Umbuzo wokuthi ungathola ukuphefumulelwa kuvame ukuthinteka kuphela kubantu abadala abadinga ukulungiswa kokudala. Lo mzwa uyadingeka empilweni yansuku zonke, ngoba lokhu kuyisimo somdlandla, lapho "Ngifuna ukuhlala nokusebenza" kusiza ngokugcwele ukuxazulula ngokuphelele imisebenzi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kufana nesimiso esithwele noma ukudala ezinye izinto zokudala.
Imithombo yokuphefumlelwa iyindawo yonke indawo, kodwa asiziqapheli ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kodwa abantu abadala ngempela bayakwazi ukujabulela konke. Ngokwesiko, ugqozi lokudala lubizwa ngokuthi i-muse. Izinkondlo eziningi ziphendukela kulomlingiswa wezingqikithi, ukuzenza umuntu futhi ukuveza ngesimo senkosikazi. Eqinisweni, kulula kakhulu ukuthola ukukhuthazwa nokukhuthazwa:
Uthando
Ukulandela isibonelo sezinkondlo nabalobi, i-muse oyinhloko yithandwa. Uma uthola uthando, usezingeni elikhethekile kakhulu, futhi konke okusemandleni akho ukuthola imibala emisha. Futhi, njengoba siyazi, uthando olukhuthazayo noluthandekayo, futhi alujabuli. Yiqiniso, ukhetho lokugcina luvame ukugqugquzela ubuciko, kunokuphila okujabulisayo okuvamile. Noma kunjalo, ukuphefumulelwa kothando kuye kwaba umthombo onamandla kakhulu weminyaka eyizinkulungwane.
Ukuzilibazisa
Indlela yokuthola ugqozi uma impilo igugile futhi iyabukeka, futhi ungenzi lutho ngomphefumulo nhlobo? Ukubhala izincwadi, izinkondlo, izithombe noma umculo kungakhuthaza umuntu ngaphakathi. Kuyaziwa ukuthi uma umuntu edala, usesimweni esingavamile kakhulu, ngokuvumelana nalokho okwenzeka ngesikhathi sothando.
Art
Ukuze uqonde ukuthi ungathola kuphi ukuphefumulela empilweni yakho, ungaguqula ubuciko. Ukufunda izincwadi ezinkulu (kodwa hhayi amanoveli amathebhu kanye nabaphenyi), imibukiso ehambela ngemidwebo yabaculi abahle noma ngisho nomculo we-classic ngezinye izikhathi kungasiza umuntu athole ezinzulu ezijulile ezifihliwe ekuqaleni.Imvelo
Imvelo ihlale iphefumulelwe abantu bokudala. Khumbula okungenani i- "Boldinsky Autumn" ngo-Pushkin. Noma kunjalo, noma iyiphi imbongi uzothola izinkondlo eziningi ezinikezwa ngobukhulu bemvelo kamama. Uma empilweni yakho kukhona ubuhle obanele bokujabula - uhambe epaki noma ehlathini, uye olwandle noma emfuleni.
Izilwane
Uthando lwezilwane ezifuywayo luhlobo olumangalisayo lokunamathiselwe esikulo. Njengomthetho, sibona kuphela ezimweni ezibucayi: lapho isilwane sigula noma sibi kakhulu. Uma kungenalo uthando olwanele empilweni yakho, qaphela ukuthi lesi sidalwa esiphila kahle kakhulu kangakanani kuwe. Dweba ugqozi ngokuzinikela kwezilwane - ngoba abantu ngezinye izikhathi abakwazi ngisho nemicabango enamandla kangaka.
Ama-Idols
Uma ufuna ukufezekisa okuthile, ungafunda isithunzi sesithombe sakho futhi uthole ukuthi wakhuphuka kanjani izinyathelo zokuphumelela nenkazimulo. Yile ndlela eyokusiza ukuba ukholelwe kuwe futhi uqaphele ukuthi abantu abadume kakhulu emhlabeni wethu nabo baqale bazincane futhi banqoba ubunzima.
Iphupho
Njengoba kungase kubonakale sengathi kwakungabonakali, into enjalo engabonakali njengephupho ingaba ngumthombo oqine kakhulu wokuphefumulelwa. Ngempela, uma ubamba umlilo ngomqondo othile, ngokuqinisekile uzokwazi ukuthola amandla amaningi ukunqoba noma yiziphi izithiyo ekusetshenzisweni kwalo. Ukuphefumulelwa okuvezwa yiphupho kungukuphefumula okuhlanzekile - uyithatha kuwe, futhi awudingi lutho oluvela ezweni langaphandle ngalokhu.
Uma wazi ukuthi udinga umoya wokuphefumulela, yibuke eduze kwakho. Yiqiniso, kuyoba kuhle ukuhola ugqozi emazweni angaphandle, kodwa kuyamangalisa - eduze. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi wena ngokwakho ngokungahambi kahle kudlula lokho okungakugqugquzela isikhathi eside.