Njengoba ukuhlakanipha kwabantu kuthiwa, ukugcina isikhathi akulutho nje kuphela ukuhlonipha amakhosi. Kodwa kwaba umkhuba wabaningi noma ngisho nesimo sengqondo sokuthi intombazane, isibonelo, ngosuku kumele ngaso sonke isikhathi iphuze imizuzu engu-15. Kodwa-ke, lo mkhuba omazayo wokukhohlwa ukuthi ukugcina isikhathi kusho ukuthini ukuthi ungenalo imfanelo yokuphila engenakuphela kwabesifazane abathile kuphela, kodwa futhi nobulili obuqinile.
Incazelo yegama lokugcina isikhathi ukugcwaliseka okucacile kwemiyalelo enikeziwe, ukunemba okukhulu. Lokhu kuyimfanelo yomlingisi, okunamathela ngokungapheli emithethweni ethile nemibandela, futhi lokhu konke kungenakuqhathaniswa nokuxhunyaniswa nesikhathi, nekhono kokubili kokufika ngesikhathi sokuqokwa, njll, futhi unikeze umsebenzi odingekayo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Uma ukhohlwa njalo ukuthi isikhathi sokugcina isiJalimane sikuphi, sikhuluma ngawe njengomuntu onesizotha, umuntu ongenakuziphendulela, ongathembeki, lokhu kubonisa ukungabi nesiyalo sakho.
Ngendlela, mayelana nokugcina isikhathi saseJalimane. I-Germany lizwe elikhethekile kakhulu kuwo wonke umqondo wegama. Futhi ibona kuphela inkolo yangempela yokugcina isikhathi. AmaJalimane abheka ukubambezeleka ukuthi kube yindlela embi, ikakhulukazi uma kubhekene nabafundi, ngakho-ke ukulibaziseka kwamasonto nezinkulumo. Uma kwadingeka uphile nge-non-time yakho eJalimane, amaJalimane azohlangana nokulibazisa okulandelayo ngamazwi: "Namuhla, njengenjwayelo, ngokusho kwesikhathi saseRussia."
Uma umuntu ephuzile, kunomqondo wokuthi udalwe ukuthi akakwazi kahle ukubeka phambili phambili futhi akakwazi ukuqonda ukubaluleka kokubili kwabantu empilweni yakhe nasezenzweni zakhe, futhi ngenxa yalokho, yena ngokwakhe. Phela, uyakhohlwa ngokubaluleka kwalesi sici somlingiswa njengesikhathi sokugcina.
Akuyona into ehlukile ukuthi abaphathi bakho noma abantu abahluphekayo ngesikhathi sakho sokukhohlwa sekwephuzile bazobheka ukubambezeleka kwakho njengobonakaliso bokunganaki nokungahloniphi. Isibopho kanye nokugcina isikhathi kukhona imiqondo ehlobene. Ukungabikho komunye wabo kuholele ekulahlekelweni kwenhlonipho evela kubantu abalulekile kuwe (ozakwabo, obaziyo, ozakwethu, abangane), imali nesikhathi.
Abantu abagcina isikhathi bayakwazi ukwahlukanisa isikhathi sabo, bayazi ukuthi bayayithanda kanjani, okusho ukuthi bayamakhosi aphelele okuphila kwabo. Ukuqaphela ukugcina isikhathi kubonisa ukuthi uhlonipha umuntu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyahamba nawe nje ukuba uthole isidlo sasemini noma ukuphetha isivumelwano sebhizinisi. Abanye abantu sebephuzile kakhulu emhlanganweni ukuze babonise ukubaluleka nokubaluleka kwabo. Kodwa ngalokhu abonisa ukungabi nhlonipho kulabo ababalindele, bese beba isikhathi somuntu wabanye abantu.
Cabanga ngamasu abasiza embuzweni wokuthuthukisa ukugcina isikhathi:
- Ukuzwa isikhathi. Ngenkathi uphethe iwashi noma isitimela, ubale amasekhondi angu-60 ngaphandle kokubheka. Ngemuva kwalokho, hlola imiphumela. Bese uzama ukucacisa iminithi, kodwa ungabala imizuzwana futhi ubuyekeze imiphumela yakho futhi. Uma kwenzeka umehluko phakathi kwesikhathi sakho sokuziphendulela kanye nongokoqobo, kudingeka wenze lo msebenzi ngamaviki amabili. Kuphela emva kwalokho uzobona umphumela ocacile.
- Iwashi le-alamu. Kusukela ngesikhathi lapho udinga ukuphuma, khipha ama-cola 10-15 amaminithi. Hlanganisa iwashi lakho le-alamu ngalesi sikhathi futhi manje ungazizwa ukhululekile.
- Ibhokisi le-champagne. Uma uqaphela ukuthi ukungaqondanga kahle akulungile, khona-ke ungafaka ingozi futhi uphikisane nabalingani bakho noma abangane bakho okuqala kusasa, uzoba umuntu wokugcina isikhathi. "Ibhokisi nge-champagne" yikulahleka kwakho okubonakalayo uma ungagcinanga isithembiso sakho.
- Amahora akhathazekile. Zama ukuhumusha imicibisholo yokubuka kwakho imizuzu engu-10-15 ngaphambili. Ngemva kwesikhashana ujwayele "amahora akho okuphuthumayo" futhi amathuba akho okuphuza anganciphisa kakhulu.
- Ithikithi eya endizeni. Uma uhlela noma yimuphi umhlangano, cabanga ukuthi uya esikhumulweni sezindiza futhi udinga ukuba ngesikhathi esimisiwe endaweni enqunyiwe, ngaphandle kwalokho ithikithi lakho lendiza lingaphonswa ebhokisini lokuvota. Akekho oyokulinda.
Ngakho-ke, njengoba kubonakala, ukuba umuntu wokugcina isikhathi kulula kakhulu. Kudingekile kakhulu ukuthi ufune futhi ungafunda ukuthi uhlale isikhathi ngesikhathi esihleliwe.