Izazi zengqondo zithi uthando lungatholakala ngokusebenza ngokwakho, ngoba kuxhomeke kakhulu kumlingiswa wakho, imibono yakho empilweni, isimo sakho sengqondo ngokuqondene nalokho okwenzekayo. Uma ukhathalela ngempela ngombuzo wokuthi ungaba kanjani intombazane ethandekayo, uzibheke njengokungathi uvela ngaphandle.
Uma ungahlali ujabule nomsebenzi, indawo yakho, ekugcineni, isimo sezulu; uma isimo sakho esiyinhloko singaneliseki wonke umuntu nento yonke, akekho umuntu ozothola uthakazelisayo. Ungapendeli owesifazane, futhi ngisho nangaphezulu-intombazane encane, ukukhwabanisa, okwenza kakhulu ukuhleka noma ukuxoxa. Yiqiniso, akungabazeki ukuthi uzokhokhwa, kepha ngabe luhlobo luni lomlingiswa ozobe luba khona - zicabange wena.
Abanye abantu bacabanga ukuthi intombazane enhle imnandi ngempela. Akunjalo, futhi ngisho nangaphezulu kaningi kunalokho, umhlobiso onjalo awuvuzwa ubuhle obubandayo, obuthandayo ukubukeka kwakhe ngezibuko, kodwa umkhwenyana obonakala ngokujwayelekile, kodwa umheha ngokuvuleka kwakhe, isimo sengqondo esihle, ukucabanga okubanzi, ikhono lokulalela. Ngokuvamile bathi ngaleyo ndlela: "kuwo - ulwandle olumnandi!"
Ungaba kanjani owesifazane othakazelisayo nowomusa?
Kodwa uma ufuna ukufunda ukuthi ungaba kanjani ubuhle futhi ukhangele amadoda, zihlolisise ngokwakho futhi uhlele phansi ukuze usebenze:
- sebenzisa ekubukeni kwakho: kufanele ufunde ukubheka imfashini futhi enhle, kodwa hhayi izingubo ezikhanyayo - ezigqamile kakhulu noma eziyinkimbinkimbi futhi ukwakheka okufanayo ngeke kukuvumele ukuba uqonde umphefumulo wakho, futhi abaningi bayomane baxoshwe;
- Vakashela ubuhle be-salon - vumela ochwepheshe bakusize ukhethe i-hairstyle ezofihla ukuphutha (uma ikhona) futhi izogcizelela isithunzi sakho. Kodwa ngisho noma ungafuni ukuwuguqula, izinwele zakho kufanele zilungiswe njalo futhi zihlanzeke;
- qaphela indlela yakho, indlela yokuxhumana - lokhu kubalulekile.
Nokho, izinguquko zangaphandle akuzona zonke. Owesifazane othakazelisayo, njengombuso, ayingqayizivele. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ngamunye wabo unento ethile, eyingqayizivele, futhi yile "zest" eyenza kanjalo.
Ukuze ube nesibindi, kuzodingeka ukuthi ufunde ukuzethemba, hhayi kuphela ngaphandle, kodwa futhi ngaphakathi. Abantu abanesizotha, njengomthetho, banomqondo othize owenza umehluko kwabanye:
- banombono obanzi, bazi futhi bazi okuningi, futhi babelane ngolwazi lwabo ngenjabulo;
- bayabamba ngokuqiniseka, ngokuvamile baholi kanye "nomphefumulo wenkampani";
- zihlukaniswa nokuphila okulindelekile nokuzinhloso. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, akalokothi abeke umbono wabo, ngokuvamile ukhululekile futhi uqaphele.