphi okufanayo othandekayo wami kuphi? "-" Ehlathini elimnyama elihlaza okwesibhakabhaka, lapho i-aspen iyathuthumela khona ";
- zama ukulalela nokuzwa i-interlocutor yakho. Phakathi nendaba yakhe ungaphazamisi, ungaxoxiswane ngakho, futhi uhlale uxhumana naye;
- Yiba nethemba - akekho othanda ukulalela izikhalazo njalo mayelana nokuphila.
Zama ukusebenzisa lezi zeluleko ezilula ekuphileni kwansuku zonke, futhi uzobona - kuzoba lula ukuxhumana nabanye ozakwabo. Ukwengeza, ikhono lokwakha inkhulumomphendvulwano eyakhayo ibalulekile kumholi, ikuvumela ukuba wenze ukuhamba komsebenzi kuphumelele, ngakho-ke kunenzuzo kakhulu.
Amandla okuxhumana namadoda
Ikhono lokukhulumisana kahle namadoda, mhlawumbe, liyadingeka kuwo wonke owesifazane - lokhu kungenye yezakhi ezibalulekile zokukhangisa kanye nenjabulo yomndeni. Ngeshwa, ekukhulumisaneni nobulili obuqinile, sivame ukwenza amaphutha amaningi. Okuvamile:
- amagama amaningi kakhulu - namagama ngawe oyintandokazi, ngoba iye yaziwa isikhathi eside -
Amadoda ayithandi abesifazane abakhuluma, kodwa ngezikhathi ezithile sihamba ngegama elifanayo. Ladies, ufuna ukuheha nokugcina indoda - funda ukulalela nokubuza imibuzo ngaye; - ukucindezeleka ngokomzwelo - amadoda awayekezeli ukucindezela kwabo, futhi-ke, ikakhulukazi ngokomzwelo, uma ufuna ukufakazela okuthile kuye, yeka ukumisa, kungcono uzame ukukholisa ngezimpendulo ezizwakalayo;
- ukuthuka ngokweqile - kuyingozi, ngokuba nobuhlobo. Khumbula, ungalokothi uhlazise umuntu, ikakhulukazi emphakathini. Amadoda amaningi angathethelela okuningi, kodwa hhayi ukuhlazeka umphakathi kuphela.